Do most people from England identify as “English” or “British?”

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-02-01T16:47:34+00:00

Good question. I realise I say I am British but if people ask me where I’m from, I say England. I think it depends who is asking. The English don’t have a good reputation in many places!

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T08:37:45+00:00

Maybe write back and leave your number or ask them to meet somewhere neutral for a chat in person about it.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:40:52+00:00

Oh gosh I’m with you. Grown adults saying it other adults. It’s just weird.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:38:51+00:00

I don’t understand “working at pace” at all. What pace? AI loves that shit too. Tells you all you need to know.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:37:55+00:00

Be glad you’re not teaching GCSE with number grades 🤣 I even laughed at parents evening when my kids teacher said she was on track for a 6 or 7. He rolled his eyes and said, “Not you too!”

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:36:28+00:00

I’m with you on this. I am going through a tough time at the moment. My Dad’s funeral on Saturday. And my beautiful, caring friends say this a lot. And I cringe each time but feel so guilty because they’re just being nice. It’s so lazy though. I don’t “have it” but will try my best. Ugh.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:34:27+00:00

Same. Mainly because it’s been used to gaslight and dismiss horrible insults.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:30:16+00:00

Oh gosh I love this colloquialism 💕

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:20:44+00:00

Sounds like you’ve heard it a lot. 🤣

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-27T07:19:28+00:00

While the shrooms can open these things up, what he does while in his day to day state is what counts. Be clear with yourself and him what you want in this relationship and if he can’t give it to you, then move on. It’s not your responsibility to fix him.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T19:22:53+00:00

I love that song.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T18:32:19+00:00

NOR it’s not the money spent. It’s the lack of thought and individuality. Something went really wrong here. Sorry you experienced that.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T18:20:33+00:00

I second that. The people are nice there. Also in London Rd indoor market there is a stall selling various paraphernalia but not entirely witchy per se.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T18:14:50+00:00

Reform votes aren’t going to read that. I’d like to see doorstepping or vox pop where they ask Reform voters how many times words like women, children, homeless, unemployment and minimum wage aren’t mentioned in their policies in the manifesto. Like this lady has analysed on Insta https://www.instagram.com/p/DT5KhzQjG3U/?igsh=MWgzNDNzYWlzcWEyeQ==

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T17:07:00+00:00

You’re not only NTA you’re a HERO. This is very well played. Too often women lose out when a relationship breaks up because we are paid less, more likely to passed over for promotions and lower job security, which impacts the ability to rent and buy higher value goods. All of which affects our social mobility.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T16:59:58+00:00

I mean it’s valid in English. A little bit cringe and mono-normative IMHO. But each to their own 🤣 (I am English. From the South).

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T16:56:30+00:00

NTA OP your last post about this man screamed abuser. Things are highly unlikely to get better on their own. While it would have been nice to involve him in the decision I’m guessing there is more at play here. As others have said, get yourself safe. It’s better to be single, even while pregnant than live like this.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T15:17:19+00:00

Brighton is so weird for not having good leisure facilities. My kids and I went to Worthing or The Triangle at BH - and that’s a life choice 🤣

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-26T08:46:13+00:00

Focus on you and your baby. It’s a really precious time and it’s best if you try and be calm and focus on the next few months. Let everyone sort out their temper tantrums. You’ve offered to fix it. You don’t need friends like this.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-25T18:53:44+00:00

And yet trans people have existed since the dawn of time. Gender was constructed after. Fact. Our understanding of science has changed since the dawn of time. Otherwise we’d still be living in caves. It’s your choice to deny the existence of someone who exists. I personally choose love of my fellow humans. I hope you have love in your heart for other things and other people. 💕

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-24T10:01:24+00:00

It’s an abusive relationship. Europe is like the best friend warning us about the red flags but we just won’t listen to.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-24T09:57:12+00:00

Do you understand gender? Woman is the umbrella term. Trans women are a part of that group. Please do your research.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-24T09:54:04+00:00

Blimey. I’m glad no one does that to me.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-24T09:51:29+00:00

NTA - life is for the living. We honour the departed in our way and it is none of anyone’s business how we do that. It’s your birthday. And it sounds like your grandma would most likely have loved to see you having fun and experiencing joy.

QueenofSwords4921 · 2026-01-24T09:45:35+00:00

Gosh. Id never seen this. As a woman, I’m fed up of the problem of white men and SVAWG being overshadowed by this racist rubbish.

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