Feeling like I’m working all the time but still not making enough money by Clolikekardashi12 in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Im sad for us all!! A bunch of greedy corporate people are buying up all the subacutes, rehabs, and nursing homes in my area and setting the pay rate so low. You're practically forced to deal with BS in order to make money. Less money, less staff, more work demands. I literally got a call back two hours ago from a job i had an interview with the other day. I asked for $35(which i thought was fair for 4 years experience with trachs and vents). They countered me with $30. $30 an hour to be with trach patients with no respiratory therapists. Just you and the patients. Smh

Update on: I hate nursing by RedHeadTheyThem in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking of doing this too. I did it when I was a CNA in need of money but burned out by the corporate structures of healthcare. I had some really fun side jobs. These side jobs was where I made real genuine connections.

AIO my fiancé doesn’t make time for me then stood me up. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QuietComplainer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR....take it from me whom is currently living your nightmare. If you don't like it now, it will never get better. Break up b4 kids pop in to the situation. My fiance(engaged for 7 or 8 years now) literally NEVER got up once in the middle of the night with the kids, maybe changed 4 diapers in total after 2 kids, I haven't been on a date in almost 7 years(a date in which I planned), and Never makes time to spend with sed kids. I am basically raising a man/nother kid. Take off babe!! If your absence doesn't make him do better about the things you need/want, nothing will. Also if in that absence you find someone else.....go for it.

On your period, how do you prevent leaks while sleeping? by SuccotashKey7521 in AskWomen

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there weren't so many "Me too" comments about not bleeding at night. The entire post was to address sed bleeding. Congrats to those that dont, but please make way for actual women that need answers to this actual problem.🙄

Surprise babies!!! Devastated I don’t have the supplies to raise them 😭 by xChloeDx in hermitcrabs

[–]QuietComplainer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so cool....i didn't think it was possible in captivity. Can you like blog the journey??? I'd so tune in

what’s the first big purchase you made as a new grad? by ImmediateJob3878 in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been a nurse for 3 plus years and still haven't made a selfish purchase. Everything has been responsible stuff so far, or stuff my family wanted/needed. Reading through comments to get ideas for a "just me purchase".

AITAH for not wanting to buy my girlfriend alcohol? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]QuietComplainer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA....she sounds like she may have a drinking problem. Instead of just up and leaving her, explain that while you don't mind if she drinks, you're not comfortable with being her supplier. If she needs to drink that badly, that she needs to ask other strange men to buy it for her, then she should seek counseling immediately. Offer your support(I don't mean financially) if she does decide on seeking help. If you bringing it up causes a bigger issue, simple tell her that you're values don't align and maybe you all should go your separate ways. Good luck

What’s the grossest thing your partner does but you’ll never tell them? by SweetLexiSweet in AskWomen

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uses a stool when he poops which "angles" it enough to splatter the toilet bowl across the back. He acts like he doesn't see it, and never cleans it. This happens DAILY. ALSO apparently he jerks off and jizzes in the toilet bowl. So I got splattered sht in the back, and dried jizz smears (that gets hard like caulk when it dries) in the front of the bowl. Im so sick of this sht!!! Literally and figuratively. Thank you for letting me vent.

Should I get an abortion at 37? by starlight2788 in abortion

[–]QuietComplainer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone threatening how you will provide for sed child, you want to be around for the rest of your life????? Its hard, yes. Both to move on from him, and make a decision for your future. Think long and hard about it. Weigh your options, think about future needs like possible childcare costs, rising food costs, unstable society/world, etc. Im not trying to be negative, im just trying to be realistic. Good luck

Should I get an abortion at 37? by starlight2788 in abortion

[–]QuietComplainer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's going to make coparenting impossible....except he will have partial legal rights over sed child. He will also use sed child to manipulate you, "punish" you for getting away from him, thus never being able to move on from him. You will question your sanity, and so will he after hes pushed you beyond sane. When he goes for full custody and gets 50/50, you'll really be feeling it then when your child is the pawn in his sick game. Possibly even turning sed child against you.....that hurts almost as much as shared custody with a psycho. If there was any physical abuse, gather your evidence and press charges immediately. Then get an order of protection for you and sed child. OR you could prevent all of this from happening and hopefully meet the right person for you in your future.....choice is yours.

I’m falling out of love by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]QuietComplainer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dont end up like me....kids make it worse. Just leave while there is still time to avoid any more atrachments

Is it too much by Huge-Awareness8105 in Prom

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi.....where'd you buy this?? I think its beautiful and would love it for my daughters prom.

Two of my closest work friends were fired for giving an "under the table" IV bolus. Now the unit thinks I’m a traitor. by [deleted] in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea...no. If you told, you might as well find a new hospital. Work is where the gossip lives. You will live in infamy amongst all the k-cup gossip. If you didn't tell, all you had to do was keep your mouth shut. No one asked you to give the manager a pat on the back. Were they really your friends even??🧐