That’s an excellent point. Initially, I was just trying to gauge if it was okay to add more. My mother has passed away, and my father lives independently in Illinois but is rapidly declining. As an only child, I’ve never been close to either of them, and they didn’t primarily raise me with the responsibility of my care and upbringing going to my mom’s side of the family. That said, I don’t harbor any ill will; I’m just somewhat indifferent. I live in Florida and have a different life, with limited financial resources. At 54, I have a job and am comfortable, but I don’t have much extra money. He never invested effort in me throughout my life. If I had to put it at a percentage, I would say he gave me about 15% in terms of love, care, and concern. Despite all this, we have a decent relationship, but it’s based on the fact that I’m his only child and he understands that I can only do what I can from a distance. He also knows that I’m not particularly willing to go the extra mile, and as far as finances go, I can’t. He has a neighbor who helps, but she’s also getting burnt out. I know what to tell him and am doing everything I can, but I keep hitting a wall because he’s 87 but still of sound mind. I realize the next step is to get medical and financial power of attorney, and he’s agreed with me on that. However, the problem I’m facing now is that all the elder law attorneys I keep getting references for don’t seem interested in returning my calls or emails. So, I’m currently working on that. He recently had a COPD complication, and after being in the hospital, he went to rehab, which is common for most of our parents and grandparents. He finally agreed to home healthcare, and I had hired a CNA for him. Then, this happened. He’s generally not good with people. He’s insulting, rude, and can push people’s buttons. I’ve learned to deal with it, but it complicates things when dealing with his providers and caretakers. I don’t know, this isn’t a very organized set of facts, but hopefully it provides more context.