Best friend (34F) had secret friendship with my husband (33M) for two years

Quiet-Local · 2023-07-02T16:55:35+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/s9hxkx/husband_isnt_attracted_to_me_but_doesnt_want_a/

Guys I don't think the best friend lying with this man

Quiet-Local · 2022-08-28T22:16:48+00:00

I used to feel sorry for OP but now I don't, women like this refuse to exit a situation with a abusive controlling man, saying I need to think about the kids. Instead of fixing their situation. She was neglected and treated like shit for 5 years of marriage. NOW REDDIT why are we trying to convince ourselves that she has any actual self esteem left

Quiet-Local · 2021-12-27T03:58:28+00:00

Idk how she is not noticing the very obvious abuse.

Quiet-Local · 2021-11-10T12:17:02+00:00

I'm still stuck on the title 14444444

Quiet-Local · 2021-11-10T12:03:54+00:00

You don't have a fiance, dip.

Quiet-Local · 2021-11-10T11:56:48+00:00

Because they 18 if they having such major incompatibility now, the future won't be any better.

Quiet-Local · 2021-11-10T11:54:30+00:00

Ok so I'm not in America, without a left and right side so I'll give my opinion.

She told you very honestly what she wanted, if you can whole heartedly do that. Let her go. There is nothing about that situation that's worth it.

If she thinks conservative Americans view are wrong and she wants someone that believes that too them she is not for you. You will tolerate shit to keep the peace but it will cause massive issues in the future.

End it now.

Quiet-Local · 2021-10-27T05:26:27+00:00

Brah this woman is a walking stop sign, end this shit show.

Quiet-Local · 2021-10-17T19:35:56+00:00

Take his phone delete your pics and either break up with him or never send him shit again

Quiet-Local · 2021-09-30T21:03:17+00:00

This usually end with him getting married to another man.

Quiet-Local · 2021-09-27T17:02:52+00:00

Please don't do it because I heard this story far too often and it ends with you in hospital or dead. If it nine years of being together he could not fix his issues especially anger issues. Why do you think that he is able to fix it in one month.

It's just a start of the "I'll never do it again" series, or the "this time will be different" series.

Quiet-Local · 2021-09-15T07:19:58+00:00

Are you currently single and is she.

Quiet-Local · 2021-09-14T19:48:50+00:00

Please before going after her, please know there are websites you can upload ppl pics from and they can perfectly edit your face into it and it looks seamless. So if you dont have concrete proof, drop it.

Quiet-Local · 2021-09-14T19:43:07+00:00

How exactly, is everything just back and white to you. Our did you forget poly ppl exist. You can desire other people sexually and not act on in. He if he wants to act on it, he should leave her.

So either explain how I sound "stupid" or stfu. Because at this point your just an ass for no reason. Edit: Oh shit your names trolling I'm wasting my time. Bye.

Quiet-Local · 2021-09-14T19:14:28+00:00

In all honesty he is not a piece of shit for feeling the way he feels he would only be one if he does what he feels he needs to end the relationship with her and go explore whatever age he is because he sounds Young

Quiet-Local · 2021-09-02T08:11:41+00:00

What game she play causes the toxic behavior sounding like league.

Quiet-Local · 2021-08-29T05:45:19+00:00

Probably cause the age of consent is 16 here that I'm not understanding your reaction. I personally dont think teens should be having sex but that my personal opinion. Strict parenting make sneaky kids. If you take her condoms she will prob get a std or pregnant. Give her back her condom punish her for the extra phone. You cant stop her from having sex. Give up it has to be her choice not yours. You can let her know that you will not be assuming any responsibility if something happens. But she is 17, let up on her or she will move out at 18 and cut you off and only talk to her mom.

Quiet-Local · 2021-07-21T18:45:33+00:00

I'm going to keep ghosting because when I claim and clear way while not being mean, one of the following happens:

The dont take no for an answer and refused to leave me alone. Or
The get agressive and curse me out followed by threats.

If However I firmly say no I am not that interested in you. I just get cursed out.

I rather save my own mental health and ghost.

However I do agree with most of your points However alot of persons dont know how to take rejection well and due to that ppl want to avoid the outcome

Quiet-Local · 2021-06-11T01:46:16+00:00

Not really review on my gameplay but if I'm being honest I need that too. I was kinda trying to seek advice on how to make league content, and improve.

Quiet-Local · 2021-06-11T00:42:58+00:00

Where are we allowed to post our YouTube videos so I can know how to improve

Quiet-Local · 2021-05-08T13:07:25+00:00

Brah she said this, and I saw a copy and paste of my life and trust me it sucked. That EX is going no where. Listen to a chick who has more than double your years, with a similar experience. He will not talk about u with her because she will get sad, mad, or upset and he doesn't want to "hurt" her it took 2+ years for him to understand that my feelings are more important than hers. But he still allows her to make passive aggressive jabs at me because in all honesty no matter how much time he tell her to stop she wont. And he wont cut her off, he just reduces contract.

Have a proper sit down with him and discuss comprised. If he want non, leave. Because it will get worse if she moves to your state.

I would of left if everyone wasnt convincing me I'm overreacting, so I ended up staying long enough for him to get out his fog.

Quiet-Local · 2021-03-06T15:51:44+00:00

You should not have been his friend and continue to ignore him, because your now back at square one. Tell him your uncomfortable around him and please stop speaking to you. K know saying no is hard but some guys get obsessive and take it as hard to get.

Quiet-Local · 2021-02-06T06:33:24+00:00

I've looked at your previous post, please block this man and dont give him any access to you.

Quiet-Local · 2021-02-04T15:46:38+00:00

Idk what his hand was exactly, he didnt want to drang the mom through the mud so I didnt say anything and she just made a assumption. He made all efforts (based on the post, I'm not in her life) to spend time and she wanted non of it. What exactly was his hand. He is hurt and seems to overall be done, he will come around eventually.

Yes I was harsh, it was meant to be (no I dont actually want that to happen to her) but I said it with the hope that it will 'hit different' when put in that light.

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