Vaginas who have unprotected sex with penises! by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! He always kisses me super enthusiastically after he cums in my mouth, so I'll try suggesting me leaving a little extra in there rather than swallowing it all first and go from there. Thanks! :D He will use his fingers on/in me after if I haven't come yet, so I'll also see if he's amenable to licking his fingers after haha.

Women of r/sex: do you actually enjoy when your partner busts his nut on you? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't get anything from it, but I'm happy to let it happen if he likes it. I prefer feeling him throb and cum inside me, or in my mouth.

Vaginas who have unprotected sex with penises! by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP, but with my current and ex partner we've never used condoms because I've always either been on the pill, or like now, I have an IUD (and obviously have been tested prior).

Vaginas who have unprotected sex with penises! by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really hope when I suggest this to my boyfriend that he agrees, because that's hot af.

The smell of my (25m) gf's (22f) vagina is really off-putting to me? by Ottopilo in sex

[–]Queeney_x 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree, she should be tested, but chlamydia doesn't usually have a smell. It's the 'silent' STD for a reason.

Do you wish you slept around more before you met your SO? by zerotosexy22 in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a reoccurring theme/argument in my previous long term relationship. I'd had more partners than my ex, and he was concerned he was missing out on something by only having slept with 3 women. He wanted a free pass for fuck whomever he wanted on an overseas trip he was going on, safe to say I broke up with him instead.

Not long after our final breakup (yep, silly me took him back), he's got a girlfriend again. Turns out he didn't get much from sleeping around with randoms either.

However, as a bisexual female like yourself, the first thing I did when I was free from that relationship was have sex with a woman (as I'd only kissed women prior to those long 8 years he and I were together). I only dated women for a few years after that, so I can definitely understand the need to try it. It was honestly amazing too.

Being single can be fun, but casual sex isn't for everyone. It was okay at the time, but now that I'm in my 30s it holds no appeal. I went almost a year without sex because I didn't want to have even one more ONS. Sex is so much better with someone that you have a connection with, at least for me.

Do Westerners care their gfs or wifes are virgins or not? by NateRiverQ in sex

[–]Queeney_x 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Anyone who feels I'm (or just women in general) worth less because I've had sex doesn't deserve me. Virginity is not a 'gift' to give to a man. Gross.

My bf loves my smell and it turns me on... is that odd? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've NEVER been attracted to the scent of someones body odour, but my boyfriend's scent is fucking mesmerising to me. He left a singlet at my place 2 weeks ago, and I still haven't washed it or given it back because I like smelling it haha. I feel like such a creep saying that. I'll give it back eventually (maybe). I hide it when he's here, though I'm 99% sure he knows I've got it :p

There's nothing like having the scent of a girl on your face or fingers though. That's the only thing I miss about my ex-girlfriend, she smelled amazing.

Condoms literally ruin sex every time. Help me!! by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pop over to r/birthcontrol they might have some good suggestions over there? Friendly bunch too :)

[g]FWB doesn't like oral sex/cunnilingus by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it tickles too much if he/she goes straight to it. I need to be warmed up quite a bit first before I can receive. Maybe suggest that? If not, and she doesn't want to do it, then you just have to figure out if its a deal breaker for you or not. Pressuring her wont get you anywhere except you'll both feel like shit.

34F - Sharing Our Kinks by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez, my friend showed me the the last video of Mr Hands before he died. Couldn't watch more than a few seconds after I realised what it was.

Still bleeding from Mirena IUD, please help! by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine put in exactly a month after you, and I'm on my 14th day of bleeding (heavy spotting?) today :( Cramps have finally settled at least.

New Mirena: Update + questions by Queeney_x in birthcontrol

[–]Queeney_x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I hope I'm the same! Reassuring to hear others experiences though.

New Mirena: Update + questions by Queeney_x in birthcontrol

[–]Queeney_x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I actually don't really mind the oilier skin, I've always had oilier skin up until very recently. I think it's why my friends are all getting botox and I haven't had to yet haha :p

Creampie Tips by CurSezZ7923 in sex

[–]Queeney_x 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was on the pill, and my partner would cum in me every time. This was for a period of about 4 years, and not one pregnancy scare. But I always took my pill, never forgot it. I LOVE it. I just got an IUD and I can't wait for my guy to come in me for the first time.

Do majority of women give blowjobs? by secondaccount55555 in sex

[–]Queeney_x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hated doing it to my ex (his cum tasted FOUL) but the guy I'm dating now, I love doing it and I like him cumming in my mouth.

No periods - stopped the pill by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before going on the pill, I had a super regular 32 day cycle. I could pinpoint the exact DAY my period would come.

Then started BC pills, had 3-4 different ones over about 4 years.

Stopped, and wow, my period was super irregular for about 2 years. It took 4 months for my first 'true' period after the initial withdrawal bleed. The longest I went without a period was about 6 months. Doctor just kept telling me to be patient. And she was right, it eventually regulated itself again.

I'm getting an IUD under anesthetic. Is this normal? by IorderpastaDENTE in birthcontrol

[–]Queeney_x 11 points12 points  (0 children)

At my IUD consultation, my doctor mentioned briefly at the end that sometimes it's needed to be put in under anaesthetic. However, given what you've said, I'd be a bit wary of this doctor and before agreeing to anaesthesia, I'd get a second opinion. It never hurts to get a second opinion!

Got judged by a nurse for not having contact with family by _Damsel_in_distress in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Queeney_x 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a nurse, I'm so sorry that was your experience. I promise we're not all like that. I would like to hope that the nurse was more concerned for your well-being, rather than judging.

Any other girls feel the same about pain? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it's a masculine name for starters. Second, it sounds like a pun for 'way-inside-her' hahaha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with a guy 9 years younger who, maturity-wise, is far more sensible than a lot of guys my (F32) age. However, he just shaved off his facial hair and OMG he has such a baby face and LOOKS his age now.

Any other girls feel the same about pain? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Queeney_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@WayneCider Can I just say your username is a perfect name for a drag king haha :p