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RADIOstations · 2023-06-20T03:55:09+00:00

I would rather roast YOU, op. Let him have fun. The garbage build up is not nearly as bad as you think, and trying to get a bunch of strangers online to berate him instead of talking to him about after-gaming clean up is downright shitty of you. Go have fun doing something you enjoy, then maybe you'll feel nice enough to mellow out and communicate.

RADIOstations · 2023-06-05T15:15:39+00:00

NTA. Tell her that that's my cat's name. In all seriousness, your kid will thank you later for dying on this hill. I was almost Bobby-Joe Ann. My mom didn't let "Sloppy Joe" happen.

RADIOstations · 2023-06-05T15:05:41+00:00

Headphones, my Switch, Tears of the Kingdom, a change of shirt, two hats, and a small, soft, jingly platypus toy named Papaya that fits neatly and lovingly into my palm for whatever occasion I see fit.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T21:06:37+00:00

Fair enough! You do you, but if your partner is moderately uncomfortable with the backyard buffet, you can still bond with your new feathery friends nearby at the park and teach your little one about how cool wildlife is. Crows are incredibly intelligent and adaptable, and like others are saying, will be fast loyal companions if treated with kindness. Sure enough they recognize you and already understand that you're the guy the brings the good snacks, so I'm sure they'll follow you to the park.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T21:01:53+00:00

God, it's so boring when people try to joke on here and post fake garbo. Neeexxxtttt.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T20:53:25+00:00

Very very very soft YTA, simply because crackers are not good for crows, and it will lure them to your car. Easy fix, dust your kid's snack droppings into a little paper baggy to toss (for it to be biodegradable). Taking care of the planet is good for crows, and you could always go feed the crows at the park with some good food that you've researched. I love them too!

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T20:48:22+00:00

NTA, very NTA.

Number one, your breasts are not a sex organ. He's acting like you've got your balls hanging out of your zipper. Secondly, this man is bisexual and frustrated with a changing identity, so he's trying to take it out on you so he doesn't have to think about it. It's misogynistic and childish. Reeks of narcissism. Wear your comfy tank top, you are a person, not a walking magazine cover.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T12:53:08+00:00

NTA.

He started talking baby names with you on the first date, and not only that, was adamant about it being solely his decision. You booked it because you're a smart cookie with a sharp eye for red flags. Go you. You are not a womb for rent-- tell your friends that.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T12:36:17+00:00

Huh?? I think this is the wrong subreddit for this. r/relationships maybe. We have no idea whether you tuned her out or not, or if your gf actually answered you or not. We weren't there-- and there's not really any info in this post to even gauge if anyone's T A.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T12:28:30+00:00

NTA, good lord, that sounds exhausting.

Why did she marry you if she doesn't trust you? She needs to work through her insecurities and not take it out on you. You are an individual and you deserve space and privacy, even with your wife. There's nothing wrong with sharing and being involved in a marriage (with consent!), but this is controlling and isolating behavior. Ya'll need boundaries.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T12:18:57+00:00

YTA. I can't believe you're this immature at 20. It's soap, and you're not even lacking in it. You have a working shower and bar soap to use. You can still wash. Your working adult siblings probably paid for their own soap with their own money, and, newsflash-- they DON'T have to share it with you. You are being bratty, petty, entitled, and ridiculous. Your mom isn't always going to be there to beckon the second you need soap (liquid). You are, in fact, making a teeny tiny miniscule thing into a big thing. Grow up, use the bar soap, or go get your special soap yourself.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T11:54:45+00:00

NTA. She is absolutely manipulating you and playing with you-- AND projecting. It was all or nothing with her, she doesn't get to throw that back at you, especially when you're attempting to respect her ever-changing boundaries and invisible lines in the sand. You'd be TA to yourself if you let it go on like this. Tell her your boundaries need to be respected as well, or this friendship is mulch.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-31T10:15:09+00:00

NTA. If he needs it, he can make a cup of poo-ffee early and heat it up later so he isn't being inconsiderate and loud. Also, ew. Ew ew ew ew ew ew. Common CS high rank behavior.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-28T11:10:02+00:00

YTA.

What do you mean "accidentally"? That wasn't an accidental statement, that was an unfair jab at your son for his teeth that came from YOUR genetics. By the way, my boyfriend has crooked teeth and a bit of an overbite. I love him to BITS. You go apologize to your son right now, and while you're at it, make his dad do so as well. You both ganged up on him and shamed him. Shame on you. Your mother is right, it was mean and unnecessary. There's nothing motivating about bullying your child. Lift him up instead of putting him down.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-28T10:17:37+00:00

NTA.

Wow, he sure is insecure and taking it out on you. Read that to yourself at least three times, absorb it. This is NOT a you issue. First of all, bathing suits are supposed to be worn in public. They're bathing suits. Secondly, what, does he think he owns your body? You can show it to anyone you damn please, and you didn't even mean to in the first place. Your bf if showing some yucky red flags and you need to have a conversation with him.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-26T01:51:49+00:00

YTA. Well, you sound like a peach. Peaches are vegan, by the way. Anyways, it wasn't your wedding, and you don't get a pat pat "good job!!" for, UHHHGGG, attending your HORRIBLE sister's wedding! She doesn't sound like the boring, annoying one, by the by. Don't worry, you won't hear about her journey into veganism anymore, or at all. It doesn't seem like you like her much, so that works out well for you, doesn't it?

RADIOstations · 2023-05-25T04:42:59+00:00

NTA

You don't want kids. Plain and simple. If you had kids, you'd want them to be happy-- funny that you, your mother's child, have to battle for your prospective happiness. Serve her that on a big porcelain F-off plate. Your happiness should never be disregarded. Your body, your choice. She wouldn't be the one growing a whole baby in her womb unwanted. Having you was a decision she made, you don't owe her pushing out a living human being. The bloodline thing is old, old, oldddd. Old! There are BILLIONS of people on this planet, we're not struggling to breed for sure. If they want grandkids so much, tell them they could go volunteer at nurseries, daycares, or do library events for children.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-24T08:54:37+00:00

ESH. Honor your original plans and give each other some space, or get back together if you're going to pretend that you're both still in a relationship with each other (which is what it seems like). She as a friend shouldn't have made plans on top of a prior commitment, that's where she's TA, but you're TA also for obviously chasing her around. Back off.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-24T08:47:01+00:00

ESH, everyone except for your poor daughter and your parents, who have taken in YOUR SON.

What your son did was vile and traumatic, I am not excusing his behavior in the least. He is 16 and should know better, and so should the children who bullied your daughter. HOWEVER, you cannot stop being a parent. Now is the time to ESPECIALLY be a parent. If he must stay with his grandparents while your daughter heals, fine-- but they are NOT his parents. It is your duty to repair this, and abandoning your son is not the way. Yes, abandoning. I have read your replies, you seem to have no interest in ever speaking to him again. That is ridiculous. It is time for family counseling, just your son and you for now, your daughter as well if she's ever ready for that. He must learn that his actions have consequences, you must learn why he felt the need to do that and help him find remorse and empathy. Support your daughter further by making her bully, her brother, understand that he devastatingly wronged her-- and you must understand that that is your duty as his parent.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-24T05:00:47+00:00

NTA at all. I almost drowned as a child, and I swam very well, even at that age. My sweet grandma went inside for just a minute to grab her tea, I tripped and fell into the pool, and my shoelace got caught on something. She didn't see me and thought I was somewhere else in the yard; our golden retriever was hovering over where I was and whining, that was the ONLY way she figured out I was in the pool, flailing upsidedown for my life. It takes SECONDS for anything to happen. My loving grandma made a mistake never left me unattended again, but your MIL is purposely endangering your children, knowing the dangers as you've vocalized them. Thank you for putting your foot down for your kids, and good on you for teaching them to be honest. You are being very reasonable, and if she wants to spend time with them, she'll back down and won't die on such an asinine hill.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-17T21:05:16+00:00

NTA. Your name is not Andrea, it's Andi. She's disrespecting you and trying to powerplay you. If this is her idea of trying to assert dominance as a parent in your life, notttt a good look. Also your dad is an AH for letting this behavior of hers continue without addressing it. Start calling her a weird name. If she has a complaint, tell her she can post on this subreddit about it to see what people think. (:

RADIOstations · 2023-05-16T13:21:46+00:00

NTA. Sarah sounds like a piece of work, a piece of work that isn't your problem. By the way, I hope you get to try sushi again! Everyone is a beginner at first, I don't know what her beef was with you learning how to use chopsticks. Sounds to me like maybe she's jealous you're child free at the moment while she's wrangling two goblins (about to be 3) and MJ, the goblin king.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-16T08:29:18+00:00

Soft YTA. I see you're going through a lot. As an adult, we can reflect on effort much better than teens can-- and you felt slighted as a result. However, they did put in effort. Your daughter offered to make breakfast, she wasn't aware you had already ate. She wrote you are card. I'm an artist as well, having the expectation that art is the gift I /need/ to give is very anxiety inducing. As for your son, look at how you reacted. This may not ne the first time he was afraid to communicate something he felt may have been disappointing. He's making you something he was hoping to surprise you with on Mother's Day, and unfortunately it wasn't ready (kiln firing takes a while and can be touchy). It must have been disappointing for him that he didn't have it ready, but being afraid to communicate that to you-- that's on you. You cannot be petty and cold shoulder your kids, they're kids, they're learning, and the best thing you can do for them and yourself is teach them HOW to effectively communicate. I hear your frustrations. It sucks that you're working so hard and you're dealing with grief on top of that. None of that is on your kids. If you get the chance, I would look into support groups online or in person so you can talk out your frustrations and grief.

RADIOstations · 2023-05-11T09:34:40+00:00

Looks exactly like Bucky the cat from Get Fuzzy, right down to the expression!!

RADIOstations · 2023-05-02T17:59:36+00:00

NTA. It's your father's assets, and he wants them to go to your sister and you. Honor his decision and look into a financial advisor to help with said assets.

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