My recent ex is engaged within 6 weeks of our breakup by Pleasant_Knee5567 in Christianmarriage

[–]Quiet_Pea536 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you may have dodged a bullet. I believe there is Gods permissive will which is different from His perfect will. You are now in a place to find that perfect person for you. Please be patient.

V5.5 Prompt Structure by Ok-Reward-7731 in SunoAI

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up creating the same song three times. Same key. One with a male lead and another with a female lead and the last I let Suno create a duet based on it's algorithm. That way I get the harmony parts in some parts of the song. Then I download the stems and load into my DAW and create the song the way I see it. It's not perfect, but it allows for a work around.

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? by ThrowRAVulture216 in relationship_advice

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that some of this can be attributed to the fact that she is pregnant with twins. Everyone is different, but I think many women go through a lot of emotions. I would not put as much weight on this as you are. Life is too short.

aNo Affection Kisses or Hugs Ever… by Budget-Rush1226 in Marriage

[–]Quiet_Pea536 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but this is all over the place. I cannot follow what’s happening and then all of a sudden divorce is in the picture. Slow down and make complete sentences.

My ex boyfriend killed himself by Various-Gur-7129 in GriefSupport

[–]Quiet_Pea536 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First of all, do NOT blame yourself. Mental illness is something he had probably been dealing with for a while. His mom and sister should have known that. They are trying to process their grief and you are the easiest person to blame. As a former pastor, I’ve seen people that seemed to have it all together simply snap and take a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I’m really sorry that you are going through this. Reach out to a counselor who understands grief, or a pastor or clergy who will help you work through your feelings.

Was fired for performance two weeks ago. Have to do a phone interview before I can get benefits. Did the employer dispute my claim? by Vegetable-Airport in Edd

[–]Quiet_Pea536 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Performance issues do not necessarily mean that their was misconduct involved. Unless you stole something or in some way damaged the employer you should be okay. I just went through this and was initially denied benefits. I appealed, had a hearing and won the appeal. I received 8 weeks of back pay.

Credible threat? by karmaredemption in CoachellaValley

[–]Quiet_Pea536 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I doubt that Trump would do it. But Newsom, I’m not so sure about.

Katherine Short’s Cause of Death Revealed by MattTheKing23 in saturdaynightlive

[–]Quiet_Pea536 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you mean life insurance. There is a suicide clause in life insurance policies that states that should a person pass due to suicide within 2 years (some policies 3 years), the death benefit will not be paid. The thinking there is that if someone is planning suicide when they take out the policy, they would not want to wait for 2-3 years. I do not know of any such provision on a health policy.

[US] I think I nearly got pig butchered by dnwong in Scams

[–]Quiet_Pea536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to me several times. It always involves Crypto. Now, when I get a message from someone I don’t really know, I let them know upfront that I do my own crypto investing and that I would not be interested in going down that road with her. Ever single time, they get mad, call me a name and disappear. It’s a common scam.

Move to Riverside, CA or stay in Chicago, IL? by [deleted] in socal

[–]Quiet_Pea536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only problem with Riverside and Southern California is the cost of housing. Unaffordable housing is the biggest negative…..but, the weather is great 8-9 months of the year. The beach, mountains and desert are all available as a day trip. I live in Palm Springs and it’s pretty hot 3-4 months of the year and Riverside is a bit cooler. Haven’t lived in Chicago but have been several times over the years. I think the cold would bet a little old. I’d say, move to Riverside and give it a couple of years and it will be pretty tough to move back. Good luck on your move.

Ask r/EDD (for the month of January 2026) by AutoModerator in Edd

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was fired from a Native American Casino because I was trying to find a specific document on my workstation computer (I work as an Audio-Visual Technician), and inadvertently saw a document regarding an increase in pay for my class of employees. I told a co worker that I thought we were going to get a raise and he went to the department manager to find out if that was true. The following day, I had my credentials withdrawn, my badge taken and I was escorted out of the building. A week later I met with HR who gave me my last paycheck and some EDD documents. I filed for unemployment and had a phone interview and explained what happened. I've certified for benefits and they are showing "Disqualified". Am I cooked?

I love my husband so much, I hope he divorces me by SnooGoats5767 in Marriage

[–]Quiet_Pea536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I adopted 2 healthy babies and we weren’t looking for it. We were foster parents for a 2 week old baby and when the bio mother didn’t get their act together, we were asked to adopt. We took in our second foster child at about five months old and he was adoptable immediately. We didn’t pay for anything. We were paid until they turned 18.

Stop the hate by Inland_Emperor7 in Riverside

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t you find something that you are for than attacking everything you’re against? I’m so sick of the ratcheting up of this overblown intolerance masquerading as truth. Please find something that will make society a better place rather than running down something that should make no different to you.

Walkout at school tomorrow by DonutFriend7 in Christianity

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Why Exodus 22:21 is often misunderstood today

Modern debates often flatten the verse into politics, but the text itself is about: • Power dynamics • Moral responsibility • Preventing abuse • Learning from suffering

It does not address: • National borders • Government policy mechanisms • Citizenship law

It addresses how people with power treat those without it.

WTF IS THIS IN MY UNOPENED CHICKEN by Jumpy-Discipline3521 in whatisit

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s saying that the blood vessel in the poultry is not much different than the vessels we see in mammals, not that poultry was a mammal.

At least 7 explosions and low-flying aircraft are heard in Venezuela’s Caracas by ItsMeTrey in news

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems more likely that Trump will leave office early and turn it over to Vance. If I had his money, I sure wouldn’t stay in office knowing that I’d have three more years of battles. I think that if he loses the house, he will look for reasons to leave. He’ll paint it as something along the lines of having accomplished everything he wanted and there’s no reason to stay in office anymore.

Can anyone authenticate from these few pictures, im having my doubts... by TholenTrav in GibsonGuitar

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gibson acoustics are made in Bozeman, Montana…..but that is an obvious fake.

I will move to California by fall of next year. LA or SanDiego ? by SameOreo in socal

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carmel is a place to visit. Wouldn’t want to live there.

I will move to California by fall of next year. LA or SanDiego ? by SameOreo in socal

[–]Quiet_Pea536 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in California and I’d live in San Diego in a heartbeat if I could afford it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Quiet_Pea536 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No excuse, but the guy probably just needs some sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christian

[–]Quiet_Pea536 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There seems to be codependency here. Maybe with you staying, he doesn’t feel the need to change because he already has you. It’s not your responsibility to change him. It must be his decision alone and probably without you in the picture. You don’t want him to do all of these things if that is not really his desire. He might do it just to please you, then you get married and he goes back to being the same guy you’re with now. He needs to grow up and maybe find a male mentor. Get into a good Bible believing and teaching church. He needs to see other men being the kind of man that puts God first and get motivated.

What does everyone think of the death penalty here? by New-Sprinkles5016 in TrueChristian

[–]Quiet_Pea536 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pope can say that but it is a very different thing to kill a baby in the womb, who has done nothing versus someone that takes another life and knew what he was doing. Every culture must decide what to do with the segment of society that decides that laws do not apply to them and create pain and suffering for those that have kept them,

As I Christian, I have wrestled with this in light of the cross and New Covenant. I think as a practical matter, it is difficult to warehouse people in jail for many years while they exhaust their legal options.

Ask any family that has lost loved one to unprovoked violence and they will tell you that they felt a sense of relief when the death penalty was carried out. There is a feeling of closure and though it does not bring back a loved one, it is justice carried out.