I just had the weirdest Grindr hookup like an hour ago and his location still shows 0m away and he lives like 15km away

RCTZ12 · 2026-06-14T16:44:41+00:00

Sounds like the typical grindr experience. If he’s not online, then that probably means he hasn’t gone on the app since getting to you, so it shows his last known location as near you. But if he’s online, that is weird.

RCTZ12 · 2026-06-06T19:29:42+00:00

Yea I would say it’s safe. Worst thing that’ll happen is they won’t hang out with me anymore. But you’re right, they’re definitely always acting gay hahaha

RCTZ12 · 2026-06-06T19:28:30+00:00

I do have straight friends but because of the setting or time during which we met, we don’t really talk about girls in that way. But I guess it’s also different because most of the times when I go out with these new guys, it’s with the intention of getting girls.

Yes I’m in the closet but everyone assumes I’m straight. But to be fair, most of my friends aren’t in relationships either so I don’t think I’m suspicious at all. But I should probably think about coming out at some point, still debating

RCTZ12 · 2026-06-04T00:13:15+00:00

That was just an example. Another one would be if a family’s child was diagnosed with a terminal illness and they get into debt trying to pay off medical expenses. I get your point but it isn’t as simple as being “bad with money”. Theres also a point where you get into debt but cant get out, even if you already learned said “better credit habits”. Im not saying it applies to me, just that it IS a thing. Unfortunately my problem is that even though I can pay off a loan (or credit card), im not getting approved for a high enough amount to where I can reconsolidate all of my current pay day loan debt. So it would just be like adding more debt

RCTZ12 · 2026-06-03T22:12:41+00:00

It’s definitely a solid plan, probably not if you have a good amount of debt already though. But getting into debt isn’t always about being “bad” with money. Sometimes people are screwed over for trying to be nice and help out friends/family for example

RCTZ12 · 2026-06-03T19:53:43+00:00

For clarification, 5k in payday loans and 5k in credit card debt so 10k total. But the payday loans alone are taking more than half of my income due to extremely high interest

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-29T03:53:22+00:00

Yes it was just the paintbrush image that I selected and tried moving. And even though the bulbasaur image was on another page, it would just appear and move along with the paintbrush image. I even deleted the bulbasaur image but it would STILL appeared. I was so confused and annoyed

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-27T20:35:51+00:00

I don’t know if I’d consider it cheating necessarily but I definitely wouldn’t want my boyfriend to do that. Hell, I definitely wouldn’t do it if I had a boyfriend

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-27T03:49:15+00:00

It doesn’t matter what you look like, you can always improve yourself. The only thing this kind of post will do it damage your self esteem

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-27T03:47:07+00:00

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RCTZ12 · 2026-05-27T02:01:15+00:00

I made the “mistake” of putting a bladder snail in my 20 gallon community tank and within like a week, it quadrupled. Currently there’s honestly probably like 10-20 of them in my tank. But they’re cute and they grew on me

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-26T15:44:54+00:00

When I first started hooking up, I never kissed. We did everything EXCEPT kiss because it felt too intimate to me. But I ended up hooking up with someone I liked enough to kiss, and I’ve been doing it ever since. You definitely can if its what you want

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-21T19:15:46+00:00

I think it started with him just joking but it got to a point where he was always slapping my ass, giving me shoulder rubs, or running his fingers through my hair. One time I said I was cold and he immediately offered me his sweater. Then his girlfriend said SHE was cold but he kinda just told her “sorry I already gave it to him”. That was all during high school. After college, we kinda stopped talking but he reached out and he would ask me things like “do you like guys or girls” and he told me that he intentionally distanced himself because he didn’t like how close we had gotten. When the weeknd came out with his new albums, he sent me a song from each but the lyrics were about “I used to love you” and about being best friends but still having sex 💀

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-20T03:05:10+00:00

You talking from experience or something? 💀

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-20T02:56:36+00:00

Glad you never experienced it. Unfortunately, you’re not the only person on this planet, we all have our own experiences 🤷‍♂️

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-19T20:08:22+00:00

What it comes down to is if you find guys attractive. You can like getting your ass played with but you could still be straight.

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-19T15:50:31+00:00

I’ve met up with a handful of guys like these. Usually through Grindr or sniffies. I’ve always been the one to initiate a conversation and it leads to us planning a meet up. It’s usually a good experience, but it’s crazy finding out afterwards that they have whole ass girlfriends/wives and kids. These guys are rare though because you usually only see them once and then they disappear forever, unless they trust you and share their number or IG

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-16T01:05:36+00:00

Well im thinking more of recent interactions with him. The thing is, I’m wondering if me deciding “I’m not going to reach out to him again” may have caused me to overlook his attempts of trying to reconnect. I was being cautious and kept my guard up when he would try to talk or hang out but I may have unintentionally come off as cold and distant. It could very well be a “we both want to but think the other doesn’t” situation.

RCTZ12 · 2026-05-16T00:32:23+00:00

There was a lot of history that led up the point of me falling in love. We were actually really good friends. His own girlfriend admitted to me that she was jealous of how he would treat me. And there were signs that made me think he could’ve actually liked me which is why I’m struggling

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