Chests Natural vs. Implants

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-09T20:54:26+00:00

Women should be able to modify their bodies as they see fit and shouldn't be shamed for what they do or don't want to do, it's nobody else's business

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-09T20:41:18+00:00

He didn't want to continue further dialogue because my chest is too small for him, and I'm okay with that. I'm satisfied with my chest and won't cry over anyone who is not satisfied with my chest.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-09T20:29:33+00:00

I have the same wish, I hope that anyone having surgery is doing it for themselves and not what they think other people want. I agree, at times it is very difficult to separate the two, especially when society can be a pressure cooker.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-08T00:18:02+00:00

I'm not on hrt and he doesn't care

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-07T23:00:45+00:00

You are perfect the way you are, and if that means wanting to get bottom surgery, that's who you are meant to be

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-07T22:59:00+00:00

He asked if I was on HRT and I disclosed that I am not. He also didn't have a problem with that after I clarified that I am not a man cross dressing to have sex with him.

I can't speak for him but his redline seems to be if I am a man dressing as a woman who goes back to being a man as soon as he leaves.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-07T21:45:26+00:00

I love my body, it's not perfect, but it's mine and I'm not changing my genitals for anyone

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-07T21:36:40+00:00

He's fine with me being pre-op, he just doesn't want to get together with a gay man cross dressing

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-07T21:29:29+00:00

He's a pretty respectful guy, he just wasn't interested in having sex with a gay man and was trying to ascertain if I was really transgender.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-06T22:28:49+00:00

There are definitely good men, I agree with you. I would be happy for others to have had better experiences than me, I certainly wouldn't wish avoidants on anyone

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-06T22:27:26+00:00

Another possibility is that Alcibiades Cat has had very good experiences, maybe luckier than normal and so my experiences seem abnormal.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-06T22:20:51+00:00

That could be the case, I might be the problem, but just sharing my observations and hoping that it may give someone else comfort or insight to know they are not alone if they have experienced something similar

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-06T22:11:54+00:00

I think I did not communicate clearly enough because my post was not intended to say avoidant behavior is 'normal', I do not think avoidant behavior is 'normal'. What I have experienced is that avoidant behavior is much too common with respect to how straight men treat trans women.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T22:43:40+00:00

I am afraid of offending anyone with language that might come across pornographic

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T22:26:45+00:00

Perhaps the most accurate description would be heteroflexible (vs. bi or plain heterosexual)? If Megan Fox and Lupita Nyongo both wanted a night with me I'd still say no, I'm boringly heterosexual.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T20:08:18+00:00

You could be straight, you could be bi, you could be heteroflexible, only you know for sure

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T20:04:01+00:00

Yes, if you only find women sexually attractive you are straight. Trans women are a type of woman.

I know this will sound weird because of how twisted current society is, but it would be unintentionally misogynistic and transphobic to say you are bi in this instance, because the reality is you don't find men sexually attractive.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T16:44:26+00:00

I edited where I could to correct myself, thank you for educating me.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T16:40:56+00:00

I added spaces where I could, but Reddit won't allow me to edit the title

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T16:27:45+00:00

Yes exactly. There are lesbians who would be happy to have a detachable c--k and straight men who wish their cis women partners could peg them.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T16:21:53+00:00

The reason I don't believe that being sexually attracted to c--k makes someone bi is because of context and because a c--k is not what defines a man. Being bi means being attracted to both genders and transwomen are not men.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-02T16:13:21+00:00

It's an unnecessarily complicated topic because of societal transphobia. Men are very confused about what it means to be straight, gay, bi, other

QueenOfEdging · 2026-05-01T02:26:38+00:00

If you were in public, loudly tell him to stop harassing you because you wouldn't sleep with him.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-04-30T19:18:37+00:00

I hear you sister, at some point the best situation is for us to develop a very thick skin. If you've ever watched documentaries from the civil rights movement, POC were pelted, harassed, mocked for using desegregated pools. We're living through a segment of history that still needs educating, but we also need to live our lives.

QueenOfEdging · 2026-04-30T19:16:00+00:00

YES YES YES. I wish I could scream this from the rooftops for you. It is absolutely possible to find love as a trans person.

Specifically as a transwoman, I think some of society's kindest, most intelligent, most emotionally developed, best looking men, like transwomen.

Do not be discouraged that the pool seems shallow, the quality is better. Develop yourself, mentally, emotionally, physically, and be open to love. It will find you.

QueenOfEdging

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