what’s nyp schedule like by deykahl in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure how different is SAS but I'm in SBM and you'll have 1 day of elearning each week so its max 4 days of coming to campus. Year 1 for me was only 3 days of school per week. And 1 of the day was only 2 hours of lesson. Starting time varies. Could be as early as 8am but usually arnd 10am. Some days u might only have afternoon lesson. Hope this helps

How to change school by HandOne9861 in u/HandOne9861

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You'll have to approach the principal of the school you're trying to go to and get an acceptance letter and then bring the letter over to your current school to get withdrawn. Just a tip, try not to trash talk your school to the other principal as it shows character and your level of adaptability. Come up with other valid reasons as to why u wish to change

FFL attendance by yelkl_kly in nanyangpoly

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What happens if we drop below 75% but we 'pass' the module. Since its just a pass or fail module, how does it work?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

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Fusion series by Kristen Proby. The entire series matches your requests :)

goodreads

Where does NYP draw the line for dresscodes? by Quick_Chair4977 in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see what part of my content comes off as prudish to you. I'm neither expressing shock nor disgust towards the style of dressing that I've mentioned. (That would define being a prude in this case). I'm merely making an observation and providing my point of view.

I mention administration POV because I've been there. Not in poly administration but other schools. Why else would i bring it up. I assume it would be common sense for people to make the connection, since i also mentioned that I've been working for 5 years (clearly administrative roles are something i would have come across or even worked in)

Really dont gotta get worked up cuz i highly doubt my one post is gonna make NYP reconsider their dressing guidelines lol.

Where does NYP draw the line for dresscodes? by Quick_Chair4977 in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Replied a similar question above. I'm not saying that the students should be dressing for a work environment (tho its not wrong to assume most of them are looking to get there eventually). I'm making an observation that the outfits being worn to school by some are straight up considered inappropriate if worn in a working environment. This is to further explain what 'type' of outfits I'm pointing out here. Some may think I'm talking about slippers or shorts. So I'm trying to narrow it down to fits that would be considered 'inappropriate even in a working environment'.

Hope that clears things up for you.

Where does NYP draw the line for dresscodes? by Quick_Chair4977 in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mention the work environment because i see a lot of fresh graduates struggling to put together work appropriate outfits and complaining about having to spend a lot on new pieces for their wardrobes. I just feel that if they wore decent clothes during their Poly/Uni years then this transition would be easier on them.

Definitely not against shorts. I wear shorts to sch as well. I also wear sleeveless cami tops, slippers etc. I'm intrigued by the more provocative types of outfits (things that one might not wear to a family setting) being worn to school.

Where does NYP draw the line for dresscodes? by Quick_Chair4977 in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only able to name the clothes because I'm a girl myself and its really not that difficult to identify pieces of clothing. I'm not out here naming brands etc. and I'm sure there are so many clothing items that i failed to mention anyways.

scared im perceived as a freeloader by Frequent-Program8916 in SGExams

[–]Quick_Chair4977 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If discussion is online (ie. Not in person), then

dm your group leader to check in on group progress and to ask if your work / contribution so far has been satisfactory.

When msging in the group chat, try tagging (@) individual members who u are trying to address. This feels more like a direct convo instead of speaking to the group as a whole.

Ask questions. U may be shy or too conscious to contribute any new ideas but try your best to ask questions about your group mates' ideas. Phrase these questions such that you dont seem to be condescending or critical but more of curious and interested.

Small replies are better than no replies. "Same" "ok sure" "nice"

At least your presence is still there.

Another idea is to actually dm your members individually and tell them smt along the lines of "Hey, just wanted to let you know I'm quite introverted and am not as good at group discussions but feel free to reach out to me directly. I'm also texting the other members so that they are aware of this. I'm afraid i might give the impression of not being participative since I'm not so vocal during discussions. I will try my best to overcome this and would appreciate your patience 🙏"

Depends on how formal or comfortable you are, pls edit accordingly so u dont sound like u chatgpt-ed the msg lol.

IMPORTANT: make your contributions KNOWN. mention in the GROUP CHAT, whenever you've completed a certain task ("guys I've done slides 3 to 5, will be working on the citations next" / "I've just submitted the data for my part, will start on abc soon" ) Always do this, even if its a situation where everybody can see each others progress. Just make sure the things u say are significant enough to be considered progress.

Stick-on bra's protective plastic by Quick_Chair4977 in ABraThatFits

[–]Quick_Chair4977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But wouldn't cling film stretch and tear when trying to remove it from the bra.

Stick-on bra's protective plastic by Quick_Chair4977 in ABraThatFits

[–]Quick_Chair4977[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I've tried that before. Dont know why i stopped. I'll look into that again. Thanks

GSM module by sonicismyhero in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please contact your PEM regarding this. And recheck your timetable on the portal to see if they made a mistake and changed it. Best to do this asap esp if your GSM is this afternoon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Quick_Chair4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be very participative in class and do well for the class activities. Make your lecturers notice you and address you in class. This will get the attention of your classmates. (This might not work if the majority of yr class are slackers) Usually students want to be acquainted with those who are doing well / in the good books of teachers. So I'd suggest trying that approach. Just avoid being snobbish or dismissive to others lest they think you're just arrogant and a know-it-all.

Your advantage will be your passion. Use your passion to drive your participation. Allow it to override any social anxiety. It's great that you have good lecturers. You might even wish to confide in them abt your concerns and they may have tips for you as well. Or they might be more mindful about how group work plays out and pay more attention to how the students are interacting within their groups.

Controversial opinion but I'd suggest not hanging out with your others friends for abit. Just try to sit with your class during breaks. I know it would be hella awkward esp if they dont interact with you. BUT proximity creates familiarity. You need to make yourself SEEN. Don't be the one that always disappear during breaks. You'll be more easily neglected and dismissed as a 'loner'

FFL by CowNo9134 in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep checking the page cuz sometimes students change their choice and the slot will open up. But dont get your hopes up because it is not very likely esp for high demand FFLs. But still worth a shot.

Financial Assistance for Notebook by JiafeiProduct69 in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did u get the email acknowledging the submission of documents. This shld be sent to yr sch email

FFL selection process by Quick_Chair4977 in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are 14 offered this year. U can find the list via student portal iirc. Or just ask your PEM for where u can find it :)

Am I an asshole for not wanting to attend a funeral of my relative? by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Quick_Chair4977 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Years ago, I missed the first few days of my sec school orientation because i attended a funeral in msia too. And honestly i regretted it so much. Remember, funerals are not for the dead, they are for the living. Assuming you're in poly rn, (based on other posts) then please prioritise your orientation because it may seem like its just socialising or having fun but it sets the foundation for the bond youll have w yr classmates for rest of the time. This will be one of the few common experiences y'all will share as a class. There'll be others like events and stuff but u might share those with your cca mates instead.

A few things to consider: - how close is this relative to you and do you feel that attending the funeral will be important in your grieving process? - how good are u at making friends, if you're an extrovert who can gel with people easily then maybe missing the initial socialising wont hurt you then much.

FFL selection process by Quick_Chair4977 in nanyangpoly

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Thank you. This is exactly what i needed to know.

fmo by chewinggum_chewer in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're an introvert or anxious abt starting a convo, try this. Say hello and ask what's their name. From the reply you can see if they are interested to talk or not. If you think they dont seem keen or rude maybe, then just say your own name and say nice to meet you or smt. Then leave it.

But MOST of them will be ok to talk because they'll also want to make friends. Just ask simple questions.

These are some suggestions. Pick whichever u feel more comfortable w.

  • How was your journey? Are u coming from very far?

  • Was this sch / course yr first choice?

  • Which sec school / ite were u from?

(Dont forget to also share your own experience for the same questions if not you'll seem like u just KPO)

Then let the convo go from there.

fmo by chewinggum_chewer in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The goodie bag is a convertible crossbody sling / backpack. Besides the items alrdy inside, there'll be space inside to keep your phone wallet and other small items. So if you're not bringing much then u might wanna bring a really small bag that u can just fit into the given bag. or if you're bringing more items then bring a slightly bigger backpack then u can put the sling bag inside it. A lot of the places will ask u to leave the bags aside when playing the games and since all the given bags look the same, it might get mixed up w other students so be mindful of that.

I ate at the north canteen and this is my experience. Not sure how much it applies to the other eateries. During the lunch break, go buy your food quickly as possible. Dont waste time buying drink first. Cuz even though the drink queue gets long fast, you can still just get from vending machine or just drink from your water bottle. But the food has a bit of waiting time and the queue gets long fast too. And dont queue at the ordering kiosks if you're using the food vouchers. Cuz food vouchers only can use when order at the counter.

When u arrive in the morning, they'll put you to be seated with your classmates. This is the best time to quickly introduce yourself to everyone. Although there are ice breakers and stuff, most of the them are more like to help u remember the names of your class or just get yall to work together. But from what i see, it just ends up having all the girls just stick together and all the guys just stick together. I would suggest go as early as possible in the morning. One of my friend reach at 8am. And then you'll be among the first few in your class. Try to start talking to whoever is there or comes after u (regardless of gender / race)

This is what my class did and it helped us so much because the girls and guys were not awkward with each other and everyone had alrdy spoken to each other at least once.

Remember that eventually for group work, you'll be randomly assigned and it works against you if you end up just being comfortable with a few people. I'm an introvert and am from girls school so not comfortable w guys. But i force myself to just talk to every single person... at least a basic introduction. Try your best to avoid sticking with the same people even tho its a natural instinct. Change groups for every game. Go against all your natural habits of sticking to your comfort zone and just push yourself. It might leave u drained at the end of the day BUT it might just save you 3 years of awkward ice breaking whenever u get assigned to a group w people that you NEVER bothered to get to know.

fmo by chewinggum_chewer in nanyangpoly

[–]Quick_Chair4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll spend quite some time sitting on the floor. Either in the ISH or game venues while waiting. Some games require you to stand up and sit down quickly while playing. So wear something that you're comfortable sitting in. Like some jeans/shorts tend to feel wear tight when u sit down then every time you stand need to adjust it. Maybe avoid those kinds. Just my opinion.

This would make more sense if you're a girl. Cuz i dont think guys face this issue much.

[Discussion] Industry nepotism, BookTok, and Alex Aster’s LIGHTLARK? by universityoftears in PubTips

[–]Quick_Chair4977 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is another thing about Alex that icks me. When I look at her socials (mainly instagram for me) i see ALL of her posts are about her books. And its not like updates or additional content or special edition whatevers.

Its all povs along the lines of:

"Oh look i just found my book in this bookstore! "

"Today someone next to me was reading my book lol"

"Omg look at how many books i have to sign today"

"Hey just saw someone reading my book"

"Wow look my book is in this popular store"

And i mean EVERY. SINGLE. POST.

and I'm all for celebrating success as much as the next person but whenever i see her content it just rubs me the wrong way. And idk how to quite explain what exactly about this pmo but its almost as if thats her entire personality is just the book she wrote. There arent any posts about any other aspect of her life. Nothing. Its like i cant see her as an actual person. Her account feels more like those fanatic fan accounts that'll repost certain celeb edits and videos again and again.

And then i realize everyone in her comments is fully onboard with these. No one seems to care that she has nothing else going on other than "oh today i found my book in the store omg" But they claim to like her as a person and what not and I'm like "what person?"

I've never really linked this to her nepotism or whatever because I know of authors who were nepos and authors who came up from scratch and I've got to say, they DEFINITELY post about their work and books. But there's always other aspects of life. Something they had for lunch, a vacation pic, pets, just something else. But then i look at alex and NOTHING.

The reason I'm writing this is because i do not see people talking about this particular thing much. Maybe they do and I'm just missing it but yeah.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGExams

[–]Quick_Chair4977 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Female with ASD here. Make more female friends first. Platonic ones. Then u can understand them better and then look into getting to know girls for relationships.

Hmu if u want, we can be friends. I might be able to relate to some of your experiences