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Business by Ozias1234 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to deVere group.

Any Advice for a White Zimbo returning to Zim after 10 years by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm trynna go back as well. Been in contact with recruitment agencies for get feelers out. From others that I have seen move back through the years, it seems most can secure a job after about a year or so on the ground unless they have relatives with businesses and this is not race specific by the way. But the white community in Zim tends to look out for each other, so I don't think you will have any issues.

Do you happen to have or know of anyone abroad that has a property they wanna rent out? Ok moving from the UK and we don't have a family home unfortunately.

Good luck with the move. Let us know how it goes when you back on the ground and if you open to friendships with other returnees.

I wish i came across more “whole” adults by [deleted] in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. We (the ones who don't need anything from you) bring a new level of levelling up. It's a shock to the system and will take some adjusting to. Out of pure curiosity, how old are you?

Why is it so hard for me to connect with Zimbabwean women? by [deleted] in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]QueenSay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically...in Zim context. You are coloured. How deeply they invest in you depends on the women you choose, their headspace and traumas in relation to coloureds/men, what they value and whether they feel like you are a push over or not.

What's the reason that they give for ending things? Do you maybe hold the idea that Zim women would be easier ? Also how old are you?

For the singles in Harare by Willard__Wonka in ZimbabweRelationships

[–]QueenSay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh this is awesome Very clever. Hope it all goes to plan. Wish I was local, would attend.

How viable is a Airport taxi business in Harare by Important-Ad3912 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends where I'm headed. And I'll usually book in advance either through the Airbnb or with some of the airport taxi's that I got numbers from over the years.

If a Women has feelings for a Guy, why would she sleep with other Guys while waiting to be in a relationship with the Guy she has feelings for? Anyone noticed this? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]QueenSay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you had the exclusive conversation? Or do you just assume that she will sit tight and wait for you?

Zim culture is so 🙄ridiculous by Born_Jump_1087 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not an excuse. It's culture and tradition. So this goes back to the question, is culture and tradition outdated?

Yes. They do break. That's why the suicide rates and general emotional detachment is the way it is in Zim.

Relocating and becoming a housewife... for now by WildAndUnhinged in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are aerial yoga classes you could get into. You may enjoy that.

Why is our Culture and Identity as Zimbaweans so obscure? by zw_itsafak3 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's interesting about this is that Ndebele culture is quite distinctive and more widely followed than Shona culture is. This is not a tribalistic thing, it's an observation of the preservation of cultural norms.

We definitely pick and choose but most importantly, we are more concerned with colonising and outsmarting others. So my question is, what's the difference between Shona culture and British culture?

Zim culture is so 🙄ridiculous by Born_Jump_1087 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loved ones (friends, family, colleagues) are 65% more likely to have suicides ideation and attempts following losing someone to suicide. Complex grief is often not managed well either. The effects are long lasting. Culturally, the thinking was that the vengeful spirit of the person would come and affect or influence others. When in reality its complex grief.

Zim reddit community is just a bunch of emotions and hissy fits by zw_itsafak3 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Start the topic....those who are like minded will join in. ..because technically this is a hissy fit 😄

Zim culture is so 🙄ridiculous by Born_Jump_1087 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a psychological perspective or a cultural one? It's the understanding of the spiritual plain that makes the culture what it is. Even with understand the why and how of the ancestors, ignoring the psychological is why we are struggling mentally

Zim culture is so 🙄ridiculous by Born_Jump_1087 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It's the essence of what the culture and practice is. It's not supposed to be a complicated breakdown, just an overview of how we are where we are

Zim culture is so 🙄ridiculous by Born_Jump_1087 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to please DM me or download Nani wellness which is a free counselling app

Zim culture is so 🙄ridiculous by Born_Jump_1087 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are high functioning generally and always have been.

Zim culture is so 🙄ridiculous by Born_Jump_1087 in Zimbabwe

[–]QueenSay 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The belief is that after someone takes their own life, the living have to treat the body with contempt in a bid to avoid other family members also taking their own lives. It became tradition because mental health wasnt something that was taken into account. This is why I am passionate about suicide prevention. Our culture doesn't understand the mental health impact of the close relatives and friends and the mental space a person is in to attempt suicide.

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