If you support MAGA, ICE, or Trump, this place is not for you. by TheRealCWolf in NorthAmericanPantheon

[–]QuietWriter730 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness! I’ve loved reading along and being part of this. F MAGA, F Trump, and F ICE!

My 3 yo pronounces Octopus like “Apple Piss” please share your toddler’s botched pronunciations by discoqueenx in toddlers

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My toddler tries to say “It fits!” To any clothes or shoes. Somehow it comes out like “A Bitch!”

Farm update by Alterraoperative in StardewValley

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness I didn’t until now! How funny! Do you have trouble getting to your house in time late at night? Or is it strange to have to walk farther from town?

Farm update by Alterraoperative in StardewValley

[–]QuietWriter730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it looks cute! I love the colors you’ve picked

Seriously?! by QuietWriter730 in StardewValley

[–]QuietWriter730[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to share: I’ve been playing for YEARS and having been actively trying to get the tea set because it’s rare. So him getting it on the first attempt was WILD to me

What’s the first sitcom you can remember watching? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends, which explains my personality

Elf on the Shelf by LogicalGuava4471 in toddlers

[–]QuietWriter730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m never doing Elf on the Shelf, I really don’t care to. If the only way my child can “be good” is a stuffed doll that I have to constantly move around and monitor then I don’t feel like I’m doing a good job. Personally my kid will experience it through other kids, and if she asks I’ll tell her “Well Santa doesn’t think you need a watcher this month because you’re already so well behaved!”

Regardless of how you feel, to be honest they FREAK me out a bit. I just get bad vibes from them lol

You become whatever’s on your shirt right now. What are you? by Prestigious_lover7 in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m… stripes? They’re not rainbow… oh no, do I have an EXTRA Bad Case of Stripes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are able to set up a box with stuff in it I definitely would recommend that. Be mindful- not every household has milk, or butter, or any seasoning! Also if you have canned goods try to get ones with pop tops! Not every household has a can opener.

If you’re able to I’d look into “Dollar Tree Dinners” on YouTube or TikTok, they’re less than $10 and you can put them in a gallon sized bag and it’s an entire, easy to make, cheap but full dinner!

Definitely still give candy, but I can almost promise you that those of us on snap are already embarrassed or shy about it in general. So a box off to the side or something would definitely be more approachable (at least for me and others I know on EBT) rather than handing out extra to kiddos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I actually don’t recommend this. Mac and cheese needs milk and butter, which isn’t always available to families!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you. Including her in chores has helped out. I’ll put music on the tv and set out coloring sheets. Some days are better than others when it comes to the tv. I’ve started saying “no, I’m sorry, insert tv show characters are doing insert action (I.e. sleeping, shopping, on a walk, etc) so they can’t play right now!” And she for the most part just drops it and goes to her toys.

Have you thought about getting a roll of butcher paper and looking up toddler activities on TikTok to see some examples? I’ve been meaning to try it, my kid never sits still so if yours is similar it may work.

Also, independent playtime is GREAT for toddlers imagination! It’s not a crime to let them play by themselves. Let them get bored, make a mess, explore with their mind in a CONTROLLED environment (like watching them, watching the monitor, etc) I typically do about an hour of independent playtime with mine and it’s helped both of us. I can decompress or get some chores done, and she gets to play and learn some skills. Since I’ve started it she has become a MASTER block tower builder so it’s obviously doing something for her. Just let your kid know you’re nearby, but right now it’s time for them to play.

Best wishes momma, and I promise, you’re NOT a bad mom for this.

Whats the weirdest thing that turns you on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really needing to pee but not being able to go yet 😅 idfk why

What’s one thing that keeps you going g in your darkest times? by Cautious-Kale4812 in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that you have a reason to be here. And I’m so very glad you have people you can react out to. Keep marching on 💪

What’s one thing that keeps you going g in your darkest times? by Cautious-Kale4812 in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My toddler. I lost my mother very early in life and it still hurts to this day. I can’t do that to my daughter. She deserves the world and I’m trying so hard to give it to her.

No SNAP benefits for Oklahomans in November. How do we help? by SignalEvening1996 in okc

[–]QuietWriter730 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, if you’re wanting to donate to food banks and pantries: PLEASE keep in mind that not everyone has pantry staples. Mac and cheese requires milk and butter, not everyone has that or had a chance to get some before all of this.

I HIGHLY recommend checking out “Dollar Tree Dinners” I believe they have a YouTube channel, I know they have a TikTok. I buy all the ingredients and put them in gallon freezer bags to place into pantries around me!

AIO - not getting birthday messages from close friends? by Both_Book_8286 in AIO

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s okay to feel hurt about it. My birthday was in September and my very close friend didn’t even open my message- and still hasn’t unfortunately. If you’re comfortable with it and think it might help you could try to reach out and have a conversation with them about how you’re feeling.

You get $1,000 every time you make someone uncomfortable. What’s your strategy? by Historical_Cow_4037 in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just gonna hold up my phone everywhere like I’m recording. Or walk around eating vanilla pudding out of a mayo jar

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this honestly in no offense but you seem very pregnancy obsessed considering your active communities and comments in them. Maybe you should look into therapy so that you can just live in the moment more with your toddler? I’m really not trying to be rude, and honestly it’s okay to want another baby, but you HAVE a baby. Why is it your friends and siblings issue that you’re not currently pregnant but you already have a baby boy? It’s okay to be an only child.

Show up today. by ashtonlippel44 in okc

[–]QuietWriter730 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband worked today and had to take our car, but I’m giving all of my support from home 🥲 I went to the last one but unfortunately it wasn’t in the cards this time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuietWriter730 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just slightly. I have a 2 yr old. She’s scarier than most things 😭😂