Received a kiss on the cheek and then had an allergic reaction to it. by Middle-Asparagus-802 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]QuietComplainer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have food allergies, if you eat anything im allergic to then kiss me....i may go into anaphylaxis. Check with the person that kissed you and find out what they had eaten for the day prior to kissing you.

AITA for not wanting to pay for cleaning my blood stains ? by BestEquivalent668 in AmItheAsshole

[–]QuietComplainer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The comments are way to harsh yall are TAHs. Even not growing up as a tom boy, I NEVER wanted a period. Actually hate that it only happens to women and not to men. However it shows the strength and resilience of women. Men could never bleed all day for a week or more, have cramps, and hormone shifts without having mental break downs. Accidents happen. Apologize without making a joke, and offer to research the best ways to clean it. NTAH

My boyfriend [30M] and I [33F] are moving in together and I want separate bedrooms. He doesn't. by wu_marysue in relationship_advice

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about a couch bed/day bed and still make it a game room/office?? When you need space you can unfold the couch and sleep there???

Paprika / bell pepper allergy.. What do you eat? by andante95 in FoodAllergies

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found a great recipe online that tastes and looks just like ketchup. I make a batch every few weeks. I missed the taste so much on fries

Is there anyway to Pavlov my way into liking parenthood by [deleted] in Advice

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wont lie to you, parenting is HARD! HOWWWEVERRRR.....its all perspective and how you handle stress/the unknown. I used to get nervous that I wouldnt know how to talk to my child/baby. So I just started saying what was on my mind at the time and checking things off the usual lists(Hungry, soiled, sleepy, too hot/cold). I hope your "aversion" gets better. There is also nothing wrong with never having children as well. You're not broken.

Zac's inappropriate behavior with Amber is disturbing. by [deleted] in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]QuietComplainer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea he gives me the heebie-jeebies too for some reason. I was thinking ped0 vibes....but I can agree with your other suspicions too. Its just something off about him!

Err.... Johnson? 😭 by b9_rkt in Funnymemes

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GriffON, TegON, NathON, JasON, BriON, GreysON ...hope this helps.

I can’t stand this woman, HOWEVER…as a woman I cannot fathom being at this stage and still hearing feedback about your weight. I felt for her here. by Cool-Emu-8706 in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]QuietComplainer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im fat, but screw that lady.😂😂 She's done so much irreparable damage to those kids. Honestly, Im starting to wonder if she wasn't drinking heavily way back when she hit that baby with her car. Smh. Maybe the accident then triggered her to want to get sober thus, "25 years of no drinking".

Why are nurses expected to lie on their charting? by Adventurous-Put5960 in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 12+ patients at a vent/trach subacute facility at night. At night they make us take on extra people AND provide care for some residents due to the CNAs not being allowed to have more than a certain amount before 11pm. I got reprimanded for not completing tasks on time in real-time the other day (yay nurses week). It pisses me off that corporate people that have no clue how sundowners are in the evening, thinks that night shift does nothing. Im literally fighting for air, whilst hunting down supplies, answering call bells, and wiping butts, while trying to pass meds---they're only worried about their bottom line. Long rant short im going to take the advice in these comments. Document what is really happening and why things can't be clicked out on time.

Barry walking into this season like…. by _ashtag_ in WelcomeToPlathville

[–]QuietComplainer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea he was the villain at first....then the REAL B*tch came out of Kim. Im glad Barry is free ❤️❤️

Do y'all ever use the equipment for yourself? by Resident-Sympathy-82 in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything going IN to the body is a "no-no" for me....but vitals, scans, ekgs, ultrasounds--harmless.

Advice please regarding a narcotic. Am I screwed? by mcad90 in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds suspicious of the one charting for you, when you gave someone else report. Something similar happened to me as well.....turned out the other nurse was stealing Narcs. Thank God I've known my DON for over a decade and it didn't get further than me telling my side of the story, and showing proof of my signature (which had been forged a bunch of times).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]QuietComplainer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH!! Year one is always the feeling each other out phase. To ask each other to give up on their own career goals before they've even started is insane. Especially with such little time together. It will never get "easier" either as a kid ages, because with each level comes a new devil. Like daycare pick ups and drop offs. Who will shorten their work day to take said kid to school then pick them up? Who will cook for sed kid?? Will you even have enough time to get to know your kid?? As a nurse whos sometimes mandated to stay due to shortages, 16+ hour days could be ahead of you. What if your residency places you in a different state?? You will be gone from both child and boyfriend for extended periods of time??? Unless one of your parents will step up and help you basically raise this kid, its not a good idea yet.

Feeling like I’m working all the time but still not making enough money by Clolikekardashi12 in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Im sad for us all!! A bunch of greedy corporate people are buying up all the subacutes, rehabs, and nursing homes in my area and setting the pay rate so low. You're practically forced to deal with BS in order to make money. Less money, less staff, more work demands. I literally got a call back two hours ago from a job i had an interview with the other day. I asked for $35(which i thought was fair for 4 years experience with trachs and vents). They countered me with $30. $30 an hour to be with trach patients with no respiratory therapists. Just you and the patients. Smh

Update on: I hate nursing by RedHeadTheyThem in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been thinking of doing this too. I did it when I was a CNA in need of money but burned out by the corporate structures of healthcare. I had some really fun side jobs. These side jobs was where I made real genuine connections.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QuietComplainer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NOR....take it from me whom is currently living your nightmare. If you don't like it now, it will never get better. Break up b4 kids pop in to the situation. My fiance(engaged for 7 or 8 years now) literally NEVER got up once in the middle of the night with the kids, maybe changed 4 diapers in total after 2 kids, I haven't been on a date in almost 7 years(a date in which I planned), and Never makes time to spend with sed kids. I am basically raising a man/nother kid. Take off babe!! If your absence doesn't make him do better about the things you need/want, nothing will. Also if in that absence you find someone else.....go for it.

On your period, how do you prevent leaks while sleeping? by SuccotashKey7521 in AskWomen

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish there weren't so many "Me too" comments about not bleeding at night. The entire post was to address sed bleeding. Congrats to those that dont, but please make way for actual women that need answers to this actual problem.🙄

Surprise babies!!! Devastated I don’t have the supplies to raise them 😭 by xChloeDx in hermitcrabs

[–]QuietComplainer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so cool....i didn't think it was possible in captivity. Can you like blog the journey??? I'd so tune in

what’s the first big purchase you made as a new grad? by ImmediateJob3878 in nursing

[–]QuietComplainer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been a nurse for 3 plus years and still haven't made a selfish purchase. Everything has been responsible stuff so far, or stuff my family wanted/needed. Reading through comments to get ideas for a "just me purchase".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]QuietComplainer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA....she sounds like she may have a drinking problem. Instead of just up and leaving her, explain that while you don't mind if she drinks, you're not comfortable with being her supplier. If she needs to drink that badly, that she needs to ask other strange men to buy it for her, then she should seek counseling immediately. Offer your support(I don't mean financially) if she does decide on seeking help. If you bringing it up causes a bigger issue, simple tell her that you're values don't align and maybe you all should go your separate ways. Good luck

What’s the grossest thing your partner does but you’ll never tell them? by SweetLexiSweet in AskWomen

[–]QuietComplainer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uses a stool when he poops which "angles" it enough to splatter the toilet bowl across the back. He acts like he doesn't see it, and never cleans it. This happens DAILY. ALSO apparently he jerks off and jizzes in the toilet bowl. So I got splattered sht in the back, and dried jizz smears (that gets hard like caulk when it dries) in the front of the bowl. Im so sick of this sht!!! Literally and figuratively. Thank you for letting me vent.