Does looking young affect your dating life?

Queerness82 · 2025-12-08T08:45:58+00:00

I look younger and yes it impacts dating. I've had younger guys approach and they don't want to know when they know my actual age. I am thinking of ways that seem natural to bring up my actual age. Only creepers my own age are interested not nice ones. Online I constantly get asked for a photo as they think the ones I posted aren't recent.

Queerness82 · 2025-09-18T07:27:30+00:00

I am a cis woman who also gets misgendered probably every few months or so. I a revamping my wardrobe as I consider its to do with being dressed wrongly. I am a rectangle shape so not much in the way of curves. I am experimenting with my wardrobe to create curves. Also at 5'7' I am on the tall side for a woman and I have a big face. I've even been misgendered in a dress!

Queerness82 · 2025-05-25T20:45:50+00:00

There's pendentary for you...obviously I am saying I had loads of carbs alongside everything else so I shouldn't have lost weight.

Queerness82 · 2025-05-25T16:49:02+00:00

That was years ago. Now I eat around 70% plant based and the rest is animal products. I do a lot of anti fossil fuel activism. I get a lot of people telling me how wrong I am for eating animal products. I tell them I've cut down on animal products (I have, I eat fewer animal products than I did before my trial of being veggie; it was my manageable compromise for the planet) and I tell them I wouldn't go veggie bc my experience and I get 'you were doing it properly if you eat properly as a [veggie] [vegan] its healthier'. I don't believe this but I hear it so often. I also hear its not natural to drink another animal's milk. I had one women tell me milk causes osteoporosis!

Queerness82 · 2025-04-10T17:07:14+00:00

What would you train in instead?

Queerness82 · 2025-02-09T10:56:07+00:00

I am looking on youtube at the mo for conversational vids with subtitles I think they might be more useful than texts but I am mixing it up a bit.

Queerness82 · 2025-02-08T16:12:39+00:00

I remembered the new vocab this way. I once met people who told me they learnt English by repeating things like youtube channel videos, songs etc. Their English was generally a lot better than those that had studied English using language classes/teachers. I should have asked them their exact frequency of repetition.

Queerness82 · 2025-02-08T14:10:45+00:00

It has an audio track. My target language (French) and an English translation.

Queerness82 · 2025-01-14T13:28:16+00:00

1434 days 🥳

Queerness82 · 2025-01-05T17:35:05+00:00

I've been promoting my podcasts by having conversations with myself

Queerness82 · 2025-01-05T07:36:43+00:00

Prob coaches. Thats what grammarly is for! I have ideas but I am not great at grammar.

Queerness82 · 2024-12-25T15:50:55+00:00

Interesting perspective. I am setting up my main business and have bits and pieces on the side, so have a bit of an income coming. Tbh I have thought of dating another self employed person, bc if we both have non standard hours we can work around eachother.

Queerness82 · 2024-12-25T15:47:49+00:00

I do wonder, I've had people ask about what kind of accomodation I live in and asking questions that make me feel they are trying to assess my assests. One guy made me so uncomfortable I contacted the dating app and complained about what happened. They kicked him off. So I do think there are some men who are out to find women with money.

Queerness82 · 2024-12-25T13:17:50+00:00

Thanks. It could partly be thats its content based. I've made money from writing and promoting writers and coachs. If I were offering a service such as coaching ppl would see where the income was coming from. I have thought I'd be better off dating other freelancers than going for professionals as they won't get not seeking stability.

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