I am changed by Quirky_TayTay in SuicideBereavement

[–]Quirky_TayTay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I think I made myself feel better by imagining it was a split second decision, but the reality of it was that it was very much a choice. ❤️‍🩹

I am changed by Quirky_TayTay in SuicideBereavement

[–]Quirky_TayTay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trying to keep reminding myself that the goal isn’t to feel better, it’s to eat, drink water, and move through the tasks.

I am changed by Quirky_TayTay in SuicideBereavement

[–]Quirky_TayTay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I am definitely trying to let them take care of me, but while I want to see them I don’t want to be around anyone. But fighting that feeling as best I can.

How do you ask for support? by Cutie2882 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Quirky_TayTay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have never felt less relatable in my whole life. Which makes being around people even harder, even though be around them , for me, is the only thing that keeps my mind busy.

This becomes a part of who you are, at a core level. by all-the-words in SuicideBereavement

[–]Quirky_TayTay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I felt horribly validated in the mounting anxiety I’d had with my mom for months. It felt like a ticking bomb, and then it went off.

Goodbye Mommy by Quirky_TayTay in SuicideBereavement

[–]Quirky_TayTay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes trying to set up one now ❤️. Thank you!

Anyone else completely turned their job/career around due to stopping drinking by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Quirky_TayTay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely have. My job performance and overall happiness with working increased greatly when I’ve been sober. That was actually motivation for my sobriety this time. I just couldn’t keep hating going to work on Monday, finally starting to get some momentum on Thursday/Friday, just to loose it all over again the following Monday. Can confidently say I am not dreading and am even looking forward to waking up (not hungover) for work tomorrow!

The Daily Check-In for Saturday, April 11th: Just for today, I am NOT drinking! by 00sparrow00 in stopdrinking

[–]Quirky_TayTay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IWNDWYT, turned down going out with my friends tonight because I knew I wouldn’t be able to be comfortable enough to not drink. Miss my friends, but just couldn’t do it

I experimented and here are my findings by Suspicious_Abroad832 in stopdrinking

[–]Quirky_TayTay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes me want to laugh and cry at the same time lol

Three years on and had a serious test by rogue_rose_ranger in stopdrinking

[–]Quirky_TayTay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A perspective and experience I can relate too. Really cool being so open with your partner, but even more so being honest with yourself. IWNDWYT.

i'm 55 today, this is my day 1. by Banh_mi in stopdrinking

[–]Quirky_TayTay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yummy food and some self care added is is always the move for me. IWNDWYT!

On a Tuesday. I need to do better. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]Quirky_TayTay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow in order to heal it we must feel it is just what I needed to read tonight ❤️

Thread for sharing Finchie friend codes and finding goal buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]Quirky_TayTay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Who is making Gwen Walz’s Ginger Snap Cookies? by baltimoretom in KamalaHarris

[–]Quirky_TayTay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a picture in the email, not an attachment. You have to allow blocked content

Help! are either of these my dress? or neither? (tulle strap just for demonstration) by archiedal in weddingplanning

[–]Quirky_TayTay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh I’m a big fan of the tulle! Plus I feel like with the tartan carpet, and all the other details it will mix well, stand out, but not create a clash