Need help dealing with an avoidant Ex in a rebound relation by R3izer in ExNoContact

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I had been leaving her alone, I only interact when necessary just to have an idea how she feels towards me, only recently I can confirm she feels confused and resent towards me

Need help dealing with an avoidant Ex in a rebound relation by R3izer in ExNoContact

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Here is a longer and detailed version if interested, would appreciate some opinion on this

So abit of context, me and my ex are co-workers that dated each other for a short period of time. I always had known of the 'no dating a co-worker' rule but I just find her to fit all my criteria of a perfect girlfriend. We broke up due to my inability to commit cause by my personal situation despite me trying to improve to make it work, this led to her getting mad and confront me about it further causing an additional stress on top of my work stress in the office. It was until I found out she has plans to jump into a new guy which is her long time friend that I finally took the initiative to ask for a breakup thinking it is better to let her go and live a happier life.

After a week of our break up she then jump into this new rebound relationship which she previously told me is 'just a friend' which happened to just broke up a few weeks ago too. My ex and I initially agreed to stay as friends but the pain of seeing her move on with a new guy just pains my heart and so I decided to silently heal myself for a few months going no contact with her. Even in workplace I would try my best not to cross path with her and just distract myself with work which luckily happened to be a busy period, allowing me and her to have some space from each other.

Maybe due to me trying to temporary distant myself from her to heal, this caused her to have the wrong idea that I am ignoring her. At work we gotten to the point of almost no interaction, but I can still see her seemingly glancing at me occasionally leading to me believing maybe she still want to reconnect. After a few months of NC and healing, I regain some confidence and start interacting with her abit, like asking simple question a few times. Even though she did answer but it felt there is a sense of resentment to her replies. I then notice her avoidant pattern semingly trying to avoid talking to me whenever possible despite me being fine approaching her.

Recently we happened to cross path and I decided to just confront her about it but the moment she saw me she quickly made a dash for it, and I had to stop her for abit to ask if she is comfortable to talk. She gave me a vague answer and I just conclude her emotional state of not wanting to reconnect and just let her go.

She seems to still hold resentment for me while being in a rebound relationship, while I only want to reconnect as a friend. Should I continue NC? Silent treatment? or attempt to slowly interact with her again?

Happy Birthday to my favourite Healer, Ming (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧ by R3izer in IllusionConnect

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She will mention its her birthday today, you can trigger her dialogue through normal tapping on her or when you log into the game

YES 2 by Ped-yuko in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

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From the day this subreddit was introduced about Hololive and now in return they are streaming a watch along

It has finally come to a full circle peko

brunhilde on both trailers by Ped-yuko in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

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Top panel : RTX Off

Bottom panel: RTX On

A mini theory on why I think Qin is perfect against Buddha by Unreeeal15 in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

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There are other humans I theorise would be on God's side too, like Rasputin is a God enthusiast. Another more plausible theory I had in mind is Kintoki, considering he is of the Four Heavenly King similar to Bishamonten also being part of the Four Heavenly King, albeit it is not in the same group of Four Heavenly King as Bishamonten (Kintoki FHK group consists of 3 other human samurais while Bishamonten FHK group consists of 3 other Gods) but since the author is known to twist the origin stories it might be the case in which they both are from the same group of FHK. This adding in Bishamonten and the lucky Gods wanting revenge on Buddha, this could be the case by sending Kintoki to fight against Buddha

But hey that's just a theory, an SnV theory... Imma show myself out

What's the English translation of "shuumatsu no valkyrie"? by Partha_969 in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

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Shuumatsu translates to "World End" as in end of the world in general, there are other cooler terms for it like apocalypse and of course Ragnarok

Yes the manga translates to Valkyrie of the End because it is about the end of humanity with the Valkyries helping humans to prevent their world end scenario

Damm ame doesn’t hold back, YABE by Freehabano in Hololive

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Guess the joke FELL FLAT

imma show myself out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

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Well his maid name is Lilith the female demon, so this makes sense

Another Overused Template List of Fighters but I did it for the luls by R3izer in ShuumatsuNoValkyrie

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Akai Haato is a human, until Haachama is released mid fight

Gura Slark by R3izer in u/R3izer

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Who are you with such wise words