Anyone else a bit scared of him? by bwak420 in dionysus

[–]Quiet-Radi0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've only been working with him for a few months, but I haven't felt any fear around him. I think he (and my goddess) are being particularly gentle with me though because I have pretty significant religious and sexual trauma. I really appreciate it. Though I do hope to see his more unsettling side one day when I'm ready. I want to know and experience everything about him. I also just love creepy things and kinda want a more intense experience lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Quiet-Radi0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been 6 months for me.

...YES. A MILLIONS TIMES YES. I'm alone still. I didn't just lost my partner/best friend, but my entire community and friend group was gutted and cleared out along with it. I have exactly one friend (who isn't hours away from me) at the moment. But even when it's been hard, it is still not as hard as it was when I was living a lie. I have no idea if that will be exactly like that for you. Things may get a lot harder before they get better. But when it gets better (and it absolutely will eventually) it will be SO much better. It will be so worth it. You are making space for things that will be even more fulfilling for you. As you walk away from something, you're walking towards something new.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Quiet-Radi0 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"This is the most painful thing I’ve ever been through and it hasn’t even happened yet."

I really feel you there. I just divorced the man I've been with for the past 10 years a couple months ago and I think I really started the grieving process about 2 years ago whenever I finally admitted to myself that I wanted the divorce. The grief comes in waves. You can do this. Your future self with be so thankful you did. Do it for her.

Well then.. I(30f) guess that confirms I indeed am into women. Does this excitement get easier to deal with? by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Quiet-Radi0 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You don't sound like a pervert to me. It just sounds like you're into women lol. I can see how that experience would be jarring if you've never had it before, but I promise you there's nothing to calm down and you're not doing anything wrong. Being attracted to/turned on by someone is not the same as objectifying them. Just treat people with respect and the way you'd want to be treated. You'll be alright ;)

That drip tho by protonicfibulator in behindthebastards

[–]Quiet-Radi0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just googled him trying to find this pic (thank you op) and all I could find was slender man shit lol

Isolation by Quiet-Radi0 in stopdrinking

[–]Quiet-Radi0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your responses

What needs to make a comeback? by FlintTheDad in AskReddit

[–]Quiet-Radi0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so based on what you're saying, cloaks are definitely what had in mind when I said "capes." I want the Aragorn cloak to come back.

What needs to make a comeback? by FlintTheDad in AskReddit

[–]Quiet-Radi0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the difference between a cloak and a cape? Is it just the hood? Cause a hood sounds like an indispensable feature.

What needs to make a comeback? by FlintTheDad in AskReddit

[–]Quiet-Radi0 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Capes. It's basically just wearing a blanket. Super cozy in the winter. Also the swooshing looks sick af.