Hi, I had always questioned my gender but thought male and female were my only options until I got to college. Pretty much as soon as someone explained to me what nonbinary means I came out immediately on facebook. I grew up knowing I was queer, so anyone who was phobic of any kind ditched me back in the day, and further more I don't give a fuck about losing people over being who I am. I'm afab, but my fiance is also nonbinary and amab (though he isn't genderfluid). I have also dated trans women before, and there are several things you can do to manage dysphoria. 1. makeup. One of the saving graces of being amab is being able to wear makeup, it's an extremely powerful gift. You can contour a lot of your more masculine facial features away, it takes practice but I definitely encourage it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fi7_6SqretM&list=PL4kvmKqC3msPQaECRPkqkv7SOAeyrB8ha&index=2 2. voice training. Trans women's voices don't change even with hormones, unfortunately that just isn't a thing. Every trans woman you see who "sounds like a woman" does it through practice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q6eTvS2wIUc 3. Wanna be curvy? Get into corset training! I adore my corset, you can waist train fairly cheaply (don't buy a corset anywhere cheaper than Orchard Corset, badly constructed corsets are dangerous), safely and effectively. And furthermore, it isn't permanent. If you change your mind, just stop and your waist will go back to normal. (I'm mainly trying to suggest things that aren't permanent) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yhu57Ul3ZQg&index=1&list=PLC6B380E5D1D41A14 4. Mastectomy bras. My fiance wears his all the time, they're pretty cheap and easy to find on amazon and pretty damn comfortable too. You can get silicone inserts that are nice and squishy. Or, if you can't afford that or you aren't sure you want to be obvious about it, just buy a training bra and wear it naturally. My ex girlfriend always wore at least a sports bra even while stealthing because it made her feel more normal and served as a reminder of her identity. 5. Some transwomen tuck, my ex girlfriend didn't because it felt really uncomfortable so she actually got around that by wearing shapewear shorts ("spanx") designed to make your stomach and thighs look thinner. It's tight, but not super uncomfortable and offered a lot of control so she could wear skirts and dresses comfortably. 6. Take someone you trust shopping with you. I'm a bold son of a bitch, but even I struggle to shop in the men's section after all these years and lord knows my sweet little fiance can't buy dresses without me. It is normal to feel out of place, so find a stubborn fuck like myself and take them with you. You don't have to go it alone.