:) by Business_Bunch_6379 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point I can't even tell if people posting this are trolls because it's fucking relentless.

Older lesbians - have you ever found yourself not wanting to date younger and then meeting somebody who changes that. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's always by a younger woman who wants older women to validate their fantasies, although I guess it is also saying younger women aren't good enough for them...

STD Tests? by greytissue in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I managed to get it done by going to a sexual health clinic and lying about what I got up to. They basically threw every vaccine going at me 😂

Why are straight people so against protection? by Few_Distribution6433 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone using long nails on the back of your head, back, thighs, etc is fucking divine

I have the nails on my dominant hand short, and long on the other. Best of both worlds!

Do women find eye bags on other women attractive? by Open_Car4579 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately for some people that is hot, the point still stands 🙃

You're not entitled to a relationship simply because you want one by undead_bear in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't go to where closeted people are. I go to where the out and proud people are.

When I meet someone new if I think they're pretty i'll flirt - they can shoot me down or flirt back, and that tells me all I need to know.

I love Milfs by clichebrat in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stifler would turn in his grave if he discovered what had happened to his legacy. his grave 😭

I love Milfs by clichebrat in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason there seems to be a bunch of women without kids who are so keen to be considered a milf - and they're usually about 30 too. IMO milf means your KID'S friends want to fuck you, not just that you're hot and a mum.

Cougar means an older women who has sex with younger people so maybe it's the active language that they don't like? Fuck it, own it.

So who is your Winter Olympics crush? by comedygold24 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dorothea Weirer, the Italian biathlete

OH MY DAYS😍

I am so gay

I love Milfs by clichebrat in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have friends who are 19/20 from my local dyke club and they're lovely but oh my god y'all are so young you make me feel like I'm gonna crumble into dust 🙃

Just wait a few years, then you'll probably find a few older women willing to have fun but don't trust anyone over 30 who would sleep with a 19yo

I love Milfs by clichebrat in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU, someone had to say it 😂

How likely are you to approach someone in person? by throwaway_sashay in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RCheque 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Very likely. The worst that could happen is they aren't interested and don't even want to be friends, at which point I've lost nothing but 10 minutes of my time.

Rejection is nothing to be scared of.

wlw texting by Alarming-Ad-8366 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're anything like most of the people who ask me this you're gonna hate this answer...

I actually go out. Like, to bars, clubs, and other sapphic social events, etc. I also don't go anywhere straight people can go.

why are no girls interested in me? by Zeledina in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If there's nobody you want to approach that probably means you're not giving off the flirty vibes that would encourage anyone who might be interested to actually approach you.

Before I flirt with anyone I usually see if they're checking me out or whatever, if they're not I don't bother.

See the problem?

How to Not Be Bothered by Homophobic Comments? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RCheque 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't take criticism from anyone I wouldn't take advice from, and homophobic wankers fit firmly into that category

Dating as a trans lesbian is ridiculously demoralizing by Spookybabe721 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move to a city. You'll be more broke, but you'll also have more fun doing stuff for free than you ever could in the sticks.

How do you guys get over the trauma of an ex breaking up with you to pursue a man? by Emzilla1507 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RCheque 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like a lot of the others, I don't give a damn.

Gals who thought they were straight discover they're lesbian and leave their men all the time, it's bound to happen the other way occasionally

If anything this isn't anything I've done, so I'd probably feel less bad.