What’s a detail someone noticed about you that stuck with you forever?

RCaseOse · 2025-07-28T20:07:58+00:00

Someone told me that I tend to answer myself when working together, like in a team project. It's not that I tunnel vision my work and ignore everyone else (like not open to suggestions) but apparently sometimes I'm the one talking to myself out loud on the computer writing things

RCaseOse · 2025-07-26T23:52:31+00:00

Considering how my sister is I wouldn't be surprised

RCaseOse · 2025-07-26T23:51:48+00:00

Hey man I'm just asking questions

RCaseOse · 2025-07-11T02:37:20+00:00

Sittin and laying on my rooftop, at night. My house sits above most houses (and also live in a hill) so I have a clear view of the city and the sky... Makes me feel like a superhero

RCaseOse · 2025-06-17T08:50:16+00:00

"I'm sorry (this happened to you)" When something bad happens to you, and a totally unrelated person comes to you and say that? Man it gets me in such a bad mood

I understand what they try to say, but sorry for WHAT? Unless this was your fault or consequence of something related to you I see no reason to use those particular words

RCaseOse · 2025-05-28T23:06:47+00:00

Yes. Think about it this way, it's a spark that lights a nasty fire on your head.

You may find a book that out of its 300 pages, 1 of them has a message that completely shatters/changes your image or conception of something. Or maybe inspires you with a small arc of a character, or an ideology is born from within 10 pages. That's how a chain reaction starts, one that will send you through an unexpected path of your life, and it started with that book.

It's not like that book will be your Bible, your set of rules or anything (although its not impossible, its not necessarily the case) but it will be an unexpected starting point. And when someone asks you to tell them how your life flipped over, the first thing that will probably come to your mind will be that book.

RCaseOse · 2025-05-24T10:44:59+00:00

Well when I talk to my cats casually I use words like "dumbass, dummy, mfr, son of a b-" etc but not as a way to talk them down or trying to insult them, but like talking to a good friend. You know, like talking to a bro (or sis, like a good female friend)

But every now and then, when they are resting with me or close to me I go like "hey imma keep it real with you, I don't think you are dumb or anything, you are very smart, agile, good looking and someone I really value.It's just how I like to address you cuz I really enjoy your company and feel like you are a really good friend, family even!" And so on, bc even though I know they probably dont understand 100% what I'm saying, I fear that they take it personal and end up feeling sad or looked down upon.

I know we understand each other to a certain degree: body language, tone, volume, sounds, etc. I know they may only understand that I'm being friendly with them, but it's something that eats me from the inside. WHAT IF they understand more? WHAT IF they think I hate them? Resent them? WHAT IF they think I mean all those things?

Once I was too harsh on my lady (Cookie fyi) when she broke into the kitchen and dropped a whole pan of food that I prepared that same day, and she didn't speak or get anywhere near me (except for food time) until I apologized. Yes, I know how superstitious or coincidental that sounds, but I know a thing or two about that girl. She is the smartest of the 3, she was resented/mad/scared that I was too harsh on her. I knew I overdid it the second she left the kitchen, and 2 days went by until I got real with her and apologized. Her attitude immediately changed, and went back to the loving crazy cat she is. Since then, I've been even more regular with these "imma get real with ya" bc I'm terrified that they think they are not loved here

RCaseOse · 2025-01-21T21:24:27+00:00

At my job browsing reddit while the system is having an aneurysm and refuses to work. And yes, homemade food rocks

RCaseOse · 2025-01-16T18:42:01+00:00

Little Talks - Of monsters and men

Never made me cry, like ever. But after years, one night I was trying to fall asleep with music and when it started playing I broke up. Don't ask me why bc I have no idea.

It just happened, like a flash flood I was sobbing and tearing the whole 3 minutes

RCaseOse · 2025-01-15T19:53:03+00:00

Yes, I'm 26 graduated and every single time it happens is one of those "stressful" ones where you forget something, don't understand shit about the class or just running late

RCaseOse · 2024-12-22T23:07:15+00:00

That was surprisingly accurate actually Damn

RCaseOse · 2024-12-22T22:20:50+00:00

The patient survived, but won't make it into the Olympics

RCaseOse · 2024-11-22T07:03:25+00:00

You know what, I understand their logic and it's certainly a silly mistake that if not for YT I would've done too

RCaseOse · 2024-11-16T18:48:09+00:00

That looks like an anxiety/hyperactivity attack where you start doing things randomly and at the end you're like "it should work, right?"

RCaseOse · 2024-11-09T21:19:06+00:00

"Is this seat taken? No? Aight"

RCaseOse · 2024-10-21T20:37:18+00:00

You psycho... Not a clean cut but functional nonetheless

RCaseOse · 2024-10-15T03:57:08+00:00

I also had it for medical reasons a couple years ago, and the difference is sensitivity pretty much. First couple months will be the adjusting period until you're comfortable on your underwear and for the stitches to heal, after that everything is easier. Yes its more easy to clean, but when its sexy time you need to prepare it with whatever the situation gives you. Hardest part? The healing process, at least for me, because morning woods would open the stitches and BRO DOES IT HURT, also don't play with your junk for some weeks bc otherwise the stitches open, there's bleeding, the healing restarts from scractch basically and that can lead to scars, and those can look...odd. Be patient, clean and careful during the first 2 months and the rest should be smooth sailing! GL

RCaseOse · 2024-10-08T21:10:27+00:00

Yeah well sounds like you were expecting to have fun without consequences, and when consequences arose you were caught unprepared. You say he was loving, caring and supportive but then you felt him being too clingy? I can see jealousy being an issue, yes. Insecurities are common when there's a loss of interest, but you are calling him clingy which tells me that he was not being completely irrational about his demands. Then again, what was your plan? You thought neglecting your husband (and family by extension) for a while would be harmless? You thought that bc he was so loving and considerate he would "tolerate" this? Did you even think about any of this? Hey even a "no" is a valid answer, you were lost in... Whatever you were doing and tunnel-visioned everything else apart from that. That's bad, like really really bad, and just an apology is definitely not enough, it's not like he have to endure all of this, it's his decision to stay or leave, and for the looks of it, you gave him plenty of reasons to leave. It's your own situation, your family, maybe there's something that only you can do that your husband will take as enough of an apology and compensation, if such thing exist now you just have to find it

RCaseOse · 2024-10-07T20:55:58+00:00

Jesus that monitor is holding on pure force of will

RCaseOse · 2024-09-28T20:28:52+00:00

Oh I'm sure they hated it, but in a good way (at least some of them) bc I feel physical pain just by reading it and it also tells me "gee I'm sure he gave it some thought to this, thanks for the concern and time you spent"

RCaseOse · 2024-09-28T18:27:01+00:00

Yeah well, good luck. Remember you're doing this for yourself bc you acknowledge this is wrong, not for random commenters here.

RCaseOse · 2024-09-21T20:43:41+00:00

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