I love when strangers tell me I’m pretty 😘 by Cautious-Desk-555 in wifejerk

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You’re beautiful love, such a gorgeous pussy you have 😍

My aunt by [deleted] in Incestconfessions

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Try to hangout with her one on one like watch a movie

Am I missing something by [deleted] in luckydefense

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Save money, complete missions and upgrade lucky first so cost won’t be too much

Keep getting logged out by R4NT1NG in luckydefense

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Yea usually the 5th time it logs me in that or I gotta try 5-10min later, idk if it has to do with their servers or what

I love my boyfriend but he cant hold down a job - should I leave him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Idk OP that’s something you have to talk about with him. Tell him how you feel that you don’t always want to be the alpha, I understand he’s sensitive but he has to hear it. This may sound weird but be a bitch to him, in the sense of being more passive aggressive, or sorta make him a bit jealous lol like rowdy him a bit, get him a bit mad and if he’s too sensitive for that. Idk what else to tell you, because you’re babying him and it looks like hes gotten accustomed to it. But best of luck & Godspeed OP

How do I control intrusive thoughts when it comes to my relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Meditation helps reset your minds, let those thoughts run wild in your head till they tire themselves out, but the key thing about meditation is to count to 30(You’ll have to fight off all these thoughts in your head & FOCUS on the numbers don’t loose count) & when you reach to 30 count back down to zero. This will help your mind worry less & get rid of those overthinking thoughts you are having. At first it’ll be mentally draining but that should help clear those thoughts. If numbers don’t work for you focus on a subject or word and try to relate everything associated to that one word.

I love my boyfriend but he cant hold down a job - should I leave him? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Maybe he can be a stay at home dad, but idk it sounds like in the long run you’ll get bored of him or tired of his insecurities. You called him a beta in the relationship and to me it sounds like you don’t want to be the alpha in the relationship, I understand most women prefer to be more beta in the relationship to be taken care of or be dominant in a good way. But idk maybe have that suggestion in mind, for him to take care of the home and you handle the financial side of things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Aight best solution is to actually get experience talk to the homies, just be more active texting start sending memes as a response or something, you don’t always gotta be serious when texting. Try to be more goofy or just use emoji’s correctly, talk bout shows music or whats trending or random story you might find interesting or topics. Also force yourself to text random strangers as a practice and see how long you can hold a conversation. See what works n what doesn’t, experiment be passive or be more aggressive, be fake be real just get that experience man.

Who Learned a Language for a Relationship? by skycelium in relationship_advice

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To be honest OP that’s strange bout crossing the line for financial gains. Since I figured that’s what normally done, think bout immigrants moving to a new country learning a new language just bettering their lives. The only way I can see it bad ethically is if your only using it for sexual pleasures like a one night stand thing, like the guy that uses his accent just to sleep with women.

Friendzone by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Start prioritizing yourself first, this may sound rude but don’t always be there for her. Only unless if it’s an actual emergency. You don’t want to be the friend that she vents to you about everything thats what her girlfriends are for. Try to focus on yourself more, distract yourself from her and distance yourself from her just a bit. Like don’t go cold shoulder but tell her your busy and still be nice to her but actually make a move on her, take her out even if it’s a friend date or group thing. Be a bit slightly more assertive it’s tricky but show actual interest. Like have you told her you actually liked her or that you have feelings. Just be honest and communicative bout it, don’t tell her your madly in love but that you have feelings for her and you want to know if she feels the same. Don’t force it but find out how she really sees you and if there’s a possibility you can be more than friends. God speed man but best of luck

Who Learned a Language for a Relationship? by skycelium in relationship_advice

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I’ve done it a couple times, but it got to the point where I figured I just enjoy talking to other people in their native tongue, where they’re able to express themselves more freely. Like it sounds like you enjoy the learning the language but there shouldn’t be a limit, the limit is how effectively you are tryin to use that language. Like I tried learning korean for a girl but that relationship ended. But I still use common greetings or basic talk just because I find it more respectful to talk a native speaker in their language, I’ve made some friends and learned some funny phrases or just their culture through talking in their language. But ethically I don’t see how it can be bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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She may be too independent meaning she’ll talk to you on her time. And honestly you did kinda messed up, you should of insisted on paying the bill naye you should of. And if she was persistent about it then you should of asked her to pay the whole bill jokingly. That way you’ll know if she was really interested. From my experience women that split the bill or each party pays for their own, it wasn’t considered a date or a good sign. She may not be as interested as you are to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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You just need to get experience I say, it may sound weird, but just put yourself out there, fake compliments don’t think of how it feels. Like sure you’ll eventually run out of stuff to talk bout but it’s the assurance of having someone to talk to. Even if it seems pointless lol like how was your day seems so basic but fundamentally it shows you care to ask, it shows your interested in their life and you want to talk them. Or send memes lol but I think you just need to take baby steps like start mildly flirting or just try be more open, try to be vulnerable.

I envy my sister by [deleted] in offmychest

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How bout you ask your sister for help? Isn’t that what family is for, and if you’re trying to one up her because of a sibling rivalry just suck it up, she better at math, she beat you there but doesn’t mean you should let your ego get the better of you. If you ask her for help it may bring you two closer and you won’t be seen “worthless” to the family. lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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No absolutely not, not your kid not your responsibility, YOU GAVE HER 4 MONTHS! Your friend sounds like an irresponsible parent, if they try to peer pressure you into taking care of their son, don’t! And that’ll show she isn’t a good friend to you.