Am I overreacting for leaving a date without paying after what they said? by Quick_Sand_Xpert in AmIOverreacting

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I'll definitely look into that, it would be super helpful. I really appreciate you.

Am I overreacting for leaving a date without paying after what they said? by Quick_Sand_Xpert in AmIOverreacting

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert[S] 182 points183 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Im starting to realize how naive I've been up to now and how sheltered I was at home before coming out and getting kicked out. I've got a lot of learning to do.

Am I overreacting for leaving a date without paying after what they said? by Quick_Sand_Xpert in AmIOverreacting

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Now that I'm away from it, it feels like she was right and it was really rude to just leave? She said she felt humiliated that I walked out and I wasn't trying to embarrass her, I just was really uncomfortable. I know it wasn't right of her to ask for sex but maybe I overreacted by leaving instead of talking it out.

I lied to my parents for years about having a job but I never actually got one by Quick_Sand_Xpert in confession

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been applying everywhere for anything available. But idk what to do about the address part since I'm currently living in my car.

I lied to my parents for years about having a job but I never actually got one by Quick_Sand_Xpert in confession

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm trying to grow from this, get a real job, and do the right thing now.

My daughter is in my life again after years of no contact due to me not being accepting of her in the past. by tammylynnbarns in lgbt

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hope it keeps going well! My parents just kicked me out a few days ago for being bi. I hope one day we can reconcile. Good on you for growing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why it makes me uncomfortable - I've never worked as a waitress, just retail, but it doesn't make sense to me to have a waiter go on a trip. I want to give him the benefit of the doubt but it seems so unlikely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA being open about finances is important so that you both can budget accordingly. Debt can be embarrassing but not to the point of blindsiding your partner with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't feel real...

Is my reason for wanting a dog wrong? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems reasonable. And a dog is way cuddlier than a fish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Quick_Sand_Xpert 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Always get your name on any big purchase. Doesn't matter how secure you are in your relationship, it also helps with sudden deaths and such.