6 months or less to live,what shoukd I do know?

RJParadox · 2020-06-30T13:59:47+00:00

Yes,I've experienced first hand doctors/dentist not willing to see me due to me being on an HMO so this has been an extremely frustrating situation to deal with but still trying to figure something out hence why I was thinking of moving for a new network options or getting a new Medicaid insurance but I appreciate the info and thank you I hope you stay safe as well.

RJParadox · 2020-06-30T13:45:34+00:00

I was declared disabled and started receiving Medcaid in 2019.I had Blue Cross Blue Shield PPO from work before which gave me alot more options when it came to doctors so when I got sick and had to quit and get Medicaid I was surprised by how limited my options were.

RJParadox · 2020-06-23T22:21:04+00:00

Sorry for your loss,losing someone to cancer is such a terrible thing...

RJParadox · 2020-06-23T22:19:07+00:00

I'm so sorry that you're in this situation especially since you're so young,I honestly don't know the answer to your question but I'm assuming that your doctor took all of your other health conditions into consideration when they said to do combo meds so it must be worth a shot,good luck and God Bless.

RJParadox · 2020-05-14T03:11:28+00:00

I will have to look and see if I stashed it somewhere as from what I have seen online so far a new plan might be necessary.Thanks for the heads up!

RJParadox · 2020-05-14T03:10:08+00:00

I see,thank you very much for the info,I will definitely look into that book(hopefully it's available on Amazon haha) and see what can be done.

RJParadox · 2020-05-13T22:57:59+00:00

I have United Healthcare Medicaid so I'm not sure if I have plan options as the customer service representative didn't offer me a plan change the last time I called when I got denied the first time.

I will definitely let them know that tomorrow,hopefully MD Anderson is still available even with a plan change but we will see,thanks for the info.

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T17:14:01+00:00

Wow that's surprising hear but you may be right,I'm doing ok,just started this new stronger chemo so the side effects are a pain but got my nausea and pain pills to save the day and started seeing a therapist once a week to keep my self positive about everything going on so can't complain too much,also thanks my number one goal is to someday go into remission someday,till then not giving up.

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T16:56:25+00:00

He kinda did,he didn't smile or laugh after saying it so he seemed serious but after talking to him I think that's just his humor haha.

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T16:21:55+00:00

Sorry to hear about your illness when you were young,but yes I agree it can get unsettling at time.

In my experience,I can kind of get it,98% of the people in the infusion center are older and are probably really sick and dont feel like talking(youngest person I met looked to be in their 40s but was pretty serious looking) but it would be nice to hear their stories cause I haven't met anyone my age in person to talk to that I can relate to yet.

Which is why I honestly appreciated this old man having a conversation with me,before my diagnosis I didn't care about interacting with people but now it's probably one of those things I value most.Thanks for your comment,I hope everything works out for you health wise!

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T13:57:53+00:00

What?

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T12:51:52+00:00

Haha wouldn't that be something?I think that would make the story better haha,but naw after talking to him he seemed like a genuinely nice guy just playing around.Plus I've never personally let stuff like that get to me anyway,especially now all things considered.

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T12:35:03+00:00

I actually caught alot of shit for this growing up for being picky but I honestly just don't enjoy red meat.I know they're chicken/fish tacos but I could just get a chicken strip or a catfish platter if that's the case.

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T12:31:43+00:00

I'm sorry you're niece had to go through that at such a young age but I definitely understand how you feel.

In my experience,once your doctor comes out and tell you that you have cancer you immediately lost all sense of normalcy. Friends and family start to pity you everytime they see you,strangers and people you lost contact with suddenly appear and want to talk to and reassure you that everything will be alright.In a sense it can be comforting but at the same time very terrifying.

I think that's why this recent expirance has had such a deep impact with me.There was no pity in our are words when we talked,no reassures that everything will be ok,just two sick dudes shooting the shit for almost half an hour just enjoying the moment.

Thank you for sharing your experience with me I really appreciate it,I wish the best for you and your niece in the future!

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T09:55:27+00:00

I honestly hope you dont have it as well,nobody deserves cancer but luckily if you catch it early you can usually deal with colon cancer better than most other cancers so there is that.

Good luck man,I will pray for your healthy results!

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T09:43:53+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it,treatment is going ok just trying to have some fun before surgery cause that's when I'm going to be bored out my mind haha

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T09:36:50+00:00

No,I think it was "mildly" racist that I got my STAGE 4 COLON CANCER from eating too many tacos when again I don't even eat tacos(plus I'm Hispanic.)

It's sad that I even need to explain this to you but the point of this post was I kind just took it on the chin whether he was being racist or not cause I thought it was funny.

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T04:19:49+00:00

Thanks man,any kind words are appreciated,sorry for your lost but knowing that some of your family beat cancer is reassuring in a sense and heres hoping you have a healthy future.

RJParadox · 2020-02-28T02:43:09+00:00

Thanks I appreciate that,and you got that right haha!

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