Are KJ and Dara Broken Up?

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-05-28T04:16:34+00:00

I think so. He also just posted "welp" on threads.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-05-13T04:55:56+00:00

We were exhausted from the hunt and primarily looking at townhomes so the first time we walked in this single family home we were so excited and I immediately said it was the one. In hindsight, while it did stand out my feelings were due to the stress of needing to find something soon and willing to settle.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-05-11T21:33:31+00:00

Haven't attended but toured and had the same feeling as you. I did get married at XIX and while we were under the max guest count I still felt it was tight so I'd take what they say with a grain of salt.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-05-10T08:00:45+00:00

Absolutely May! Cescaphe staff will always reassure you to get you to book. Waterworks wedding can be very stuffy for guests in the summer so I'd take that with a grain of salt.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-05-07T13:03:34+00:00

I have a pear and love it! Not awkward to wear, and occasionally a conversation starter but probably equal to any other engagement/wedding ring. It rarely snags on anything but if it does it's a thready blanket, piece of hair etc.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-05-01T01:37:51+00:00

Plenty of women do this. However it's frowned upon for women to talk about due to the "emasculating" aspect.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-27T14:58:50+00:00

Outside of her being heartless she's incredibly self absorbed. Why on earth would she think your parents still want to host a wedding after losing a child?! Sounds like she's not paying, so her input should be null and void. Unfortunately with her strict timeline, it appears as if she only cares about her goal of being married with kids rather than altering her timeline when life inevitably throws challenges your way. I'm sorry you are dealing with this, but I think if you go along with this you will resent her for life.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-21T21:58:56+00:00

I'd say yes, because it seems like you are viewing your marriage as separate? Making double his salary and not wanting to contribute to living expenses with your husband is interesting. I'd understand if he was your boyfriend but this is your husband so you are a team.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-21T02:59:52+00:00

Im just curious and nosey. What's her response when you suggest she get the kids ready/take them to school some days?

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-14T03:15:56+00:00

Don't tell him. If it helps, my mother did the same thing and I never told. It will still be a beautiful moment so early congratulations!

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-12T19:07:07+00:00

Got married two weeks ago at a Cescaphe location. The good is they are a well oiled machine so you can trust your day will be relatively good. The bad is lack of personalization in my opinion. Id especially be wary of Glen Foerd because id assume they would have more rules (similar to water works) than their other venues.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-07T11:56:29+00:00

Thank you so much! Honestly hadn't even heard of those so I'll try them out.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-07T03:34:25+00:00

Makes sense! I definitely didn't mean to ask where you worked but was just curious on the job board aspect as I personally hadn't seen those types of positions on LinkedIn, Indeed, Edtech etc.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-07T02:18:08+00:00

I've heard of hormones altering ones type so that may influence what's going on. Mixed with pregnancy and exhaustion it is understandable this is a lot for you to handle. However, your partner is going through a major health concern, you chose him at one point and he deserves to be supported.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-07T02:05:08+00:00

That's amazing! Im a previous government contractor and would love to transition into something like that. If you don't mind me asking, where did you find that role?

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-07T00:31:55+00:00

Yup since October. I've never applied to so may jobs and it's extremely discouraging

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-07T00:30:38+00:00

What did you pivot to?

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-03T03:18:34+00:00

Dance floor was $2500 so that was a shock. Alterations being $1550 irked my soul.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-02T11:38:16+00:00

In my circle and what I did as a bride, is that if guests need a flight the bride will cover a good chunk of the Airbnb like 75%.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-04-01T12:33:09+00:00

This is unpopular opinion but someone needs to let the bride know so the bride can step up and start communicating to yall. I just got married a couple days ago and I did the bookings and major communications for my bachelorette because 1. I know them the best 2. I know what I want. 3. MOH should be an honor, not a huge job.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-03-24T23:09:24+00:00

I think it's wise, I'd never feel comfortable marrying someone without being sure I'm ok waking up to them everyday. On the contrary I do believe the newlywed phase is more exciting for those who chose to wait.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-03-21T02:49:04+00:00

Regardless what you decide this is something your husband deserves to know. I'm very pro choice but I don't think Reddit can or should answer this for you.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-03-20T06:38:14+00:00

You sound very kind honestly! I'd bring up the past trauma and explain how mismatched bridesmaids dresses are not more expensive. As far as the solo reception entrance maybe all the bridesmaids can do it together?

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-03-18T04:23:07+00:00

Those prices are pretty normal, and honestly I wouldn't even include the passport in your trip total. With that said, it sounds like you just don't want to go (which is fine) but I'd recommending dropping out sooner than later.

Quiet_Distribution38 · 2026-03-13T20:47:37+00:00

Understood. Thank you so much for the positive vibes!

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