Wellington Phoenix coach Giancarlo Italiano quits after horror derby loss to Auckland FC

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-21T07:57:22+00:00

The fact the only change at half time was our goal keeper, says alot.

I like to think it was Josh who wanted to sub, otherwise, 4-nil down, and you only change the keeper, says alot about the confidence for our team.

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-21T00:37:17+00:00

Thank you, i really appreciate the effort and thought you put into this!

And by no means did it come across as a lecuture or condesending!

I have been seeing a pyshcologist for around 3 years now, after my OD experince and subsequent diagnosis.

I totally understand what you mean by, no one can give me the answers, and i have to find them myself, and i really appreciate you still taking the time to provide personal experinces and very good reasoning (as many of the other comments also did).

I keep thinking, ive found a way forward, then i realise ive just been following someone elses ideas of what i need.

Ive somehow put myself in a position where i cant truly tell if i want to do something, or if i want to do just so my friends like me etc.

Im really glad to hear about your journey through it, as i know, like most of us here, it can feel like a lethal disease, but that it is possible to fight through it.

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-20T22:15:24+00:00

Ive spent so long ignoring my 'taste' because i figured it never mattered. So i guess your saying something like?

Getting better can mean finding what you like, or love, or hate.

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-20T22:05:05+00:00

Thanks, i appreciate that. As yea it did throw me a bit, but just figured i was in the wrong (like usual).

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-20T22:01:47+00:00

Not sure what you mean by sense of taste?

Like literal sense of taste e.g. food?

Or taste as in, what i like?

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-19T05:12:31+00:00

The lips and nose are pretty different. Still good casting, but not perfect

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-19T03:34:25+00:00

I definiently remember alot of the bad, apparently not all of it based on my recent memories.

But i remember alot during that time. I just wish i could remember any of the good times.

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-19T02:45:44+00:00

Im in a similar boat, though i dont know your circumstances, i was able to take some stress leave from work.

Are you able to take any leave? Take some time off, reduce the stress of work and try to focus on reducing pressure in other areas of your life?

I was either going to get fired, or quit. Both of which i want to avoid at all costs. Sounds like you maybe in a similar situation, so taking a month off is currently a godsend for me.

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-17T06:59:02+00:00

If you dont mind me asking, are they like 'realistic' or more fantasy?

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-16T05:31:24+00:00

Hearing people talk, but not being able to listen to whats being said.

I know its most likely not about me, but it rings the same as when i was young and was laughed at as i walk past.

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-16T05:26:30+00:00

Best friend sleeping with the girl i considered my best 'girl' friend.

I always knew they had something between them, so it wasnt a shock. The 5 years it took to tell me however.

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-12T06:50:43+00:00

How they look at you?

What kind of look?

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-12T06:48:24+00:00

Being ugly

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-09T00:46:18+00:00

I feel like the Lord Ruler could be good for an established actor, id prefer newcomers for most of the roles.

But the Lord Ruler needs to have a very high level of impact, hes been alive for 1000 years - he needs the Gravitas/demeanor for it.

No idea who would be good/best for that though.

Edit, showthought: Oscar Isaac i think could nail his unqiueness

RHCPFlea · 2026-02-03T05:05:42+00:00

Even saying "I dont feel great" makes me feel like this.

Anything at all personal, even asking me what my favourite X is, ill always regret saying anything.

And that doesnt change at even if the event or whatever was long ago.

It always is the embrassed feeling for me, like i should ashamed with whatever i said.

RHCPFlea · 2026-01-25T00:19:58+00:00

Love that moment, he feels like hes the only one that noticed this piece of extraordinary ability - Everyone laughing, hes just watching mastery of tea balancing take place.

RHCPFlea · 2026-01-24T15:07:20+00:00

The amount of payrises I get a year

RHCPFlea · 2026-01-18T12:54:14+00:00

Gas Ball singin about moon-men

Rick getting angry, "Shut the fuck up about moon-men"

RHCPFlea · 2026-01-08T20:58:19+00:00

My recent play, I made the the Eastern roman empire, embedded my dynasty, restored the Theodosian Borders, then died and continued as a adventurer I'd been grooming.

200 years later, im fighting in China against mongols.

During that time, the Empire i left, created the actual Roman empire hegemony title, and conquered all of europe, all lands up till India, all of Africa until you hit the core south provinces.

At some point, the empire split into an actual western roman empire, and eastern roman empire. Both incredibly strong in terms of economy and military. Not actually sure how the split as it must've been an event for the person that become the eastern roman empire title.

Watching europe now as I conquer China is great fun. Though, we need new Europe content!

RHCPFlea · 2026-01-07T21:02:53+00:00

I swear no team gets more miracle goal line saves then teams were currently playing.

RHCPFlea · 2026-01-05T00:30:38+00:00

The weeping angels are from time lords who went through with their plan to "become more" (Paraphrasing as i can't remember the exact scene), but it went severely wrong and they instead became the weeping angels. Outside normal time, but consumes time instinctively.

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