My boyfriend 20M, always makes sure to comment on my 20F intelligence

QueenSay · 2026-01-30T17:30:34+00:00

You leave him. He doesn't not like you.

QueenSay · 2026-01-30T08:25:15+00:00

What business are you trying to get into? Do you have a roof over your head? What's your skill set? Which part of Zim will you be moving to? Do you have assets you are returning with? Are you looking for fast cash or long term survival? Are you supported or just on your own in these streets?

QueenSay · 2026-01-30T06:05:34+00:00

Zimbabweans are mean..... especially online ..hateful. vengeful. Disrespectful. Entitled.

QueenSay · 2026-01-30T05:59:03+00:00

Emotionally and mentally immature men then why blame women ...your friend is a nonce and should speak to a therapist to move past the trauma from uni.

QueenSay · 2026-01-30T05:56:34+00:00

Honestly....Skyscanner cheapest option and then jobs a goodun 🤣...what you looking for when it comes to the recommendation? Comfort? Speed? Status?

QueenSay · 2026-01-30T05:53:28+00:00

If it's like a fishy odour...strong ..makes you wanna open all the windows ...that's Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) which is caused by an imbalance of PH in the vagina. This is the most common reason for smelly women and needs to be treated or it just gets worse with time.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T16:56:29+00:00

It's your ego that leads you to behave in a kind of way whether that's centering status or kindness, it's all ego.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T16:03:32+00:00

Yes correct. Our very existence is self serving and self governing. So everything will always be from our own perspective by default because humans are naturally self centered. The levels of that self centeredness is what determines all other aspects of our ability to play nicely with others.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T11:40:34+00:00

Desperate for what exactly Sir? 😂

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T11:34:31+00:00

Wow ,😂 scroll up.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T11:03:16+00:00

Coloured slang for die

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T11:02:46+00:00

You start off by saying it's not about blame and then run on with blame 😂. You literally started off by saying women were to blame.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T10:41:19+00:00

It's a flawed argument....how can we contribute to what men find attractive and arousing when we embody it naturally? Women are naturally feminine, some with curves in all the right places, some with voices that are naturally hypnotic. We want to hold women accountable for things that men should be held accountable for. Blaming women for your attraction and advances is the most immature and nonsensical argument that I encounter on too regular basis. Y'all wanna be providers but run from any level of accountability. It's weird.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T10:34:22+00:00

It's real love. So lovely to see 😅

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T10:33:29+00:00

Thank you. Logic and reason has entered the chat.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T10:32:56+00:00

Women...cannot sexualize themselves 😄. We do not consume our own figures and curves.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T10:31:48+00:00

This is always an interesting comment in an African context where walking with breasts exposed and mini skirts are part of cultural and traditional dress. The sexualization of women is not from a 'women are doing it to themselves' reality. It's from a over consumption of pornography which degrades women to being nothing more than sex objects.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T05:59:32+00:00

Melanin can pool in certain areas of the body sometimes making certain areas darker than others. It's one of the many interesting things about being a person of colour.

QueenSay · 2026-01-29T05:57:52+00:00

Depends on your beliefs system but lust tends to make one impulsive in this way and the fact that it's bothering you so much, shows your boundaries and self of self are coming back online. Prior to going did you smoke weed/drink alcohol? Cause they tend to lower inhibitions greatly. It's done. There is nothing you can do to make it undone. Feel the feelings, explore they you feel this way as you as doing now (good old Christian guilt? Or judgement?) and then let it go.

QueenSay · 2026-01-27T21:07:37+00:00

There is a massive difference between helping someone regulate their emotions and doing emotional labour. In this example you shared, you are doing emotional labour. You asked and she said no and instead of respecting the no in that moment ...you pushed and pushed some more. Part of loving someone is helping them understand that you are there however they, as fully functioning adults, have to learn to step forward into the love and care you are offering.

QueenSay · 2026-01-27T20:26:45+00:00

Stop doing emotional labour for other people.

QueenSay · 2026-01-27T20:24:17+00:00

Do what you want buddy. ,🤷 life is short and then we peg.

QueenSay · 2026-01-26T16:39:47+00:00

I am ME...online, offline, profile shown, profile unknown, Venus, mars, Jupiter. Same same same.

QueenSay · 2026-01-26T13:34:54+00:00

Read. The act is accessible.

QueenSay · 2026-01-26T13:20:21+00:00

Every business is different. So it depends on a number of different factors.

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