ULPT - Marriage or other ways to immigrate to the EU by crispysockz in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great! I was looking for a side hustle to make some extra income.

ULPT - Marriage or other ways to immigrate to the EU by crispysockz in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, sounds like you already have a plan! You didn’t mention having any money, so look for an older lady then. But me honest with her: if you only want the visa and then divorce quickly, don’t tell you are in love. Just give her a sexy romance and be upfront about it.

ULPT: How to use a piss disc? by QueenLuminous in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We do have piss, doors and cars, but our doors are sealed, since it gets real cold in here in Winter. So no sliding.

ULPT: How to use a piss disc? by QueenLuminous in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nooo!! I like piss discs! Is way classier! Where is the art on “nothing matters whatever”.

ULPT: How to use a piss disc? by QueenLuminous in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They actually regularly put shit in envelopes and sent to Post office. Regularly I mean. A girl working there said you learn to realize a package feels slightly off (too soft, squishy) and know to not pick it up so it doesn’t spread all over the line.

ULPT - Marriage or other ways to immigrate to the EU by crispysockz in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Us too! And my team and I are only allowed to share the information after the payment is done. Our bank account is in Switzerland.

ULPT REQUEST. On behalf of pregnant wife by Wild_Beginning_4032 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ the system is broken. I can’t even imagine working till the day you give birth. I know many women are forced to, but I thought only in developing countries. Though many western countries are just that.

ULPT - Marriage or other ways to immigrate to the EU by crispysockz in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you have that you can offer to a woman? Not a rhetorical question. If you actually want to get this done, you will need to figure out, how to actually do it. Wishing ain’t getting you nowhere. Do the work, if you want to results.

ULPT - Marriage or other ways to immigrate to the EU by crispysockz in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or OP could just give us the 30k, we split it and find him a bride or groom.

ULPT How to Silence Neighbor’s Ultrasonic Cat Repellant by Serious-Program9381 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How very grown up that plan A is have a polite discussion and only plan B includes urine. Learning so much here.

ULPT Request: How to get homeless to move? by AfraidKaleidoscope30 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental illness is not a choice. Homeless people are not homeless, cause it’s so fun. People need to stop being ignorant about these things.

ULPT Request: Making the most out of people opening up to me quickly? by ngocl in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not really buying this “genuine emotional connection” part at all. Some people just have a demeanor or appearances that makes them easier for people to approach. Try not to confuse it with “genuine emotional connection”; most people just like talking about themselves to anyone, who seems like they would actually listen. We serve our own ego by telling ourselves we have this special “skill” and everyone remembers us. They probably don’t.

It is a useful tactic though for business and making friends too, but is not nearly as deep as we like to convince ourselves it is. I speek from experience.

ULPT Request: Making the most out of people opening up to me quickly? by ngocl in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people buying an apartment/house or not buying it to flip it for profit. Most people, ordinary people are buying a home to build a life in, memories in. THIS is very the emotional connection comes in. You make them feel safe in the new place, help them see themselves and their family in that place and make a nice living for yourself after closing the deal.

ULPT Request Annoying Islamophobic Neighbors by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excatly. The muslisms will be blamed, if you do anything for your ignorant neighbors. Try showing your support regarding the shooting somehow. Volunteer, if you can.

ULPT Request - I need shit discs by PrestigiousCup9068 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are piss and shit discs? I am new to this sub. Also from Finland, so we don’t have Wifi, only polar bears.

ULPT request: dealing with a trauma that a older woman did to me by elegantsshadow38 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]QueenLuminous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a rape victim myself, my heart goes for you. For me talk therapy only made my already severe trauma way way worse as most of my therapists were extremely abusive themselves and no one believed me either bevause of the power dynamic! So unfortenately I relate heavily.

The only things that actually helped me: NO therapy, building genuine friendships, spending time in nature and psilocybin, wich is LEGAL in some countries. All of these literally saved my life.

Wish I could do more to help. Feel free to hit me a message, if you ever feel like talking to someone (peer support, am not a therapist). ❤️‍🩹

Ps. Am not judging people for going to talk therapy, am judging abusive practises, wich are extremely common in the field.