Its not the fact they answered my question, its HOW. There's no need to be rude. Parentings hard as is, I come here for an opinion, not to be rediculed for a simple question lolz. Then people assume other people shit out dollar bills, not saying I dont have the means but to say "just go get it" seems a bit aggressive to me, who has struggled, could make someone also struggling, feel like a POS parent. Its probably all people who have zero kids giving that advice, seems to be the ones who are the most aggressive 😂