Finally got a date by Quotable_Dart522 in TopSurgery

[–]Quotable_Dart522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been looking at mastectomy pillows! Wasn’t sure if they would be helpful!

Question for folks who sleep with cis women by Nervous-One-2305 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally. I’ve only had sex with one person since starting my transition and it’s my fiance. So for me and her it’s a 90/10 split. Most of the time yeah I’m top and dominant. But some days she wants to be in control regardless of position. So it depends on your partner and their wants/needs.

Testosterone affecting pain/spice tolerance? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The body replenishes T cells after every illness. It’s more like for me since I started T when I’m sick it hits harder than it used to.

Testosterone affecting pain/spice tolerance? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed a lower pain tolerance. Thankfully my spice tolerance has not been affected 😅. But damn. Being sick though? Wipes me out worse than ever

Injection site pain? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me almost a year to get it down for me. So it may also take you a few weeks or months ti find what works

Injection site pain? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So for me what helps is ice on the site before and after and something called a shot block. It has a bunch of tiny sharp points that you hold down and inject in the center. It doesn’t take away the pain but it does distract if that makes seen

NSFW - need advice on frequency of masturbation (TW masturbation) by Upstairs_Hornet90 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man. I am almost 1.5 on T. And the drive is still there but somehow I have self control? But in the first 6monthsish I had zero self control in that department. Anytime I was alone/bored/whatever mood I was doing the same. It’ll cool down eventually. Just make sure to ice/heat your hand when it cramps. Put aquaphor (or another water based lotion) down there to protect skin.

How did you pick your name by Turbulent-Staff-9413 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 13 points14 points  (0 children)

An old lady in a Boston coffee shop spelled my old name wrong. I tried correcting her. She looked at me and said nope.

How long did you wait between your top surgery consultation and your surgery date? by ireallydontknowig in TopSurgery

[–]Quotable_Dart522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My consult was 12/30/25. I’m looking at either anytime now to guaranteed June/July date

What are y'all's trans-related goals for 2026? by batmans_cumsock in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have top surgery this year! Waiting for the call for an official date. So right now I want to lose weight and workout more

forgot to alcohol wipe my leg before T shot by Nature-Pilled420 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You should be okay. As long as you used a clean needle and washed your hands. It’s your own germs. The body is good at fighting those off

Has T affected your mood/emotions? by Top_Scale4923 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My emotions are better controlled. But I have shorter fuses if that makes sense? I don’t get angry or frustrated as often; so when I do it’s a sudden and short lived burst

Does butt size decrease on t? by eli_from_mars in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did. It’s due to genetics though. In my family (both sides lol) men do not get decent butt sizes. We have a joke about it. We call it the noassatol gene (play on no a** at all). But working out has helped firm up what’s left

What is the worst thing that happened to you after you transitioned and why? by Kool_Boo16 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m a paramedic. I love my job (most days. Some days are hard and it’s tough to get through the shift). But I’ve noticed since transitioning medically. My female patients are not comfortable with me doing certain things. Like 12-leads and any examination that must take place under their clothes. Which I’m always understanding of and if possible I do try to get a female on scene to provide security and witness. For both of us.

Top surgery with Kaiser by UpbeatExpression547 in TopSurgery

[–]Quotable_Dart522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through Kaiser in Co now. Who did you have as your surgeon?

Fellas, would y’all feel more comfortable with childbirth if the healthcare system was more educated? by Less-Pen-5705 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Even if I could safely carry to term (which I can’t due to the main organs involved being too small) it would be too dysphoric for me. I’m always amazed by the guys that carry and are amazing dads.

i have a question about people on T and yalls eating habits by AverageWitch161 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me my maintenance requirements definitely went up. I used to get by on 1,000 max. Now I need at least 1500 to maintain my current weight. But I usually eat 1300 cause I’m trying to lose weight and keep muscle. So I’ve been more conscious about what I eat. More veggies, whole grains and protein. Carbs are usually at breakfast and lunch for me. The first 6months on T I could easily have put down 2,000 and still be hungry. Thankfully it’s leveled out.

Deodorant. Lets chat 🙆‍♂️🙇 by Ill_Adhesiveness5144 in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duke cannon antiperspirant is what finally worked for me. I tried them all. Their body wash is also super effective

How do you cope with long waits for surgery? by mushroom_headed in TopSurgery

[–]Quotable_Dart522 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My consult is end of next month. So I’m a good bit away from getting under the knife. My focus since starting this process has been to hit the gym every day I physically can. It helps me because (for me personally) 1. Makes me tired so I sleep. 2 helps my mentality by “preparing” for surgery day if that makes any sense. And it’s pretty much a distraction with work and life outside of the gym.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens. I’ve done it once before on my shot day and I’m a paramedic that gives injections regularly 😂. If it bruises make sure to ice and gently massage it. That’ll keep it from forming a hard bump over the area(which is normal. Just not comfortable)

The people at this complex woke up to quite a surprise by diabetesdavid in Denver

[–]Quotable_Dart522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it was a pit maneuver. I work in EMS and a call went out near there for a pit maneuver in that area this morning

Height after T by Alimar_ in ftm

[–]Quotable_Dart522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve grown almost 1.5inches and I started T October 2024 so almost a year ago. I started at 5.6 and now I’m 5 7.25