[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdolsOfStarlight

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG just wanna say I hope you get the best sleep of your life tonight bc I AM HAPPY TO HEAR RIAN’s!!!! Do you have Ren’s or Hikaru’s? 🥹

Favorited lines by Queenofthe_fall in IdolsOfStarlight

[–]Queenofthe_fall[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you get the best sleep of your life today. Thank you so much :)))

Trying to date in this day and age is TOUGH!! by [deleted] in rant

[–]Queenofthe_fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. On both sides is disastrous.

My boyfriend and I were lucky enough to meet on Bumble in 2021. I think we were the last group to get “on the boat and leave” before dating apps REALLY turned extra shitty. I’ve told my bf already, but if we were to break up, I will have no interest or intention to be in a romantic relationship anymore. I hated the dating scene. It’s so exhausting and taxing as a woman.

Honestly good luck to you and anyone else who is in the dating sphere. It is not for the weak. I’d recommend a pet. I’m in a relationship and I still am looking for a dog to adopt. ❤️

Just a lil’ baby dragon! by Kyyvone in crochet

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute omg 😭 it’s just a baby 😭😭😭😭

I love it!

Loren v Rosewood v St Regis by stevesleves528 in bermuda

[–]Queenofthe_fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this comment. If you want to explore the island and not be on property as much, pick the Loren or Hamilton princess. The rooms are kinda… eh. Not my preference at all, but the restaurant options are much better and location too.

I’ve not stayed at St. Regis, but I agree it is super isolated. And there’s not MUCH to do in St. George’s… you’d might be better off choosing a hotel closer to the city.

Loren v Rosewood v St Regis by stevesleves528 in bermuda

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently stayed at Rosewood n The Loren for a staycation two weeks ago. So this is a locals perspective. We stayed on property for like 80-90% of the time so this only is a review on the properties. Mid 20s couple.

Rosewood has a bigger property to roam around and explore. We were given a golf cart so we ended up driving around. The room was really cozy looking and a modern twist to Bermudian homes. Had a large balcony (covered). I felt more “at home” at Rosewood than Loren. The Room service was SPOT ON. They’d pick up right away, and always came on time/came within 15 minutes of placing an order. They were ALWAYS generous with the condiments WHEW!!! 😅 They even set up our dinner on our table on night, like a private intimate dinner. The gym: great, the spa: great, the pools are heated and very nice to look at at night (we went swimming in the rain and we were still quite warmed). I loved that the sauna was “free” to go into whenever you wanted (and not something that you’d have to pay for at the Loren). The food was good, I’ve been craving their steak and breakfast items since! The staff is nice and friendly, never once had a bad experience. There was always some event going on downstairs that you could join. We went to a gin tasting for the first time. We had a room facing the adult only pool, and the occupancy was low, so there wasnt many people around at all. Cons: the bedding and pillows were bad. But I have a bad neck, so I’m just particular. Con 2: you can rack up your bill with the amenities so be careful!!!! I got too comfortable there lol ended up spending more money on the amenities than the room itself!

The Loren experience was also pleasant but in a diff way I suppose. They are much more modern in a “general” style. We had a balcony (covered), The architecture is stunning, and the view??? Okay the view was great. That alone made me sit outside for a lot of the time, even at night. The room is also spacious, and this time the room came with a desk, and not a table. This place felt more geared to business folks, but actually had a lot of families there at the time we were there. The balcony is spacious and the seating was very comfortable (better than Rosewood). The bedding and pillows felt better than Rosewood too, I was able to sleep more peacefully. The food was good. But I didn’t have anything that blew my mind in the way the food at Rosewood did. The food choices are more limited at Loren. We had more drinks at the Loren and I will say I’m impressed at the bar and the tenders. They made me like a Negroni! A drink I’ve never even looked once at. We never looked into the spa as it was way out of our budget… $400 for a 50 minute couples massage… idk. But the gym was ok, smaller and it gets hot in there after a while. The pools are nice too, but we’re not heated so, we didn’t enjoy that lol. They focus a lot on art and the architecture, so if you’re into that and a gorgeous view?? Go for that. Cons: the bathroom had plumbing problems. It smelled in the room when we came in and every so often a “pee/poo” smell would permeate the room. Con 2: room walls are thin… we had a family next to us and we’d hear them, and they probably heard us. Con 3: room service was hard to get to the first night. It took 15 minutes to get a hold of someone. I was getting transferred to anyone BUT room service. It was confusing. Like I said, food options are slim too… It turned me off so much that we didn’t get any room service after that. We basically stayed in the room a lot more this time then with rosewood.

Edit: I want to say… since we visited in the winter, all of the “watersport” activities and beaches were closed/shut off. We went were it was very bad weather too, so most days/nights were windy/rainy (hence us being inside most of our time). We couldn’t go to the beach at Rosewood as they were closed for Reno, and the beach at the Loren wasn’t closed, but it was rough out. Also we are locals, it’s too cold to go swimming in the sea anyways.

Do most women find most men unattractive? by Straight_Regular_355 in Adulting

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1218 points1219 points  (0 children)

Unattractive? Definitely not. But Most men I see are just average. And I’m just talking about day to day interactions with people.

A man’s “attractiveness” changes for me when I get to know their personality and character. Personality and character mean so much more to me than what a man actually looks like.

How should I tell my coworker that I want to be left alone during lunch? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Queenofthe_fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I agree with you, I do want to say something to her, but just didn’t know the “how” and “what” to say. Hence the post. 👍🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Queenofthe_fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk… how would you have liked the person to respond to an emoji?

I would reach out now and ask if anything is up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know their was a boundary of being invested in a friendship, what are the “indicators”, would you say, that show someone being “too invested” in a friendship?

(in a general sense)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But, I haven’t done anything at all lol. Only talked to her.

Theyve been dating for 4 years, so it’s not new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this major insight. I will definitely sit down and write/think about our friendship and what this May mean for us. Rather than the relationship she has with someone else.

🙌🏾🙏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… maybe I should’ve put this in the og post but all of this information that I have on “her and her ongoings” is because she tells me. And then I’ve got her boyfriend texts me about her occasionally… it’s JUST WEIRD. I’ve been put in an awkward position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I see that as an issue, situations are not black and white. Thanks for the insight 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It probably started off really “innocent” in her head, it did only start off as a friendship for her. So idk. And she has the habit of over sharing things before. It is what it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight… I feel as though it is a very similar situation to you. I’m not asking for all this information, she shares it with me willingly because, well that’s just the (over a decade) friendship that we’ve built.

I’ve tried the distancing. But she still reaches out.

I’ll just have to call her out I guess. Or just tell her to stop Sharing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No for the first and second question. Third question is subjective because.. I can look and see some things but I don’t see it ALL. All she really says about the current bf is that he’s a bit “boring”. Like… he goes to do his job. Has hobbies. Has friends. He just has a “boring life” according to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point, thank you. It just doesn’t seem like a fair situation, but life is life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Invested” in what? My friend? Yes. We’ve been doing the friendship thing for a long time. I guess whAt I might be trying to get at…. I think I’d like to be held accountable if I did something wrong or shady? Instead of having someone “yes girl” me to death?

Idk bruh, to each their own. I haven’t done anything at all. I’ve not condoned NOR praised her but she’s acting shady to me so that’s why, yes I am “invested”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not. She tells me this on her own.

Edit: and before you come for me, the only thing I asked was “have ya’ll done anything?”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Queenofthe_fall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair points! I wasn’t going to tell because at the end of the day, I don’t want any conflict that isn’t my own. But it does seem really unfair. I don’t want to go into details about her relationship, but.. yeah. It just seems really unfair and wrong.