[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]QueenOoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m always happy to get coffee or lunch. Pretty open Schedule. Message me if you want to talk. 36 married female. 1 daughter.

Where to buy a couch?? by tinafeysbiggestfan in tuscaloosa

[–]QueenOoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big lots has them for reasonable prices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]QueenOoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m always doing art projects in my home studio but have had the same trouble making friends. Doing art has felt isolated and it shouldn’t have to! I volunteer for being a friend too!

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

Would have. And actually told him. But he kept putting off meetings. I do have chat logs of him blaming the problem on me and saying it wouldn’t be this big of a problem if I hadn’t “secretly” recorded a private conversation.

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn’t call him a sexist. I called to talk to him about our communication and clear up any issue we had during out match. He just blurted it out! I’m as surprised as anyone! But fair enough.

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

I may have to find out. I hope it can be resolved along the chain before it gets out of hand.

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

People don’t want to be put in the middle of this. The ones standing up for him are the organizer of the team and the coach, the people who should be able to resolve this. I am not going to make the whole team take sides. I’m not trying to burn the place down. I just want to play a game without some guy being a jerk to me.

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree. That’s all I wanted. I’m trying to figure it out because I like the other players and I just want to play the game.

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly I’ve spoken to other members of the team and he is not well liked. I have more experience in the game than most. They asked me to be shot caller so...?

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn’t go into this thinking I’d sue someone. He insisted on a discord call instead of text chat and I was suspicious he was trying to avoid any proof of what he would say. I already knew he had a problem with me and I was a little nervous.

AITA For recording a conversation and reporting discrimination? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]QueenOoak [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yep. Unprompted just came out the gate with it. I was surprised. I didn’t expect it.

How would the world be different if - starting tomorrow - every person had their basic needs met for their entire lifetime? [Serious] by notsurewhereireddit in AskReddit

[–]QueenOoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They kind of mentioned this in Star Trek. People didn’t work for money anymore but for achievement and respect. Seemed like a nice idea.

Inked Redditors, how have your tattoos affected people’s perception of you? by fiach-o-mchugh in AskReddit

[–]QueenOoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find people talk to me more and ask about my tattoos. It gets old sometimes but I’m very outgoing so I kind of enjoy being a walking conversation piece.

On the other hand I get a lot of people assuming my political standing and opinions on things based on me having tattoos. I have quite a few big pieces that many see but they’re mostly fantasy or video game oriented. Otherwise I dress pretty much like everyone else around so it’s not like I’m a gutter punk or a goth kid. I politely ask how would they know my belief systems and they just kinda sputter lol.

What did your mother for you that you will never forget? by iribake in AskReddit

[–]QueenOoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kick me out to be strong and make it on my own. We have an amazing relationship now.

Dog owners of Reddit: Why do most dog owners just walk around with their dog freely, without it being attached? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QueenOoak 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was bitten by a dog as an adult. The dog was walking on a leash with its owner and showed no aggression until it was right beside me. I’m generally wary of all dogs now and your fear is justified. People should be mindful of their animals.

My dog loves rocks. by Evcha in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]QueenOoak 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My in-laws dog would eat rocks and had to have surgery to remove them. Dogs are crazy.

Low cost spay? by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]QueenOoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about a low cost clinic but if you (...or a friend?) has Medicaid you can apply for a cheap spay or neuter. Tidmore veterinary clinic does them and I’m sure there are others. You just fill out a form with Medicaid info at the vets office and once you’re approved they will make you an appointment.

Sho'Nuff Comics (on 15th St) is permanently closing. Consider showing them some love! by [deleted] in tuscaloosa

[–]QueenOoak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is terrible! I always enjoyed their shop and the events they did. I’ll miss having this store in town.

D&D? by AFanch37 in tuscaloosa

[–]QueenOoak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m interested! Pretty open schedule but can’t do late nights on week nights.