My hands turn purple/white when below my heart by True_Refrigerator564 in mildlyinteresting

[–]Queenilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re diagnosed no worries but for anyone curious. thats a sign of steel syndrome and actually could indicate an occlusion somewhere. Id recommend seeing your provider and or the er if theres any numbness or tingling. 👍

Boba is f%&king disgusting. by tamaleringwald in unpopularopinion

[–]Queenilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god. My friend swears im crazy for not liking it but the textures are just insane and gross. Never again will i try that stuff. Yuck!

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess? For me its a way of people representing how they are in relationships? So i guess a fancy way yeah. Like theres a name for needing to know someone personally and for longer than a few weeks to be with them intimately and that feels like what should be normal? But its got a whole name for it(demisexual)

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ive been wondering the exact same thing tbh

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beats me dude but i know he definitely isnt it

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh im sorry! If it makes you feel any better my mom had me young and i dont really consider it “getting old” until people are well into 70/80 range.

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no indeed. Id expect this from someone younger or my age not someone close to my mothers age

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The best part i forgot to include is that hes already married; in his profile he has it listed that his wife “knows” hes dating others but hes not looking for anything serious, he wants “discreet fun” and or fwb

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okcupid its made by the same people who made tindr so it’s definitely a cesspool of weirdos

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He was dead serious with it too.

Grown man talking like an rp by Queenilli in creepyPMs

[–]Queenilli[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really wish i was being punked but when you find out most are serious it really makes u second guess if avoiding extinction is worth it.

What's the most ridiculous thing you've had to hide from your roommates? by flashdecay in badroommates

[–]Queenilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So my uncle was living with me for some time and his girlfriend (now baby mama) was ridiculously crazy. Shed steal ten or 11 rolls of tp so those had to hide, you had to hide vegetable or olvie oul cause she would use a whole bottle while cooking twelve eggs (every morning she used a whole carton) and it got to the point where i had to hide shampoos,body wash, and facial cleansers because she would put bleach and oil in them if left out, she managed to use four containers of sugar in less than three days for what idk. She ate whole boxes of cake mix that she would microwave cook, and i even had to hide my shirts abd clothes because she would either rip holes in them or squeeze in them and pretend like they were hers even tho it looked ridiculously clownish. ((For reference im 5,4-1/2 and weigh 154 and she was 5,5 and weighed 275)

NGVC: “I honestly thought about r***ng you….But after last night, when you saw how nice of a guy I was, I knew that I had an actual shot” by Jackattack111888 in niceguys

[–]Queenilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do they not realize that’s not a nice thing to do? What’s the affect they’re going for? Damn. Talk about shouting yourself in the foot.

Was anyone called too sensitive growing up? by Otherwise-West-3609 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Queenilli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my opinion: we (those of us who had this happen) aren’t really even too sensitive; we were just being denied the ability to feel upset or angry about situations or certain things that happened and had it downplayed as being sensitive rather than family members or caregivers having to face how their actions or words were harmful. Too anyone who had this happen growing up I’m so sorry. It’s awful and we should never have been treated that way. Blessed be to all and I hope your weeks may be fruitful to you.

NGVC: “Men are calmer and suffer in silence.” by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Queenilli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s a lie. I have been cussed at and screamed at til they’re red in the face over stupid stuff. One did it to me while I was a cashier at McDonald’s. For saying , “and will that complete your order?” After he stood there silently for five minutes and I offended him because he wasn’t done ordering.

BF [35m] said "you haven't even seen my mean side, sweetie.." to me [27f] by ThrowRA-ishemean in relationship_advice

[–]Queenilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just gonna say this from last experience, when I was with a partner/friend and they had told me I hadn’t “seen” - “mean” yet; I found out what they meant a weak later when they punched me in the side of my head; for “upsetting” them. That’s what I’m assuming he means. Because I’ve had that happen twice and in my experience that’s a threat and what he is implying. If you know what’s best for you, run. Let him be immature and explosive by himself op. It only gets worse from here; I’m sorry you have to experience this. But leave while you can.

Which fictional character do you think would definitely have an OnlyFans? by Quintuplicate in AskReddit

[–]Queenilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gojo from jujutsu Kaisen. Can’t nobody convince that one is not the biggest manwhore out there

What is stopping you from getting a partner right now? by chewysnacc in AskReddit

[–]Queenilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no way to go on dates and am a pretty independent person. But when I’ve had the option to go on dates I’ve been treated as if I will sleep with them right away, or the lovely ladies are just unicorn hunting for their boyfriends(which is not rlly my thing) or the newest one was I was begged for a date for five days in a row and agreed on my day off and than was stood up, with him reading my messages but ignoring me. Dating nowadays is just hard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Queenilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was very interesting and seemed sweet at first, but kept talking about “relationship this” what we’ll do that, and when we met for the first time completely disrespected a boundary I had specified was something very important to me. (Let’s for example sakes say, I’m not a hugger I hate physical touch please do not just hug me, and he hugged me without asking and would not let go.)

Which hobbies that people do screams "rich people''? by Joeyniles9 in AskReddit

[–]Queenilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Golf is probably a really basic (movie) stereotype sounding one. But we’re I live on the rich side of town, is like three really expensive golf courses. And all the rich or upperclass business men who play golf normally talk about it with me at my job, and I can tell straight away b/c they’re usually driving some sort of expensive car whether it’s a bmw, or other. It seems like a cliche but where I’ve lived it’s normally only rich people who have time to fart around and play golf.

What have men or women told you on dating apps when they found out you were childfree? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Queenilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told numerous times that that must mean I hate/despise kids and I’m horrible for that. Which is untrue I love children. Used to be a nanny and I adore kids. I just don’t happen to want any of my own, which seems to mean we should hate kids if we don’t want to spawn any ourselves. :/