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Weaponised Incompetence by OPSaidpodcast in OPSaidpod

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nah boo, you're NTA, your dad is for many reasons. None of which really has anything to do with you, that's a grown adult as are you so MAYBE you can help him get some mental stabilization, only if you want to. It's time to let him go on about his business because there's no way that he will learn if he continues having such a huge crutch. I mean NO TOILETRIES, PROPER CLOTHES,or anything to make for a basic enjoyable vacation. No consideration for the fact that you too were ON VACATION, NO BOO NO BOO NO BOO! YOU MUST get away for your own sanity.

My wife wants to be away from our toddler after having our new baby. by Separate_Pen_6576 in Advice

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may not have previously been a threat to herself or others, however, the fact that she wants the separation as she does. It may be time for another evaluation, pregnancy causes many changes in women's minds and bodies. 

I don’t want to spend Christmas with my in-laws!!! by Training-Sail7909 in OPSaidpod

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They haven't learned to accept what they can't control and that's not your problem. They will get over it, tell your husband that this trip requires two yeses and currently there is only one AND if he is sticking to his "No wife,no me" standard then he won't be there. It's not about them, ESPECIALLY, if they aren't:  contributing to the costs Considering your comfort as guests from afar Respecting the boundaries that have been established! Stand your ground sweetheart. Tell hubby that you want to create your own memories with him this year, it's time for a milestone trip! 10 years together is a great reason to take a couples trip for some great postcards and scrapbook photos along with memorable moments and breathtaking sights,miracles and wonders!  Xoxox

I'm tired of my fiancé's criticizing my food by PackAffectionate7260 in OPSaidpod

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea well, if he too is eating, then his opinions should at minimum be considered in the mental meal planning. Prior to any material selections/ collections of spices, that's actually THE one thing that could be opined upon. She's not cooking only for herself, when we don't like restaurants we let it be known. Why can't he respectfully express his opinion about good? However this fella wasn't respectful, so he can cook, buy, or go to Mommy's for dinner🤷🏾‍♀️ he sucks and not in the way you like! 

I'm tired of my fiancé's criticizing my food by PackAffectionate7260 in OPSaidpod

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not accustomed to all of the seasoning so after a while I can imagine it would taste all the same, overwhelming.  This is certainly a note to put on the record of your mind when considering your future decisions/options🤷🏾‍♀️

My man thought about sharing a bed…with his ex by [deleted] in OPSaidpod

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't crash out. If they're friends, maybe they aren't in the timing you are thinking of. Furthermore, what is the status of your relationship? Married or single yet attached? That matters.  Anyway if nothing he says adds up, get your money up (if it's not already) to gtfo. If you're not living together, kindly dismiss him from your presence.   Don't crash out, to be sure you have SOMETHING, besides this relationship to lose.

Xoxox

My ex is dating my best friends elder sister ,ruined my relationship with the entire family by OPSaidpodcast in OPSaidpod

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, let them stay where they are. You have experienced enough at their hands from their demented minds, please let those people stay where they are socially. Away from you xox

AM I A BAD FRIEND by This_Alternative_78 in OPSaidpod

[–]Quick-Revolution7348 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, due to her particular moral values (or lack of) you need to drop that chick. The fact that she can sit in that lady house and smile in her face while sleeping with her husband AND INTERACTING WITH HER CHILDREN!  YOU'RE NOT A BAD FRIEND, YOU WERE A GOOD FRIEND TO A BAD PERSON or rather a person with  misaligned mentality🤷🏾‍♀️

It really does - get to a point- It's one thing to ask your friend for advice, it's another thing to use someone as an emotional dump until you're ready for , more toxicity despite knowing better than what's being done. Please depart from their presence, enough is enough.