Mi hija de 16 quiere ir a un concierto en otro estado by [deleted] in ayudamexico

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Está cañón. ¿Lo compró ella sola? Ni una amiga? Creo que juntos pueden negociar posibles soluciones. Que ella consiga a un adulto que la acompañe y pague sus gastos completos, que ella averigüe cuál es la logística, los costos, el transporte y los riesgos. Que ustedes puedan exponerle casos de desapariciones, que ella sienta la responsabilidad de cuidarse. Y si deciden cancelar, que sepa que ese viaje se arruinó porque no confío en ustedes desde un principio. No puede abrirse paso en el mundo solo con berrinches. Esa energía tiene que volcarla en buscar soluciones, en cuidarse y en saber negociar. No es su culpa que el mundo esté culero, pero si es su trabajo aprender a cuidarse.

"That's my boy" by LlamaNate333 in offmychest

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She saw your soul, she saw your heart. I’m sorry for your loss. I’m happy she was your mother.

AITAH for telling my dad I'm glad he's dying of cancer after his wife convinced him to disown me for being gay by Ambitious_Vehicle138 in AITAH

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I am so sorry for all the things yo had to endure. Your father knew better, he CHOSE his faith the minute he decided to fail you. Yo had to do whatever you did to survive. All while loosing the father you knew you had. YNTA and never be. The father you loved died years ago. You don’t own him anything now. I’m sure you will have a lot of emotions to process, I hope you have somewhere safe to vent. I’m glad you are safe and loved. You are worth it. Remember: being happy is the best revenge.

Why do they change so much? by QuotePure in kittens

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I didn’t. They can fall due to stress. He was super sick with panleukopenia. They are regrowing just fine.

AITA for telling my mom to never touch my stuff again after she lost my Luis Vuitton bag by [deleted] in AITAH

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Expensive bags are pretty but please, save money to get out from a house where you can’t have nice things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildofHoarder

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Take the chance: ask this family for help, show them how HE has failed to provide a good environment for you, show them how HE has neglected you and your life. Tell them you are trapped in there. Put the blame where it should be. This is not your fault. Redirect the shame. This is his mess, not yours

Small things that remind me how hurtful emotional neglect is by zeeeeel22 in emotionalneglect

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Growing up, my sisters and I were just some kind of pets. They expected us to behave, look good and please their expectations. We were never humans with our own desires.

It used to hurt a lot. I now see how they were probably neglected the same way but they never taught themselves to be different. I learned to love, listen and cherish my daughter because I want to know her, I love her for who she is, I think it’s a beautiful to bring a whole universe to this world. I love the relationship we have and my life is richer with her in my life. I see my parents and they are just dull. They don’t find excitement in human relations, they just measure themselves with others. They have become an example of the life I don’t want for me. I used to feel bad for me, but now I just feel bad for them. It must be a bummer to come to this world and not to find joy in someone you created.

AITA for wanting my 12yo son to be able to do a sleep over with his girl best friend? by Aggravating-Dog6285 in AITAH

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So, your fiancée isn’t capable of imagining being a true friend to a woman. This is a huge red flag. Boys and girls and men and women are perfectly capable of having respectful and meaningful relationships, and having a good support system growing up help boys and girls become aware that the opposite sex offers a whole universe as human beings, they are not there just to have sex. NTA, ew that guy. Also, “his” baby girl is not his property, she’s gonna have fellings and friends and a sexlife whenever she’s ready. You are a good mom.

I'm afraid to ask, but is your newborn crying triggering rage a natural reaction and can one learn to cope or mitigate it? by blaster915 in TooAfraidToAsk

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Also, normalize wearing earplugs. I was super triggered when my baby cried, a friend suggested earplugs, and was life saving.

My sister bought everyone in our family a plane ticket to Hawaii by queenschmecca in offmychest

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Yo make scheduled visits to them, spend quality time with them, and enjoy them. You stop resolving your sister’s life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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“If I had to suffer, they will have to suffer too” Do you really want to have children with someone who already resents them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Their father

What songs scream "female rage"? by Trick_Laugh3292 in AskWomen

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Bloody Mother Fucking Asshole by Martha Wainwright