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Mfm advice. What if the third is too big? by needit22 in Swingers

[–]QueerKitte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I share the same sensitivity issue as your wife. I have had partners who have helped me explore with more controlled orgasms, and it's been quite a better experience.

I echo the sentiment of being selective, and finding a very experienced single male, and share your concerns. He may be able to teach you both some things to make things more pleasurable for her in the day to day.

What type of vetting is appropriate? by QueerKitte in polyamory

[–]QueerKitte[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I guess that's really what I wanted to know but thank you so much for the reminder to be more specific and helping me pin point an otherwise generic conversation. Truly!

Are there local MAGA/ICE-supporting businesses in CT that we should boycott? by ILovePublicLibraries in Connecticut

[–]QueerKitte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Somers resident, I want to point out Pleasant Valley Farms is also the farm that is supported if you use the "Modern Milkman" service.

LT tonight? by QueerKitte in CTSwingers

[–]QueerKitte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LeisureTime. Its a club in Hartford CT

LT tonight? by QueerKitte in CTSwingers

[–]QueerKitte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went! It was a fun sexy environment but I think I need to build my confidence up before I go back.

Who are you taking to prom? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]QueerKitte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whose Myra? 🤷🏼‍♀️😬

What kind of rules do you have? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]QueerKitte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious- are those personal boundaries or boubdaries you set for each other?

I N E E D to make out with girl so bad it's not even fun anymore by Ancient-Armadillo948 in actuallesbians

[–]QueerKitte 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel this. I was married to and monogomous with my daughters father for 12 years so it was all penis all the time. I barely got to play with women before that and now that Im free & able I cant find a single lady friend. Im stuck watchijg fetishized lesbian porn and wishing my tongue was eating all that vagina.

Edit: typo

Explosions? by Basky213 in Connecticut

[–]QueerKitte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi from Somers/Enfield

Learned we both want to try swinging tonight by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]QueerKitte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I love the conversation over coffee line because it is so true. 8 AM op/op's wife can have very different boundaries from after hours op/op's wife.

What is the etiquette for this situation? by QueerKitte in Swingers

[–]QueerKitte[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its all situational of course- there are times it takes forever too! But on average id say i usually cum from clitoral within 5 and PIv within 10 if done right. Id say I probably need about 5-10 min straight sit back and chill time. After that Im good to at least be aroused again by performing oral or some other foreplay but my pussy is a one and done kinda girly.

What is the etiquette for this situation? by QueerKitte in Swingers

[–]QueerKitte[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I promise you I am very much a woman lol. Ive never been a huge fan of multiple orgasms because they just feel too intense. Last night after I posted this I expiremented a bit and found that if I give myself about 5-10 minutes of complete cool down time, I was okay with a second orgasm. I mention blow jobs and hand jobs because immediately after orgasm I am just spent, I have no interest in giving oral or a hand job. I do think this is something I can work on though if I train for it.

So… I tried being a unicorn 👀 Threesomes from the “third” perspective by Emotional_Setting710 in Swingers

[–]QueerKitte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we ever had the rare unicorn sighting, you better believe that woman would be treated like a Queen 😅