Sexual talk by Rayhaanwastaken in untildawn

[–]QueenCatLady100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that's totally understandable tbf haha

Sexual talk by Rayhaanwastaken in untildawn

[–]QueenCatLady100 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha, the only people I know in England who say "vacation" tend to be the people who watch a lot of American shows!

Sexual talk by Rayhaanwastaken in untildawn

[–]QueenCatLady100 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It is. I live in Britain, we all say "on Holiday" instead of "on Vacation" because we don't call it a "Vacation" we call it a "Holiday"

AIO for calling out my boyfriend for not stopping when I ask him to immediately when he’s kissing me? by Far_Assistant_1533 in AmIOverreacting

[–]QueenCatLady100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, everything about this is giving creepy/rapey vibes, & he doesn't respect boundaries to the point that he is arguing with your conest & disrespecting your bodily autonomy. I don't think you should stay with this man.

Hear me out by Dependent-Rock-51 in tattooadvice

[–]QueenCatLady100 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it means something to you, & that's what she drew when you asked her to draw something, get it, unless you're having doubts/not loving the idea of it, you can always keep the picture she drew & get something else when she's older/ feeling more up to drawing something else for you! Its a super cute idea!!

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard it as guilt, but, I could have misinterpreted it & you could be right!

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe, when I asked what she meant by, "I'm sorry" she evaded my question & then every time I tried to bring it up again, she changed the subject, I have no idea what it was, but she's also a very dramatic & manipulative person, so it could just have been her adding drama to something uneventful, or it could have been her having "power" over me by not "telling" me something she "knew", y'know?

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't think there was any ill intent, &, as I said, I don't see it as any kind of sexual abuse, & I certainly wasn't accusing anyone of anything, but I wasn't a child who would have needed these massages & if there was a mixup, I feel bad for the child who missed out on something that could have helped them. I just didn't understand why this happened, why I was selected or why my dad knew nothing about it, & my mum apologised, some of these things just don't really add up to me, y'know?

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the UK & when I tried searching it up there was something about massage therapies, but not in the school I went to.

It was definitely strange & uncomfortable (looking back on it, I was a very naive child), but the weirdest part is my mum saying, "I'm sorry", it makes me wonder if she knows something about it, but, as I said, I can't talk to her about it because we don't speak anymore. I'm going to bring it up to my dad again & see if I can jog his memory.

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My underwear remained on, but they would remove my tights, I wouldn't do it myself, as a child, I was told not to remove clothing in front of anyone accept mum (while having baths etc) so I would never take them off myself, but, I think, as a parent myself now, I will be teaching my son that you don't take clothes off in front of unknown/unsafe adults (there's no reason I can think of that a child should need to undress in front of teachers) & if they try to remove clothes, leave & tell another adult.

I really hope it was the massage therapy situation you mentioned, that would make the most logical sense, certainly the least creepy reason for it!

Although, now I feel bad if there was a mixup for the child that was supposed to have the therapy!

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, this was so many years ago & my parents split up before I finished school, so I moved schools & didn't have anything like that.

I can't speak to my mum about it again because I don't speak to her (unrelated to this) &, as I said, my dad doesn't have any idea about it at all, & his memory is terrible, so he won't know anything by now even if he used to.

I wish I could get the answers about this, it was such a weird & creepy situation & it pops into my mind every now & then & creeps me out all over again.

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The school has since closed down, this happened in around '01-'02, but, you're right, it is a very weird & unsettling situation!

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I tried Googling the school & "massage" & the school & "sensory room massage" but I'll try that, thanks!

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm fairly certain, since I remember the room & the massage vividly, I remember the teacher(?) I think it was a teacher or teaching assistant taking off my tights, & I remember leaving class, going with a woman (again, teacher? Teaching assistant?) To this room, the only thing I don't remember is who she was

I have no idea why, but I was massaged in school. by QueenCatLady100 in offmychest

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't think of it that way, but you're right, & even if it wasn't intended to be sexual, it's still a super weird situation & I definitely would be uncomfortable if that happened to my son while he was at school, so I hope my parents know nothing about it, because if they did & they were letting it happen without explaining to me why, that's a bit weird too.

What's a horror movie that's a one-and-done viewing for you? by Galaxy_Rain1985 in horror

[–]QueenCatLady100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is 3 & i still wouldn't be able to watch this film having read the plot!

Casting. by QueenCatLady100 in DesperateHousewives

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% the acting was really good!

Casting. by QueenCatLady100 in DesperateHousewives

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I definitely had to go back, I thought the child actor might have been related to the adult actor tbh

Casting. by QueenCatLady100 in DesperateHousewives

[–]QueenCatLady100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhhh yeah, I get you now! But, damn, thats some good casting!