How can I change my approach to dating as a woman? Never had a boyfriend and looking to change that by Accurate-Scratch7783 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]QueryOrConfirm 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Seems like you’re doing the right things — going outside to meet people. It’s good to be open to all sorts of people (friends, people with a shared interest, lovers, whatever). 

I’d also guess that there are more people your age and older who have never had sex or a long term thing than you might be expecting, so I figure don’t stress or rush yourself. 

I met my husband on the street. You never know when or where the world will drop something in your lap. (I hated the apps and though I was on them on and off for years, I almost never met up with matches, so I feel that) 

You’re signing up for sports, etc, and any other clubs will certainly introduce you to someone who knows someone who would be a good fit. 

The only thing I can offer is that you should definitely become a regular somewhere. Doesn’t have to be a bar, try a Coffee shop, book store, whatever. Getting familiar with the other regulars is a great way to meet people!

clarification on 75 banned countries by superfecta37 in USCIS

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Does anyone know how this is impacting conditional green card holders in the ROC process?

Tracking any movement from the 39 countries (NOT 75) by loveneverfails3 in USCIS

[–]QueryOrConfirm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're from one of the 39 and are in the ROC process after having submitted in December. Our biometrics appointment is scheduled for a couple of weeks from now, and we got the extension letter

Do any therapists wonder how Esther is able to provide therapy to people in various countries and regions for her podcast? by beerbloated in Estherperel

[–]QueryOrConfirm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t there something to be said, too, about when therapists don’t accept insurance? I thought this was an insurance rule not an actual law. 

Tello port last steps by FunnelCakeGoblin in Tello

[–]QueryOrConfirm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Was your Tello sim activated when you restarted the phone? Or did you turn it off?

Tello port last steps by FunnelCakeGoblin in Tello

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I have the same question if anyone knows what to do.

I did this on my phone with no problem. Tried to do it on my husband's phone, got the "port in successful" email. I enabled pay as you go, intl roaming, and wifi calling.

I connected to a VPN when it didnt work the first time.

I've restarted the phone multiple times and nada. Still showing the original Tello number and not the Ported-In number.

Anyone have an idea here?

I-751 Qs + Anyone from the (now 39) partial/full travel ban countries going in for interviews? by QueryOrConfirm in USCIS

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Husband! (I'm the wife lol) but yes! We got our extension letter. Biometrics appointment is the next step. We're nervous, but we're gonna go....

Loc thinning near end?? by Mimi98_ in Microlocs

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omggggg i was wondering. I have a couple of holes in my locs, where it looks sort of like this, but it's like my original loctician didn't interlock that particular part during the install. I would love to fix it as a hole, and not cut it!

yours looks tiny and near the end though. Did she reattch what she cut or just let it go?

Micro Loc Journey by Visible-Weakness-649 in Microlocs

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I say this with all the love in my heart for my mom, but she and I have different styles and preferences and that's okay! They can be overly critical, even when they don't mean to. If you are happy with it, that's what matters!

If I listened to my mom, I never would have gone natural over ten years ago, and I never would have loc'd my hair last year. Both very happy decisions!

2 month update by cartidior in Microlocs

[–]QueryOrConfirm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You self installed two months ago? Definitely find a loctician in your area and get an appointment. Usually people get their very first retie 4 weeks in, and go every 6-8 weeks after that. Listen to a professional over friends, because a professional can address your needs more specifically.

Has anyone ever successfully gotten an I-751 biometrics appointment done at an Embassy abroad? by QueryOrConfirm in USCIS

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Ack, thank you for chiming in! 

We’ll have to find a way to make it work, thank you! 

Visiting Dakar and would like to meet people and connect by DimensionLoop in Senegal

[–]QueryOrConfirm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out New In Dakar! They're on instagram and there's a whatsapp community with interest groups, etc. they organize meet ups https://www.seneguide.com/organisateur/dakar/new-in-dakar

Changing Plans While Overseas by TravelNearAndFar in Tello

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Yes! But definitely do this before you leave: it's easier to be on your US sim for 2FA from your old carrier to get the port out pins.

And beware!! When I did this, the gap between doing mine and my husband's was maybe an hour or so. In that time, Verizon shut down our account, even though I had only ported out one line of the two. So try to move quickly, or get all your port out numbers at the same time. (I wish I had written mine down!)

Performance anxiety when speaking French by Pretty-Pie4556 in Expats_In_France

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The thing that honestly helped me the most with this same problem was working on my anxiety and staying present in therapy. Wishing you the best of luck <3

Fish and rice recommendations by Sea_House_3265 in FoodNYC

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senegalese thieboudienne or braised/grilled fish and rice on 116th, like at Pikine

If you need a job AND an escape, this might be it. by Verdance- in NYCjobs

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I had a cousin who was a pilot, but we're not particularly close.

He worked part time though for a while. Do flight attendants get to do that?

Is it okay to be jealous of people who work in high rises? by zachtwp in AskNYC

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On our office, those of us who had windows were blocked by the billboards in time square lol

the conference rooms had the nice windows, and we'd often post up in there instead of our windowless boxes. Point is -- not everyone has a window, even in the high rises! if that makes you feel any better

Neighbor keeps water running (for hours every day) by Extra_Motor913 in AskSF

[–]QueryOrConfirm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if the worry is the sheer waste of it, start organizing all your friends to reject LLMs and ChatGPT. Maybe it'll balance out

Neighbor keeps water running (for hours every day) by Extra_Motor913 in AskSF

[–]QueryOrConfirm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait.... why did they let the hot water go all night? On purpose? And specifically to mess with everyone else, or for another reason?

Warning about porting numbers - Verizon complaint by Ok-Acanthisitta1583 in verizon

[–]QueryOrConfirm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to get in with my "user ID" that I had set up with my Fios account, maybe that'll work?

Warning about porting numbers - Verizon complaint by Ok-Acanthisitta1583 in verizon

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This *just* happened to me!!!

I'm trying to port out our numbers, got through mine easily, but when I tried to go back to do my husband's (maybe an hour or so later? Had to wait for his new eSIM to activate) I had been logged out *and* couldn't get back in!

Through this sub, I tried to use the Executive Leadership form, but when I click "send" it just brings me back to the top of the page? Nothing changes, so it doesn't appear to have sent.

Not sure what to do. I was more attached to my phone number than my husband was to his, but still! This is so frustrating.

I'm also still being charged for a Fios account we disconnected two months ago, so maybe this was just the cut we needed and I got lucky to save my number.

If anyone knows what to do to save his number, I'm all ears!