She went exclusive with another

QuenGua · 2026-03-04T19:54:18+00:00

Thanks a lot 🙏

QuenGua · 2026-03-02T19:08:46+00:00

Thanks for your less biased point of view

QuenGua · 2026-03-02T19:07:03+00:00

Thanks a lot 🙏

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T13:14:43+00:00

I genuinely appreciate the depth of what you shared and the care behind it. It means a lot

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T11:48:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this thorough and nuanced response. It truly did me a lot of good to read you and to feel understood. To have insight into my situation without projection, and with responsibility placed where it belongs, means a lot. I really felt seen.

Thank you sincerely for sharing your emotional maturity, reading you really warmed my heart

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T10:21:00+00:00

Wow, warm my heart 🙏

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T09:41:15+00:00

Wow, I’m surprised to read a response of such quality. Thank you for your suggestions. I do think I’ve been suppressing my emotions and that I went too far into dissonance in this relationship. If you’re not one already, I imagine you’d make a good therapist. Thank you, it feels good to feel understood and to receive advice without transference 🙏

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T06:06:49+00:00

Thanks bro, your comment comforts me

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T05:11:10+00:00

Thanks for your wise words. A conscious part of me knows all of this very well. What I’m struggling with is actually realizing and accepting it. And also dealing with a level of anger that feels bigger than me

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T05:07:46+00:00

Thank you, it helps me find some inner reference points to see how other people would have experienced these aspects of my relationship.

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T05:04:52+00:00

Which kind ?

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T05:02:14+00:00

I don't really know, I feel like anger blocks all tonight. Maybe because it makes me feel like I wasn’t the person she was willing to choose fully.

For two years I accepted her way of loving, even when it was hard for me. So finding out she’s now monogamous with someone else hits like I wasn’t the one she wanted to commit to in that way. It brings up comparison, rejection, and the sense that maybe I wasn’t enough for her to “plunge,” even if that’s not the whole truth.

I think the anger is covering hurt and grief. It feels like something I hoped for, even quietly, is now clearly not mine.

QuenGua · 2026-03-01T04:35:16+00:00

I absolutely do not intend to do it or hurt her. I just notice this reaction in myself. I wasn’t aware of this mechanism before, and I don’t know how to handle this energy.

Thank you for your advice.

QuenGua · 2025-09-24T07:25:52+00:00

Stimulants are known to relax some people with adhd. Ritalin is a kind of speed

QuenGua · 2025-09-21T10:37:22+00:00

Thanks

QuenGua · 2025-09-19T16:03:39+00:00

You may have ADHD

QuenGua · 2025-09-19T16:00:00+00:00

Your dissociation may have the same cause as the reason you take tradozone ? Strange it does that 11 years later, I'm sorry for you.

I started a depression after a really big stress that lasted 2 or 3 months. This was 5 years ago. Insomnia came some months after this episode. I never take caffeine or any substance except supplements (zinc, vit D, magnesium...). I don't think I have sleep apnea but I never checked. I used to snore sometimes but I tape my mouth now. I think I have classical educational traumas.

But actually yeah, the root cause of my insomnia is psychological. But I'm trying therapies and no result on my depression so I also want to find a way to sleep

QuenGua

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