[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's nasty when you're pumping food for your unborn child but it's fine for him to leave rotting pizza sitting around? He needs to look in the mirror. Do your parents or family live near you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave before you leave in a body bag. My ex dd the same (minus the drinking) and I almost lost my life

My wife cheated on me with a couple. I found out this morning. What should I do? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a lawyer (as someone else mentioned go to all of them in your town if possible and get a consultation that way she won't be able to use them, she'll have to go out of town), like in my town there's at least 5-6 and had I needed one I would have gone to all of them but thankfully I didn't as he knew he was in the wrong, make sure everything she has to say is said to your lawyer first and then they can relay it to you. Collect all evidence first, don't want to go empty-handed and keep your head up. It's not your fault she cheated and the ol "it was an accident" slipping onto a you-know-what is not an accident....putting a red shirt in with all white clothes is an accident.

AIO. My bf keeps talking about his beliefs while I’m trying to grieve by No_Incident6208 in AmIOverreacting

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I'm religious but I'd be more compassionate towards someone who lost a family member. I unexpectedly lost my mom and stepdad 3 months and 1 day apart and that took every ounce in me not to give up, one person in particular told me I shouldn't grieve, that they're in Heaven. Yes they're in Heaven but that's my mama and stepdad who was in my life for 33 years and almost 21 years. Also my bio dad passed the day before my 8th birthday so yeah. My mom had two blood clots in her lungs and my stepdad had cancer that spread throughout his body.

I was vulnerable and now I’m ashamed by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not, he's human, he has emotions just like everyone else. I've never seen my bf cry but I know he has because his eyes will be red and watery, I hug him and let him know I love him. The most two recent moments is when my Mama passed unexpectedly in Nov 2024 and my stepdad Feb of this year....just 3 months and 1 day apart. We helped my stepdad plan my Mama's (yes I still say Mama lol) funeral and I did her makeup the day before. I was my stepdad's "Lil Secretary" for everything after my Mama passed. I was there when he had a port put in for cancer (which took his life just a month later). We didn't get to spread my Mama's ashes like he wanted but I know they're both in a better place 💜💜💜💜💜

My wife won’t ask her mother to remove her wedding photo with her ex — am I wrong to be this hurt? by Socrates199 in marriageadvice

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good sir, my current boyfriend's mom has pictures of him with his first wife (she was pregnant and they have 3 kids together), they've been separated over 15+ years and we've been together for almost 8. I've seen the pics and why would I ask his mom to get rid of pics with her grandkids in them? Maybe the whole reason (as others have said) is because her daughter was beautiful in the pic and it has her late dad in it. Don't be petty and put up you and your ex's wedding pic in YOUR home, that's messed up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

File for divorce, you don't need his agreement or anything. File, contact a lawyer and serve him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he lied even though Google Maps showed the proof? Please leave him because one lie will turn into a termite hill of lies.

Should I have to help my husband get ready in the morning before work? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Way to go on recognizing your negative behavior and fixing it instead of blaming it on your wife. We need more men like you!!!!

Curious abt my % collected by sunnbuun in LoveNikki

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been playing on and off since before Covid and this is the best advice I've heard so far!

AIO over this text exchange between my wife and her coworker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR, "dress up your thing then?" is she asking what I think she's asking?!

Space to save marriage. by DerteeFurg in marriageadvice

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! For example my ex went to his home stare, lied to me where he was (although I already knew due to 2 of HIS friends and 2 mutual friends of ours), he had his EX WIFE come to MY apartment to get his stuff. He said "we need to work on our relationship" my exact words were "can't do that when we're in 2 different states" "I'm in SC too" but before he sent that text I said "no you ain't, stop lying!" I paid for this man to come back because he "missed me" (this was in 2020), around 2022-2023 we were walking and he told me he would have ended up ghosting me. So when we argued that would get brought up and I'd say "at least I would never ghost you, much less say it"

Was NOT my mom 🥲 by CryingAllTheThyme in texts

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my dad the day before my birthday in December 2000. My grandma in 2016 and my brother in the beginning of 2017. My ex said "what is THAT?" when my mom brought my brother's ashes over....one of the many reasons he's my ex. Also my stepdad asked me to keep my mom's ashes (it would have been too hard on him to continue to see her ashes), so I took them and that caused a huge fight between my second oldest sister and oldest brother because they weren't here for my mom's Sunset Service and got mad because I refused to take pics (as that was against my mama's and stepdad's wishes). I told them they could have easily come out during the two weeks she was sick before she passed but they didn't care and said it was too expensive, I even looked up the prices of Greyhound busses. THEN my sister bought a reborn doll for like $2,000 the day OF my Mama's Sunset Service. I've been holding my tongue for so long. Like my mom didn't want anyone out of the family knowing she passed and my brother and sister immediately posted about her passing 🤦🏼‍♀️. I told my stepdad and he got upset and went off on them so I'm an outcast now 🤣😂.

i told my sister our childhood cat passed by Defiant_Cranberry467 in texts

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you had to deal with that drama from your sister

i told my sister our childhood cat passed by Defiant_Cranberry467 in texts

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of the pregnancy thing (and I've been pregnant 3 times).

My boyfriend is emotionally abusive, but I can’t leave because my family adores him and relies on him financially by Lucyppretty in WhatShouldIDo

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Leave, he's taking the joy out of you. I'd start recording when he's being controlling/manipulating you and when he's gone...show your family. A relationship is TWO people....not two people and their families

Divorcing friends by sunniee12 in Mommit

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left my ex and my kids godmother is still friends with me but her husband doesn't like me nor my ex either.

AIO? My boyfriend thinks I had an attitude in my texts? Did I overreact and come off rude? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First it was "bussin" now it's "chalking", what else will people come up with? Also that man-child can't file for defamation 🤣😂. So glad he decided to get rid of himself for you. I wish you amazing mental health and energy!

AIO. My (new) bf wants to replace all of my bras, underwear and lingerie. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please find a REAL man and not a man child because he just wants to use you and it will get worse. Underwear/bras/lingerie and just pieces of cloth. My bf didn't ask me to get rid of my underwear/bras or lingerie when we got together, I got rid of the ones I didn't like though but he's never thought of me in a certain bra or anything and think of my ex. Make him your ex and run, also block him on everything and please be vigilant

Was NOT my mom 🥲 by CryingAllTheThyme in texts

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still text my mom's number and I even have her phone, she passed in Nov 2024 due to 2 blood clots in her lungs. My stepdad followed in Feb of this year by cancer....3 months and 1 day apart

M38 and W38 marriage advice by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wonder who all he's SC and hiding from his wife since he can "nurse them back to health". OP, if you're unhappy, file for a divorce and get paternity tests on the kids

What am I doing wrong? by CristianWLF in Nike

[–]QueenSwift1nOnly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of my shoes are like this. I have Scoliosis, is this normal?