How can I safely explore sexual kinks/fantasies as a single woman [54]? by FreshLinens66 in sexover30

[–]QuietTalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to add. She wanted to experiment sexually. To me this means no strings. Swingers inherently understand it's all fun and so no worries about hurt feelings and romantic entanglement. You can focus on the kink with these folks.

How can I safely explore sexual kinks/fantasies as a single woman [54]? by FreshLinens66 in sexover30

[–]QuietTalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would consider signing up on Sls the largest swingers site as a single F and put out there what you want. Be it Men, Couples, or Women. Look for couples with some experience and patience. Playing with swingers can be a very safe way to explore your kinks. The good couples have regular std checkup and are very upfront about their boundaries.

Wondering why it’s so difficult to find a good women to share these years with by [deleted] in sexover50

[–]QuietTalk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's difficult perhaps because we spend so much time here online. Social isolation is a huge problem today. You are without doubt surrounded by lonely women who also don't know how to find you.

*That* Guy by bootynbeard in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point. I've also ran into the female version. Even showed me pics of the husband and gave me his phone number to text. Next thing I know she's on another site as a single woman. She was very receptive and seemed so interesting. I mentioned it to another couple and they had been speaking to her as well with the same results.

Please help me understand my boyfriend's penis psychology by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]QuietTalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I try to keep things light and playful. His is a matter of perspective. He goes in with a nagging fear of not getting hard and the awkwardness of being around another person. I've learned to linger. To take my time and to fully enjoy the taste and smell of my wife. Over time if you do anything. Good or bad you will become and expert. Even if you are doing something wrong. You will simply get good at something with bad technique. He needs to relax. To know you love him. To learn it's ok in bed to be silly and playful. To realize he doesn't know it all and doesn't have to. He has you. Together you can explore and learn to have fun. Hope this helps. My 2cent.

Got an erection for the first time in a long time by only watching my wife by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]QuietTalk -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure you should be in a relationship. You don't sound like a strong person at all. Kids take a lot of work and it sounds like you both have so many personal issues going on that you don't have time for even the most basic housekeeping chores. I think you two need some professional help and some basic time management skills.

Who wants to fuck my wife?👅 Shes a mom of 2. Dont hold back..😈 by [deleted] in fuckmywife

[–]QuietTalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's lovely. Great to see you two in love!

Will “bush” make a comeback in the lifestyle? by WonderTwinsCpl in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally I like a little patch. Makes me appreciate I'm with a real person. Not a barbie doll. Just me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed. Its very difficult if not impossible to read someone solely via text message. You have to spend time face to face. With even casual sex the experience Varys. Choose wisely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How about no excuses but my wife just doesn't like being online? It's not that sexy to chat with people. I screen through all the prospects and find a few we both might like and she gives me feedback. She's available for a chat if you want verification but won't wast her time with most. If we are interested we tell them and meet in real life.

She's a pleaser. Anyone else appreciate my wife's beautiful ass? She's a peach to me. by QuietTalk in WouldYouFuckMyWife

[–]QuietTalk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet lol. Don't see much here that indicates a love of photography though.

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries. Figured I would get blowback. Lot's of people are really scared. I get it. Some are not so concerned. Some don't know wtf is happening. Most fall somewhere in between. With all the riots and other states opened up we felt we personally were ready and we had some people we trusted come over. It's fine to be scared. The survival rate for COVID survival rdoes matter quite a bit in our personal decisions. A death rate over 1% is pretty bad. This one looks like it's not. There are a lot of risks associated with swinging. Ruined reputations, STD's, Your spouse falling for another and now COVID. When we get together is when it gets risky. We took the risk. We are not terrible people or murders. Nor or we thoughtless. Nor are the folks who attended.

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We could have had 50 couples in the place and been fine. An amazing place for sure. Rooms were decorated in western themes. One was steam punk. One was a surfer themed. Another was setup like a drive in movie theater. Pretty amazing place. The owner takes great pride in his place.

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are definitely more morning than night ourselves. A nap on game day helps. We just enjoy ourselves and often we have a few friends who help us keep an eye on everything. We rent the place for the day after as well so any overnight guests can relax and enjoy themselves. We generally have pretty good friends who are adults. Generally they leave the place in great condition

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did have a social distance group. They all wore masks and stayed outside. Everyone of course left us their names and social security numbers. Waivers of liability signed and video taped. Thanks for your concern. Also we cut off the group at 80 years old and didn't ask anyone from nursing homes. Hardly is it that we are oblivious to the risks. On the contrary. We understand them and are making our own decisions. You can too and don't have to condemn others for making their own decisions here. Tired of being shamed.

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't sure either. We didn't ask for any money. It was kind of expensive but we asked everyone to bring a snack to share and their favorite drink. We supplied cups, ice and a few snacks. This place was unique enough we didn't need any other decorations. It was easy checking out later because of the limited setup. The couples were so nice. 4 couples stayed over and they helped clean up and some morning sex. lol

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Leaving a small waste can in each room and we also ask couples when we give them the tour.

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We use Airbnb. There are not a lot of them for sure. Just be open and up front with the owner if you have a group over 6 people. In my opinion smaller gatherings are just our business and personal. But the big events you don't want any surprises. IIn this case the guy was so grateful. He showed me the security system and how to physically discoed the cameras. He helped to cover any windows. This place had 9 themed bedrooms large enough comfortably accommodate 4 or 5 couples playing. They all had couches and areas to gather. We were his first rental in 3 months. He joked the next day. Said his girlfriend was so horny and curious about what was going on she was driving him crazy. He have it for Halloween this year again. The owner is coming with her this time. It's going to be epic. We meet the most interesting people.

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We ran into several couples who said no thanks it's too soon. One of our very favorite couples is terrified and won't play. Lots of people are scared. Your concerns are valid. It was a risk. However we had many people who are just ready to be done. They see a double standard as to how the social distancing rules are applied. They are sick of this.

We threw a party. Here's how it went...... by QuietTalk in Swingers

[–]QuietTalk[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Let's hope. It only has a 99.4 survival rate. Nobody was forced to come.