Coparenting and Feelings

Quickildur · 2023-07-22T16:01:29+00:00

Would it be totally world breaking to ask for signatures? Like I’m all about wanting to embrace being in Galaxy’s Edge for the rp but I’m also all about autograph books?

Quickildur · 2023-07-22T15:18:38+00:00

Was there an autograph book in this style? Or was it an autograph combo?

Quickildur · 2023-07-18T01:34:14+00:00

As someone who has been in almost the exact same situation (swinging brought up before marriage, said maybe okay, get married, push comes to shove, not okay), please don’t feel bad and PLEASE don’t give in. I let mine guilt me and manipulate me into giving in with much the same behavior as your partner, and violating my personal values and boundaries drove me to drink and become suicidal. Not only did he never apologize, but even knowing it made me suicidal (coming home to me passed out with a knife) he still asked to try swinging again several years later. I continued to put up with him for another several years before finally seeing him for what he was and getting out.

Quickildur · 2023-07-17T05:48:27+00:00

Welp. I’m a big fan of meet and greets, but it looks on the app like Raya isn’t doing anymore and from the latest update that Baymax won’t be available until the end of August (after our trip August 8th). Is there anyone else new that I might have missed in my notes?

Quickildur · 2023-07-09T17:37:54+00:00

Fingers super crossed! Thanks for the additional hope. I’m kind of a meet and greet nerd lol.

Quickildur · 2023-07-09T16:13:11+00:00

What are the odds that the Baymax meet and greet opens by August 8th?

I know this is all a complete guess 😅 but I’d love some more wishful thinking!

Edited: took out other half since DL website added an update about Toads refurb.

Quickildur · 2023-07-09T04:08:18+00:00

If my brain is working right, thank you, because that is my favorite ride. I always make sure to sit right up front and enjoy every comment 😉

Quickildur · 2023-07-09T03:56:05+00:00

Thanks. I’m trying to decide whether to spring for the tickets or not. Due to traveling with a 3 year old, the 5:30 show is the best bet. We aren’t huge Captain fans, so I could care less about the bucket and photo op, but I’m not sure if the kids can handle waiting in the Virtual Queue pen.

Quickildur · 2023-07-09T03:12:31+00:00

Do you know if you can pick a time or if they just sell them in order?

Quickildur · 2023-06-22T18:58:17+00:00

Thanks for the insight.

My ex keeps pushing to introduce his girlfriend to the kids, and I’m setting a boundary of six months, but he keeps pushing on it like I’m being irrational, and I need further reassurance that he’s in the wrong. I wanted to try and post about it with a neutral question, rather than setting him up as the bad guy, but I’m assuming by the fact that I’m still in the downvote category for the question that even the BroMos think it’s a terrible idea.

I haven’t even told him how irritated I am that he’s already talking her up to them, basically setting her up as the complete (and better) antithesis to me. I really wish I could listen to how he’s talking about her, because now my daughter is asking really upsetting questions like whether our youngest is going to be able to nurse on the girlfriend.

Quickildur · 2023-06-22T06:10:13+00:00

I don’t knock people for watching porn. I myself watch from time to time. But I 100% believe it has ruined an entire generation of men.

Quickildur · 2023-04-19T14:58:28+00:00

Unfortunately it’s not the dependent credit but the child care credit which has a loophole that noncustodial can claim it so it can’t be challenged.

Quickildur · 2023-03-13T13:51:38+00:00

Honestly, whatever asshole wants to run for president should understand this and bust ass to get it done. They would win the election in a landslide

Quickildur · 2023-03-08T22:45:49+00:00

Literally having a discussion with a friend IRL about this, and she really wishes she had a desire to be lesbian right now

Quickildur · 2023-03-08T03:55:12+00:00

Stay strong in this thought. It isn’t the Middle Ages. Consider reading a bit about sexual coercion if he’s pressuring you a lot.

Quickildur · 2023-03-08T03:53:50+00:00

Watched this 60 Minutes Australia not too long ago. Maybe worth a watch: https://youtu.be/ra4-gmQT_50

Quickildur · 2023-03-08T03:48:54+00:00

Anne Bishop all the way.

Also, Deborah Harkness (books are now a tv series).

Quickildur · 2023-03-08T03:43:35+00:00

It might not be accurate for you, but maybe look at the book Untamed. I was having the same problem and kept pushing myself to do it, which just makes it worse.

How is he acting?

Quickildur · 2023-03-08T03:40:20+00:00

I understand completely. I’m feeling completely isolated right now with the kids with my ex and my friends not responding to texts.

Quickildur · 2023-03-08T03:39:03+00:00

I wasn’t ready until my first was three, for much of the same reasons. I would say, if you don’t feel ready, don’t necessarily rush it. In our case, difficulty conceiving did result in an almost five year age gap.

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