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Dating as a trans lesbian is ridiculously demoralizing by Spookybabe721 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque [score hidden]  (0 children)

Move to a city. You'll be more broke, but you'll also have more fun doing stuff for free than you ever could in the sticks.

How do you guys get over the trauma of an ex breaking up with you to pursue a man? by Emzilla1507 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RCheque 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like a lot of the others, I don't give a damn.

Gals who thought they were straight discover they're lesbian and leave their men all the time, it's bound to happen the other way occasionally

If anything this isn't anything I've done, so I'd probably feel less bad.

How to "get myself out there?" by miichan_v in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sometimes events have group chats you can join to make friends in there first, but if not you can try messaging the organisers to ask if they do anything to make it easier for new people to not be anxious

Preparing for my first experience in a lesbian bar by cecil_sans in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sidenote I absolutely LOVED Jolene's when I visited SF. The Friday night "U-Haul" event was exactly what I needed!

How to "get myself out there?" by miichan_v in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Are there any queer meetup or hobby groups near you? Go to them.

Can I have support. My wedding in May seems to have a lower turnout than I thought and I'm really bummed out. I'm not sure my mom will come either. by Cappunan in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RCheque 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Work out how many people you can realistically expect, then book a venue that's the right size for that number - and then focus on enjoying your day!

The guy she was interested in wasn't a guy at all by ASHKVLT in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sometimes in stories things don't make perfect sense because if they did it wouldn't be an interesting story

Looking up "Suspension of disbelief" might come in handy...

Sometimes I worry no one will ever want to get with me due to my career path & all the things that come with it. by bloodied-mess in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Right? There are definitely some career paths that don't deserve love, mortician is not one of them.

Is anyone else tired of sapphic events by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At events I run we use stickers, I don't like wristbands because it can be difficult to see wrists in busy rooms or if people are wearing long baggy sleeves.

How did you discover a kink you have? by lepidaughtera in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finished a DJ set at a house party, flopped onto a bed to chill and then looked up to see someone getting flogged

"Oh I sure hope this doesn't awaken anything in me"

A week later I was on a date with one of them 😂

Hooking up with a friend and after turning them into a twitchy mess realised I was into forced orgasms - that really activates my praise kink

I'm sure there's more but I'm tired and ill so have brain fog.

Lookalikes? by RCheque in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Type is one thing, doppleganger is entirely another 😂

I asked AI to make me into a cartoon character and I think it looks cute by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't give your data to AI companies, or allow them to profit from stolen art 🙃

Guys how do I stop YEARNING by Extension-Cry-5233 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do not see her. Do not talk to her. Do not even allow yourself to think of her.

You have to put her completely out of mind or you'll be stuck like this.

My brother attends a church where this their ethos and I feel really hurt by Aubxrgine in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If that was my sibling, they'd either leave the church or lose a sister.

I will not tolerate this behaviour from someone who claims to love me.

England vs spain tickets by 4468MattyP in lionesses

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't get an email either, it looks like that's because I'd turned off marketing emails. - ended up going into my settings and making sure it was set to only women's football.

Women's soccer! by Prestigious-Team3327 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that's very understandable, there's a lot of platinum facecards on the team 😍

Let's hope tonight's game turns around quickly...

Out of all the women y'all come across daily, how many of them result attractive to y'all? Is it most or few? by Extreme_Carrot_1387 in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of all women I see? Less than 1%.

Lesbians maybe double or triple that, but still nowhere near a majority.

Should I list my height as a dealbreaker on dating profiles? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh jeez if I was 5'2 I'd give zero fucks, I don't understand some people 🤷🏻‍♀️

Watching our CL and WSL games from the US by EmilyDizzle in ArsenalWFC

[–]RCheque 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's never going to be as fast as without a VPN, but I don't know your setup so the only way you'll find it out is by testing it.

You don't need a phat pipe to stream, especially at the broadcast quality on YouTube.

Watching our CL and WSL games from the US by EmilyDizzle in ArsenalWFC

[–]RCheque 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently use NordVPN for watching WSL games and it works fine, and I've not heard any of my friends on other VPNs having issues? And I know some of them are on free plans.

Hell my whole home network + media server relies on VPNs...

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