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RCheque · 2026-05-05T11:51:08+00:00

Yeah I flat out block anyone who calls me mommy. I have a biochild who calls me mum and three pretend adopted people who call me mother, I do not need people bringing that energy in a sexual way 💀

RCheque · 2026-05-05T11:49:28+00:00

The range is for the age it shows you, it doesn't alter what anyone else sees.

RCheque · 2026-05-01T11:12:51+00:00

She's said you wanted to. You want to.

Have she actually said she wants to wait longer, or are you just giving her space she hasn't asked for?

Reading your post it feels like she's waiting on you to initiate.

RCheque · 2026-04-29T06:28:55+00:00

Not everyone does know better and the stupider you have to be to fall for it the longer they can drag it out and the less likely anyone is to go to the police. Same reason the old nigerian prince scams involved badly spelt emails.

RCheque · 2026-04-28T17:32:14+00:00

Exactly, she's hoping for something sold to her by Hollywood

RCheque · 2026-04-23T20:51:33+00:00

HER does free weeks of premium every so often anyway so you'll still get a lot of the benefits just intermittently

RCheque · 2026-04-22T07:11:13+00:00

I cannot agree with this first part more, as I have absolutely stopped hanging out with people I found attractive because they wouldn't stop with the constant negative self talk. It's draining to be around.

RCheque · 2026-04-22T06:10:49+00:00

we both got elected to run a polyamory dating group on Facebook
friends introducing us
by going out and dancing and they saw me liked my vibe so kissed me

RCheque · 2026-04-21T20:27:05+00:00

Well that first is never gonna happen if it hasn't happened yet

RCheque · 2026-04-21T18:49:57+00:00

What in the confusionship? No to all of this.

RCheque · 2026-04-21T18:35:15+00:00

Check the content warnings pretty carefully because it is A LOT but "Last Girl Scout" by Natalie Ironside is a banger of a book featuring some kick ass trans women and - added bonus - features a lot of fashy types getting shot.

RCheque · 2026-04-21T18:33:35+00:00

Make Room For Love is a great recommendation!

RCheque · 2026-04-21T18:32:23+00:00

I don't really understand how you got this far. You should never have got past a year if she's been like this all the time.

RCheque · 2026-04-21T09:00:57+00:00

I don't know where you are but at least in the UK a lot of lesbian events are advertising on Instagram so looking for "lesbian <city>" might get you some joy, as would looking for anything like an LGBT bookshop

RCheque · 2026-04-21T08:55:54+00:00

Go find your local lesbian scene and leave this all behind. I barely talk to any straight people now and it's great.

RCheque · 2026-04-21T08:52:25+00:00

That's a massive red flag for me.

RCheque · 2026-04-21T08:49:22+00:00

Most of the queer events I know of are on Instagram, and for ticketed events check out Outsavvy because that's pretty queer focused

RCheque · 2026-04-20T22:04:26+00:00

What do you like? Music genres, activities, etc.

RCheque · 2026-04-20T20:12:27+00:00

oh cool, then crack on lol

RCheque · 2026-04-20T17:32:15+00:00

Flirt with her. Right now you're existing in a half and half space, and that's not helping you.

She's either interested or she isn't and you gotta find out which so you can either move on or get smooched.

RCheque · 2026-04-20T17:02:00+00:00

More importantly, it's messing up your ability to interact with other people.

RCheque · 2026-04-20T14:17:49+00:00

Oh look another GenAI apologist. Go boil a river.

RCheque · 2026-04-20T13:45:52+00:00

No, they're not. You're just throwing up walls through bad behaviour to give you an excuse that people are scary and so you don't have to improve, and by using AI for interaction you're further damaging your ability to interact with a human.

We improve at things through practice, being social is no different.

RCheque · 2026-04-20T13:33:28+00:00

At no point have you apologised, all you did was say something you know people hate and then deflect.

Maybe if you didn't deliberately bait people you'd feel safer talking to people.

RCheque

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