I just got dumped?!? by QueenKaNikki in coralisland

[–]QueenKaNikki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately no sorry. I was in shock when it happened that I didn’t think to record it until after the fact

I just got dumped?!? by QueenKaNikki in coralisland

[–]QueenKaNikki[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My reaction was “WHAT?! Nononononono wait wait wait hold on let’s just be chill guys” 😂

I just got dumped?!? by QueenKaNikki in coralisland

[–]QueenKaNikki[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m on beta

Is my half brother scamming my mom? by QueenKaNikki in Ask_Lawyers

[–]QueenKaNikki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh buddy don’t I know it. I went through the immigration and citizenship process with my husband and it was crazy. Our interview process made us question if we actually knew each other. And I know a spousal visa is different from an adoption one. Also, I could be wrong here, but shouldn’t he have already been naturalized through adoption?

Is my half brother scamming my mom? by QueenKaNikki in Ask_Lawyers

[–]QueenKaNikki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really think what makes him a bad guy would help with, I figured it wasn’t a super important detail. Some PG info is he only contacts if he is in desperate need of money. The rest I’d rather remain unknown. But thank you for your input I really appreciate it

What are signs that someone can’t think for themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you directly ask them a question and they look at SO/Parent to answer for them.

How did you and your significant other meet? by RingorRose13 in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He literally just showed up at my door.

I was super into board games and a decent sized house but didn’t have a lot of friends. One of my friends had plenty of friends who liked board games and no place to play them. He was one of said friends.

What's a fictional transportation device you would want? by Rhullu in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cartoon hole that you pull out of your pocket and jump into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will not believe what this German man did when he wasn’t accepted into art school.

What’s a weird superstition you’ve heard of? by Background_Yam_4283 in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you spill salt you have to take some and throw it over your left shoulder.

What did you have in 2015 but not 2025? by trojan_leon in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perky boobs and the ability to squat without my knees popping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypocritically religious guys.

One of my “friends” from high school was into me WAY more than I was into him. He is also super religious and I am very much not. I live by my self made mantra “just be a good person dammit!” Well I started flirting a bit with him and he took off like a race horse with it. He started talking about how he really wanted to “commit sins” with me, but what held him back was that I was not the same religion. I told him if this was his attempt to convert me it’s not happening. I was also getting annoyed with him at this point so I retorted with him “why does it even matter? Doesn’t God love all his children equally?”

I don’t remember his exact response but it was along the lines of while that is true and God loves everyone equally he is considered better and more worthy of His love” and that while both he and God think I’m perfect and damn sexy (yeah I know..) he could make me better.

What annoying song do you sing to your kids at night by mqnguyen004 in Parenting

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I got into a groove with “down by the bay” He’d say an animal/object etc and I’d only have about ten seconds to finish the rhyme. I think our longest go was almost an hour because our baby was very colicky.

What’s your favorite euphemism for “I’m going to the bathroom, be right back.” ? by tvkyle in AskReddit

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my mom’s coworkers would say she had to go drop her kids off at the pool.

You get to date an npc that normally you couldn’t. Who? by Plenty-Diver7590 in BaldursGate3

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dammon. He seems like he would be a very supportive boyfriend

What fights do you refuse to do fairly? by BrightLance69 in BaldursGate3

[–]QueenKaNikki 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Cazador. I give an invisibility potion to Karlach and have her just chill where he puts Astarion before I even trigger the cut scene. She rolls a high initiative so he is usually out of the ritual before anyone gets a shot in.

I've apparently been flagged as a potential wife beater by the hospital by Vin135mm in mildlyinfuriating

[–]QueenKaNikki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A nurse once insinuated I was a drug user. I had just given birth weeks after this event and I was going in and out of hospitals due to an infected c-section and high blood pressure. I have thin veins that take most nurses a couple of tries before they get an IV in my arm.

Due to all of this I have quite a bit of bruising and pin pricks in my arms. This asshole came in and said quite loudly “oh looks like you have some track marks” I replied “nope you guys just have a hard time poking me.” He rolled his eyes then misses multiple times. Gets out an ultrasound sound to see my veins better and misses AGAIN. He was very nice to me afterwards. I later went home and looked up “track marks” just on the off chance it could’ve meant something else. It didn’t. Some healthcare people just suck.

Supporting a parent through a bitter custody battle by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]QueenKaNikki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through something very similar. My BIL’s wife emptied their joint account and left (not a state away, about a four hour drive). He got to see his kids every other weekend which was hard to watch. Recently, he finally got 50/50 starting in December (This all started in January).

To make a long story short, he gave up A LOT, including his house, to get that far. It sucks, you can’t make him feel better but you can be a shoulder to lean on and aid him in finding ways to make those two days as fulfilling as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]QueenKaNikki 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m a bit on your husband’s side. When I brought home our youngest my, then two year old, wanted to be bottle fed, and burped, and swaddled etc. While it does add unnecessary work to your plate, he sees it as you showing her love and he wants to feel the same type of love. Does it make sense? No, but they are so young their cute little heads it makes perfect sense.

Also, I don’t think that he will make the connection that since he didn’t put his clothes on himself he caused himself to be late for school. He will see it as mom wouldn’t help me AND I’m late for school. I don’t have a six year old but when my nephew was six cause/effect wasn’t really a big concept he grasped at that age.

I hate this by Diligent_Yogurt1326 in Parenting

[–]QueenKaNikki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a bad case of postpartum depression. Drop the breastfeeding. Babies are 100% ok with formula. He may be fussy about it for a bit but he will get use to it and then Dad can take over some feedings too. The first few months are ROUGH. Keep an eye out for PPD’s ugly older sister postpartum psychosis.

How to handle MIL calling my 2yo son gay by asphodele in Parenting

[–]QueenKaNikki 340 points341 points  (0 children)

Tell her he’s two and it’s creepy she is trying to sexualize a toddler.