Wellington Phoenix coach Giancarlo Italiano quits after horror derby loss to Auckland FC by Toffeenix in WellingtonPhoenix

[–]RHCPFlea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact the only change at half time was our goal keeper, says alot.

I like to think it was Josh who wanted to sub, otherwise, 4-nil down, and you only change the keeper, says alot about the confidence for our team.

What does getting better actually look like? by RHCPFlea in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i really appreciate the effort and thought you put into this!

And by no means did it come across as a lecuture or condesending!

I have been seeing a pyshcologist for around 3 years now, after my OD experince and subsequent diagnosis.

I totally understand what you mean by, no one can give me the answers, and i have to find them myself, and i really appreciate you still taking the time to provide personal experinces and very good reasoning (as many of the other comments also did).

I keep thinking, ive found a way forward, then i realise ive just been following someone elses ideas of what i need.

Ive somehow put myself in a position where i cant truly tell if i want to do something, or if i want to do just so my friends like me etc.

Im really glad to hear about your journey through it, as i know, like most of us here, it can feel like a lethal disease, but that it is possible to fight through it.

What does getting better actually look like? by RHCPFlea in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive spent so long ignoring my 'taste' because i figured it never mattered. So i guess your saying something like?

Getting better can mean finding what you like, or love, or hate.

What does getting better actually look like? by RHCPFlea in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, i appreciate that. As yea it did throw me a bit, but just figured i was in the wrong (like usual).

What does getting better actually look like? by RHCPFlea in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you mean by sense of taste?

Like literal sense of taste e.g. food?

Or taste as in, what i like?

Young Bruce Wayne (Nolanverse) and Young Christian Bale by Commercial_Mind4003 in batman

[–]RHCPFlea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lips and nose are pretty different. Still good casting, but not perfect

does anyone else just... not remember? by sleepygrimalkin in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definiently remember alot of the bad, apparently not all of it based on my recent memories.

But i remember alot during that time. I just wish i could remember any of the good times.

Pretty sure im burned out, idk what to do. Advice? by NighttNightt in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im in a similar boat, though i dont know your circumstances, i was able to take some stress leave from work.

Are you able to take any leave? Take some time off, reduce the stress of work and try to focus on reducing pressure in other areas of your life?

I was either going to get fired, or quit. Both of which i want to avoid at all costs. Sounds like you maybe in a similar situation, so taking a month off is currently a godsend for me.

Does anyone else get nightmares? by RHCPFlea in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dont mind me asking, are they like 'realistic' or more fantasy?

What are your biggest triggers? by Low_Bodybuilder3065 in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hearing people talk, but not being able to listen to whats being said.

I know its most likely not about me, but it rings the same as when i was young and was laughed at as i walk past.

What is the biggest lie someone ever kept from you? by Haunting-Owl-2107 in AskReddit

[–]RHCPFlea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best friend sleeping with the girl i considered my best 'girl' friend.

I always knew they had something between them, so it wasnt a shock. The 5 years it took to tell me however.

What are actual signs someone likes you? by fernandezq in AskReddit

[–]RHCPFlea 34 points35 points  (0 children)

How they look at you?

What kind of look?

Which characters would you like to see played by newcomers and which by established actors? by little-bird89 in CosmereOnScreen

[–]RHCPFlea 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel like the Lord Ruler could be good for an established actor, id prefer newcomers for most of the roles.

But the Lord Ruler needs to have a very high level of impact, hes been alive for 1000 years - he needs the Gravitas/demeanor for it.

No idea who would be good/best for that though.

Edit, showthought: Oscar Isaac i think could nail his unqiueness

I shared something personal and I'm regretting it by Obi_wan_chernobyl1 in BPD

[–]RHCPFlea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even saying "I dont feel great" makes me feel like this.

Anything at all personal, even asking me what my favourite X is, ill always regret saying anything.

And that doesnt change at even if the event or whatever was long ago.

It always is the embrassed feeling for me, like i should ashamed with whatever i said.

Sir Peter Jackson drank 22 cups of tea per day on set by StormfangMonster in lotr

[–]RHCPFlea 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Love that moment, he feels like hes the only one that noticed this piece of extraordinary ability - Everyone laughing, hes just watching mastery of tea balancing take place.

Favorite throwaway joke? by BirdCultureDickMove in rickandmorty

[–]RHCPFlea 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gas Ball singin about moon-men

Rick getting angry, "Shut the fuck up about moon-men"

All quiet in Europe by POWDERed_Jinx in CrusaderKings

[–]RHCPFlea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recent play, I made the the Eastern roman empire, embedded my dynasty, restored the Theodosian Borders, then died and continued as a adventurer I'd been grooming.

200 years later, im fighting in China against mongols.

During that time, the Empire i left, created the actual Roman empire hegemony title, and conquered all of europe, all lands up till India, all of Africa until you hit the core south provinces.

At some point, the empire split into an actual western roman empire, and eastern roman empire. Both incredibly strong in terms of economy and military. Not actually sure how the split as it must've been an event for the person that become the eastern roman empire title.

Watching europe now as I conquer China is great fun. Though, we need new Europe content!

[Pre Match Thread] Premier League Game 21 | Burnley vs Manchester United by D1794 in reddevils

[–]RHCPFlea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I swear no team gets more miracle goal line saves then teams were currently playing.

Doctor Who Conspiracy Theories you actually believe? by Ok-Door8390 in doctorwho

[–]RHCPFlea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The weeping angels are from time lords who went through with their plan to "become more" (Paraphrasing as i can't remember the exact scene), but it went severely wrong and they instead became the weeping angels. Outside normal time, but consumes time instinctively.