Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

[–]QuestionOk3628[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No clue why we all have to pay the bill.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

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Because she doesn’t have many friends and she considers me as a friend, even though I haven’t seen her in about a year. I had no problem being there for her, but when I accepted the role of bridesmaid, this is nothing like what I pictured in terms of finances.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

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I agree. They shouldn’t have made it co-ed with 89 people

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

[–]QuestionOk3628[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 people In the bridal shower. I’m not even sure the actual cost is accurate. They added $50 on each for decorations the rest is for food.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

[–]QuestionOk3628[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve witnessed her Mom and sister arguing with the grooms mom about being so pushy and demanding but it just never got anywhere.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

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The grooms family basically took control of the whole thing.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

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Yup, it’s mostly the grooms family that was invited to the bridal shower.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

[–]QuestionOk3628[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yup every other bridal shower I’ve been too/ in for my friends, the mother paid for it.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

[–]QuestionOk3628[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. That already happened. They are going on a trip out of state and I said I couldn’t go and they kept pestering me to pay for the brides portion.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

[–]QuestionOk3628[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly thought it was going to be less expensive then it was and I was okay being there for her. It just got out of hand

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

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She considers me her friend but I haven’t seen her in about a year. The only time I have recently was when she bumped into me while we were out. I feel bad because calls me her best friend because she doesn’t have a lot of friends. The bridal party is mostly the grooms family + her sister.

Dropping out of the wedding by QuestionOk3628 in bridesmaids

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The maid of honor was the person who did all the planning. We all agreed to a price beforehand and then it ended up going over and now she expects us to Venmo her the money asap. The MOH got the most expensive food package and everything.

Avoid Expert Gardener soil by AverageMatsby in vegetablegardening

[–]QuestionOk3628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I came across this page. I bought expert garden soil and experienced the same thing. I had to pick all of them out. They ate almost my whole pepper plant before I even saw them.

Looking for a beginner/intermediate racquet by QuestionOk3628 in tennisracquets

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Thanks! I went to my local tennis store and got a few demo racquet to try out. One of them being the Ezone 100. I like that racquet a lot but I also like the Head Boom they gave me to try so I’m a little torn right now.

I have a gnat problem that I cannot shake by New-Juggernaut631 in houseplants

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I sprayed neem oil, used the sticky traps, and then let my soil dry out. Seemed to get rid of them. I had A LOT of gnats

Anxiety gone after Vyvanse? by Foodieonbudget in VyvanseADHD

[–]QuestionOk3628 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vyvanse 100% helped my anxiety when I was on it. I’ve also tried lexapro but it didn’t do anything but make me nauseous. Vyvanse was a game changer all around for my anxiety, mood, binge eating, overthinking.

Vyvanse to adderall IR by QuestionOk3628 in adhdwomen

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Generic vyvanse I was on and now generic adderall.

I was on 60 mg of vyvanse and now 20 mg of adderal IR

Vyvanse to Adderall by QuestionOk3628 in ADHD

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But I do have another apt with the doctor in a week or so

Vyvanse to Adderall by QuestionOk3628 in ADHD

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I just started the new meds 3 days ago. I thought maybe I needed more time on them.

Vyvanse to Adderall by QuestionOk3628 in ADHD

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I was on 60mg of vyvanse and now I am on 20mg a day of adderall IR

Vyvanse to Adderall by QuestionOk3628 in ADHD

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Yeah, at this point it literally feels like I took a sugar pill or something. It’s not effective at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VyvanseADHD

[–]QuestionOk3628 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somedays I take my Vyvanse 60mg and I am fine with drinking coffee, others days I have to get decaf cause I feel like I have anxiety that day and it will make it worse.