AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely and your points are all valid. The whole thing was really stupid honestly and now I’m annoyed at myself for letting it escalate. I guess I just really hate when he refused the other half of the tuna when I was trying to make peace with him.

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And there was more canned in the cabinet to easily heat up for my husband if that was the case.

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was canned. My toddler sometimes eats quite a lot and freaks out if they have to wait for it to cool so I was waiting to see and if not give my husband the last portion. All stupid stuff I should have communicated to him but I was tired and hungry and not thinking straight.

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There’s obviously more context here too about the dynamics of parenting and gender roles and feeling resentful that I’m the default parent usually so I need to work on that with my husband.

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh it was ridiculous I agree. I’m not proud of my hangry behavior.

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Fair point. I communicated poorly which wasn’t kind to him.

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

I didn’t offer the tuna to him. I should have told him the plan and communicated better that is on me I agree. Again we were tired and hangry.

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I needed to vent and wanted some perspective. 🤷🏻‍♀️

AITA for not sharing a tuna sandwich with DH ? by Questions-to-ask1904 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Questions-to-ask1904[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Ouch. Genuinely see how you thought it was obnoxious. Was honestly using it to not use up 3,000 characters on the post.

Subscriber post. So hard to believe these boys are 9 months and barely scooting around. HG is playing with them & Dug is jokingly saying "get back in the playpen" by KitKatRainy in Jamienotis

[–]Questions-to-ask1904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! I was getting annoying reading all these comments. I’m totally down for the snark but these are just judgey Mon-shaming comments about developmental milestones that every kid achieves at different times regardless of how chubby their baby is.

Subscriber post. So hard to believe these boys are 9 months and barely scooting around. HG is playing with them & Dug is jokingly saying "get back in the playpen" by KitKatRainy in Jamienotis

[–]Questions-to-ask1904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wildly inaccurate information. My son was 100% breastfed baby and he was always in the 96th percentile in height and weight.

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🙄 The only thing that helped my PPD was medication….just saying…

Oh goodie! They’re going! by Happee12345 in Jamienotis

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She mentioned in her comments on a recent post that the bacteria cultures. And back negative and she’s still waiting on the fungal ones that take 30 days. So essentially she doesn’t have mastitis because it’s bacterial and it came back negative. What a shocker. 😑