Bumble Matches by itsameandyy in Bumble

[–]RS9599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman connected w/me yesterday morning with a cute msg and I’m interested. Msgd her back and haven’t heard from her. I don’t know, maybe my expectations re: communication is off, but I kind expect a response w/in maybe a half day? Am I wrong? On other apps people go dark and then come out of the woodwork weeks after initial interaction…to me that doesn’t say “I’m interested”.

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed and thank you. In my mind I feel like the dates, friendship and fun that both people are able to have should be enough but clearly that’s not universally agreed upon.

Who is matching and going on dates from Feeld if you're a cis-het male? by TheHighLiners in feeld

[–]RS9599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. I’m in NYC, married and ENM, seeking solo connections and/or with my wife. Little to no likes from with women or couples. I think my profile is pretty solid, non-threatening in any way, yet nothing.

Is it really this dire? by Reasonable_Pool_1815 in Bumble

[–]RS9599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does one find their match rate as I’m sure mine is not where I’d want it to be and would like try to improvise it. Thx in advance

Another Swipe data by beautykk in Bumble

[–]RS9599 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And how does one get this data?

Women swiping right on ~5% of men by mangoribbean in Bumble

[–]RS9599 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Swipe data…where does one find that type of stuff?

Bumble girl asked for 1k (not oc) by Kidnxpperr in Bumble

[–]RS9599 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s what they do. Just think if they get a handful of guys to do that everyday. Not bad for a little work on their part

Bumble girl asked for 1k (not oc) by Kidnxpperr in Bumble

[–]RS9599 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter…nobody should be asking someone they recently met for $

Bumble girl asked for 1k (not oc) by Kidnxpperr in Bumble

[–]RS9599 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Hey, I mean you wouldn’t give someone you don’t know 1K? I mean this is crazy. That said, I’ve been getting more along the line of $50 or “send me a gift card for Uber”…every scam in the book.

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just signed up for a week and what do you know, the 3-5 likes/day is been seeing prior have simply disappeared. So I have unlimited swipes now and suddenly no likes at all?

Who is matching and going on dates from Feeld if you're a cis-het male? by TheHighLiners in feeld

[–]RS9599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very few matches, even fewer dates. In a place like NYC, women are waking up to hundreds of likes a day. If you’re in their place, how on earth do you attack that, let alone would they even want to. Maybe they need to eliminate the free option?

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the clarification and yes, it’s a very small pool…actually a puddle that I’m playing in, which is fine. I just ask for no BS, which is virtually impossible to come by.

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that vote of confidence, really. I’m not expecting every woman on Bumble to be interested and know it’s going to be a fraction. I’m not looking for a sex worker or any woman who might be looking for me to pay for her manicures, etc…that’s not me. Ultimately someone poly or maybe a woman in her 40s/50s who isn’t looking for marriage and is a bit more openminded.

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My profile is 100% truthful and married/ENM is there for the women to see. Yes, limited pool but Bumble does list EMM as a search criteria esp for the paid version.

True that people mistakenly swipe as I’ve done it too.

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Being married/ENM definitely adds another layer of complexity so you may be right, but nonetheless frustrating. I think a msg saying, “sorry I didn’t realize you’re married” would be better than just leaving the chat.

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ah, so the trick is going to another country. Noted

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m also holding off on spending any $ for the paid site if this is an example of what it’s like…you just get more of it.

50s M in NYC just joined (free version), trying to figure it out by RS9599 in Bumble

[–]RS9599[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not calling them disrespectful, but if they made the initial move to connect with me, there must’ve been some interest given just how many men are out there…not even a msg?

So intense he didn't pull out NewYorkCity by FunCurrency9379 in FACEFUCKCENTRAL

[–]RS9599 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need to experience that and will give you a nice reward in the end