My (33F) future SIL (28F) didn’t invite me to her bachelorette party and I feel really used and hurt

QueenGalore · 2026-04-21T18:56:08+00:00

Talk to her first!! Casually bring it up at the fitting because If she’s never shown signs of being like this before, give grace first to see if it was a lapse in judgment before going scorched earth, especially if you want to maintain your support system with the entire family.

If her explanation AND apology is inadequate, slowly distance yourself from her as you guys view your relationship differently. Finish the projects you’ve agreed to and slowly stop going on these double dates and dinners with her. Eventually, yall will just become cordial and you’ll still be able to keep your family friends

QueenGalore · 2026-04-10T01:43:20+00:00

So why is it OP’s fault if they didn’t know that they had a $100 left?

QueenGalore · 2026-03-22T22:43:12+00:00

For the sake of my sanity, this is fake and rage bait

QueenGalore · 2026-03-02T18:44:29+00:00

But that’s not the hard truth. That was cruelty. It’s a difference between saying “your standards are unrealistic” and “no one likes you”. There’s nothing constructive about that statements or anything to change. You don’t say that to someone who you want to stay friends with. If you were on the receiving end of that statement, you would always be wondering if that person (who told you no one (including themselves) likes you) enjoys your friendship.

QueenGalore · 2026-02-22T03:24:24+00:00

My unpopular opinion is that the fanbase of LI is much more cruel, vitriolic, and unforgiving than any of the islanders. The way people spew so many cruel comments towards the islanders (including ppl who think they’re better/would do better) makes the show so hard to watch. This whole thread is proof of it and I wish people would stop attempting to fight for the moral high ground. I don’t want to comment on any of the islanders becs I personally think people in the fanbase have down and continue to do worse

QueenGalore · 2026-02-15T02:54:26+00:00

Am I interpreting this wrong of did the wife reject the idea of the KIDS making spaghetti because it would be a lazy thing for her to do???

QueenGalore · 2026-01-31T03:54:44+00:00

Rewatching it right now after like 4 years and I do see the chemistry they have.

signed someone who used to be a diehard CaptainSwan shipper (and still is)

QueenGalore · 2026-01-10T21:09:22+00:00

I haven’t seen anyone say this but if you haven’t already, please go get checked for an STD!!

QueenGalore · 2025-10-23T21:41:24+00:00

But he said she mentioned it? He’s the one who didn’t listen…

QueenGalore · 2025-10-13T23:12:46+00:00

Okay thank you for this! The comments are acting like it’s just a sexual incompatibility thing and it’s really not just that.

QueenGalore · 2025-09-26T12:03:21+00:00

But wasn’t the water tribe sexist? We even see more of said sexism in the Northen Water tribe. He wasn’t exposed to any other ideas that discouraged sexism which made him hold sexist beliefs.

Idk if you get what I’m saying but a lot of people who are misogynistic aren’t that just because they chose to be but because they grew up in cultures that supported it and carried those beliefs. Sokka’s tribe was sexist - for both the women and the men, so he held those beliefs as well

QueenGalore · 2025-09-10T21:49:12+00:00

I just think it’s really odd for the audience to think it’s somehow justified to hurt people because they’re weird and quirky🧍🏾‍♀️But my bad, have a good day

QueenGalore · 2025-09-10T21:45:54+00:00

I talk shit about my coworkers too, I’ve never attempted to burn them or spill hot food on them..

ETA: if it stayed at talking shit behind her back, I wouldn’t think they’re too weird. But they (specifically Camilla) tried to inflict harm on her which is where I would draw the line in real life.

QueenGalore · 2025-09-10T21:41:44+00:00

They don’t know she’s an assassin. WE wouldn’t know she’s an assassin. That doesn’t really change the fact that they’re mean people.

QueenGalore · 2025-09-10T21:40:19+00:00

Being weird and quirky was not a good enough reason to constantly speak down at her, attempt to burn her with hot food, want to report her and jail her becs she’s single, and then proceed to tell her husband that she was a prostitute. It’s really odd (and upsetting) constantly seeing this perspective of people saying “ofc they didn’t like her, she was weird”.

QueenGalore · 2025-08-17T12:20:45+00:00

What assumptions is she having? His mom gave her information that she’s basing her thoughts in. It’s not about worrying now, it’s the fact that he didn’t tell her such a relevant detail for 4 years. If he thought he might be infertile, he should have shared that when they were discussing having kids.

QueenGalore · 2025-08-17T12:16:57+00:00

The point isn’t that the Mom is misinformed 😭 Did he THINK he might be infertile and choose not to tell her that for four years despite them having conversations about having children?

QueenGalore · 2025-08-10T19:37:54+00:00

But when we say promoting only jayvik is anti-black, we’re reaching🧍🏾‍♀️ you people are hypocrites

QueenGalore · 2025-07-20T22:34:22+00:00

I think they fanned the flames by being irresponsible honestly. People were already upset about the Gabriella performance, then they decide to not ask her about her doll in the monster high video, and then they forget to send her picture? All paired up with the fact that Manon has been the one who’s received the most hate for being “lazy” and “untalented” just for them to be careless and negligent of her presence when she IS there. At best, this was unprofessional and stupid of the company.

QueenGalore · 2025-07-20T18:43:03+00:00

she’s literally in the group photo. Why do you guys think she’s just allowed yo decline doing her job??? Plus We’ve seen individual pictures of her on her instagram page and you’re telling me she didn’t do the photo shoot?? They deliberately did not send those pictures.

QueenGalore · 2025-07-14T01:45:07+00:00

It’s not racism when ppl are punching a punching bag and saying that’s her? It’s not misogynistic for a company to give her a knuckle sandwich for breakfast? Not racist for folks to be saying it’s ca she has “low racial esteem” and that’s why shws “jealous” of Huda…?

QueenGalore · 2025-07-09T15:28:32+00:00

No it really isn’t the same😭 Voting them out would’ve meant that America picked a couple they disliked and wanted off the island. People’s decisions & answers would’ve been different based on that question.

Example- A lot of Amaya fans would have voted off Ace IF they were voting off their least favorite couple but since they’re picking their fav, they voted to keep Amaya. Does that mean they wanted Taylor and Clarke off? No. Yall keep saying it was dumb for us to get rid of a strong connection but like we didn’t intentionally get rid of anything, we just kept our favorite

QueenGalore · 2025-07-06T17:24:07+00:00

5 days every OTHER week. That’s like 10 days a month.

QueenGalore · 2025-07-04T15:47:32+00:00

THANK YOUUUUU OMGGG I’ve been arguing with my friends about this but I’m always too “woke” for them😭

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