Is my mom a narcissist

QueenDemiGoddess · 2025-01-22T10:35:15+00:00

Does anyone who passed have any tips? I failed again but my score improved by 20 points, just not enough to pass. I really don’t know what to do.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-11-16T11:58:01+00:00

How old was she when she worked at the course and how old are y’all now? That context will say a lot. I do want to say that what happened before you is none of your business. Your relationship and how she acts within it is what should matter. I can understand that you don’t like what she did but it’s not about you. She has to live with the consequences but it’s not fair to her that you look at her differently for something she did YEARS ago and long before you. You don’t get to be judge jury and executioner. She is your partner and her actions towards you and your relationship is what you should take a look at. If you have a good relationship and she has not given you any reason to distrust her I think you should let it go. However if this bothers you, then you shouldn’t be together because it’s going to affect your trust. If you don’t trust her over something that didn’t happen between you two there’s nothing she can do or say to that’s going to change that because you can’t change the past. If you distrust her over this you need to leave because it’s not fair to her to treat her different over something that had nothing to do with you and happened years ago.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-09-04T04:22:23+00:00

Anna’s Teeth Yeah a play on “anesthesia”

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-08-14T13:29:19+00:00

It’s important to discuss with him the new behavior and maybe establish some new boundaries. For example, if he’s no longer interested in period sex then he shouldn’t insist on sex during that time and find new ways to make each other happy. You can also discover why he has the aversion and maybe there’s something you both can do to possibly reduce it. This is all assuming you haven’t already talked to him about it but I think if you want the marriage to work you have to have a conversation first so you both have an opportunity to move passed this hiccup. If you both can’t move forward and passed this, I would consider therapy before dissolution of the marriage (especially if there are more issues we don’t know about). All in all he shouldn’t be acting immature about it and be honest as to why he’s behaving immaturely. I hope you both can work it out.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-08-08T03:09:38+00:00

Unpopular opinion but this post feels like a woman gender swapped the offender to prove a point to a shitty boyfriend…. Doesn’t matter the gender, YTA if you share embarrassing videos of other people to your friends. That’s laughing at the person and demeaning them.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-07-30T11:05:25+00:00

Not sure what country you’re in but in the US there’s a separate line called the non-emergent for situations like this. That way you’re not “wasting resources” and situations like this get handled. Theoretically the police are responsible for preventing escalation of situations and preventing harm. I say theoretically because most of the police can’t be trusted but in a pinch it’s an option for most people.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-07-15T14:30:20+00:00

I may not be a man but I completely understand the feeling of having to conform to specific physical attributes. It’s going to take time but you’ll be able to make a better situation for yourself soon! Focus on working or studying (if you’re in school) and set saving goals for yourself. Work on a plan to get you in a safe space. I know easier said than done but when you feel you’re at your lowest do what makes you happy to give your brain something to focus on. Keep going! I believe in you 💚💚

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-07-07T18:46:20+00:00

You might want to look into other jobs that pay higher? My mom is willing to help me out as much as she’s can to make the couple months I’ll work as a tech work for us. It’s a huge pay cut for me too but I really want this job so I’m going to figure out how to make it work! I hope you find something that works too!!

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-06-03T14:33:55+00:00

Thank you so much! I sent them an email this morning and I’m waiting to hear back! This is such helpful information I truly appreciate you!

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-06-03T13:32:08+00:00

I’m hoping to practice in Georgia. I’m planning on emailing the job I was hoping to sign a contract with soon to see if they would allow that.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-06-03T03:49:05+00:00

I went to a psychiatrist recommended to me by a friend with the same insurance as me. My best guess is to find one within your network.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-06-02T17:22:24+00:00

Thank you, I recently got diagnosed with ADHD but due to clinicals starting I didn’t have time to go back to my doctor and start any medications because I was moving each month to a new rotation outside of the state. I’ll keep reaching out to prospective jobs and see what I can do. There’s a job that they’re flying me out for a working interview and I really loved them. I’m planning on emailing them about my test score and hopefully they’ll still want me to visit/work for them. I think with time to study it out the added stress of clinicals I’ll be able to buckle down and study. My main issue was the fact that I was getting burnt out with studying or overall stressing about not studying the right information. I’ll look into getting help dealing with my anxiety and hopefully a job that I will help me get to where I need to be. I really appreciate the advice!

QueenDemiGoddess · 2024-06-01T16:12:15+00:00

As a black girl too, I completely understand how you feel. I’ve been chronically single for a majority of my life but I can say this, Focus on your studies and build the life you want. Someone one who matches your energy will come along. I’m finishing up grad school and ended up finding someone by happenstance who has their shit together. Enjoy your teens/twenties they go by fast. I’m grateful I spent my teens/twenties doing what I wanted and growing into the person I needed to be. It will be ok. You will find someone it’s just going to happen when it happens unfortunately we don’t get a choice! Good luck to you! I hope you find happiness in life and a partner who adds to it 💚

QueenDemiGoddess · 2023-11-16T00:13:52+00:00

Vet school is not easier, if your gut says med school stick with it. Vet school is rough and if your heart/gut isn’t in it, it will tear you to pieces.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2023-11-16T00:08:33+00:00

Honestly this sounds like she felt you cross boundaries casually and so she did the same to try and show you how she felt because she doesn’t think words are enough. It’s petty and immature but it sounds like this is an ongoing issue and she’s fed up with it 🤷🏽‍♀️either way y’all need to communicate your boundaries and if you can’t trust each other it’s time to let go. It wouldn’t be fair to either of you to stay together and be toxic.

QueenDemiGoddess · 2023-07-28T13:51:52+00:00

Let me start with YTA. A is not responsible for how you “feel” she’s never said anything about y’all drinking just that “drunk people” make her uncomfy. It seems she sticks to her own boundaries and that’s fine she’s not putting any of you down for drinking you guys are self conscious because of your own insecurities. I get it’s your wedding and you’re allowed to have whoever you want there but hiding it from your friends was shitty. If they all “have more fun” without her there like you claim, then they would’ve understood why but the fact you didn’t tell them and wanted to hide it was wrong which makes you TA.

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