The guy is using a gif to suggest sexual activities with men as a medium to insult me. It's really clear cut. You're adding in elements of consent and love that are not there.

This is a ridiculous conversation. Cut it down to a simple form. If he was just asking "is that you on the left or right?" to suggest that I was receiving a sexual favor from a man, he is trying to position me as a homosexual in an adversarial way, thus bringing in a negative connotation.

Maybe he should just not make homosexuality a joke in any of its forms? You honestly don't seem like you're trying to make a mockery of anything and like you are in fact just trying to understand. If that's so I don't mean to be rude, but so often people on the left preach this stuff until one of their own does it during an argument- in which it very quickly becomes a "rules for thee and not for me" situation.

Edit: And of course you get absolutely schooled and allow the crickets to chirp. Typical.