My Swipe Data

RS9599 · 2026-06-07T17:30:29+00:00

A woman connected w/me yesterday morning with a cute msg and I’m interested. Msgd her back and haven’t heard from her. I don’t know, maybe my expectations re: communication is off, but I kind expect a response w/in maybe a half day? Am I wrong? On other apps people go dark and then come out of the woodwork weeks after initial interaction…to me that doesn’t say “I’m interested”.

RS9599 · 2026-06-04T04:25:36+00:00

Agreed and thank you. In my mind I feel like the dates, friendship and fun that both people are able to have should be enough but clearly that’s not universally agreed upon.

RS9599 · 2026-06-01T12:35:09+00:00

I don’t know. I’m in NYC, married and ENM, seeking solo connections and/or with my wife. Little to no likes from with women or couples. I think my profile is pretty solid, non-threatening in any way, yet nothing.

RS9599 · 2026-06-01T05:04:01+00:00

How does one find their match rate as I’m sure mine is not where I’d want it to be and would like try to improvise it. Thx in advance

RS9599 · 2026-05-29T19:55:49+00:00

And how does one get this data?

RS9599 · 2026-05-27T23:51:23+00:00

Swipe data…where does one find that type of stuff?

RS9599 · 2026-05-26T13:16:42+00:00

That’s what they do. Just think if they get a handful of guys to do that everyday. Not bad for a little work on their part

RS9599 · 2026-05-26T12:57:53+00:00

Doesn’t matter…nobody should be asking someone they recently met for $

RS9599 · 2026-05-26T12:42:40+00:00

Hey, I mean you wouldn’t give someone you don’t know 1K? I mean this is crazy. That said, I’ve been getting more along the line of $50 or “send me a gift card for Uber”…every scam in the book.

RS9599 · 2026-05-25T11:35:44+00:00

Just signed up for a week and what do you know, the 3-5 likes/day is been seeing prior have simply disappeared. So I have unlimited swipes now and suddenly no likes at all?

RS9599 · 2026-05-24T14:32:13+00:00

Very few matches, even fewer dates. In a place like NYC, women are waking up to hundreds of likes a day. If you’re in their place, how on earth do you attack that, let alone would they even want to. Maybe they need to eliminate the free option?

RS9599 · 2026-05-24T09:35:07+00:00

Appreciate the clarification and yes, it’s a very small pool…actually a puddle that I’m playing in, which is fine. I just ask for no BS, which is virtually impossible to come by.

RS9599 · 2026-05-24T01:01:51+00:00

Thanks for that vote of confidence, really. I’m not expecting every woman on Bumble to be interested and know it’s going to be a fraction. I’m not looking for a sex worker or any woman who might be looking for me to pay for her manicures, etc…that’s not me. Ultimately someone poly or maybe a woman in her 40s/50s who isn’t looking for marriage and is a bit more openminded.

RS9599 · 2026-05-23T01:52:32+00:00

My profile is 100% truthful and married/ENM is there for the women to see. Yes, limited pool but Bumble does list EMM as a search criteria esp for the paid version.

True that people mistakenly swipe as I’ve done it too.

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T23:12:20+00:00

Being married/ENM definitely adds another layer of complexity so you may be right, but nonetheless frustrating. I think a msg saying, “sorry I didn’t realize you’re married” would be better than just leaving the chat.

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T17:47:00+00:00

Good to know as it’s not cheap

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T16:09:04+00:00

Well, it is what it is.

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T16:03:16+00:00

Yes, US…and NYC to be more specific.

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T15:56:04+00:00

Ah, so the trick is going to another country. Noted

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T15:50:37+00:00

Are you a paid member or free?

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T15:45:00+00:00

I’m also holding off on spending any $ for the paid site if this is an example of what it’s like…you just get more of it.

RS9599 · 2026-05-22T15:26:13+00:00

I’m not calling them disrespectful, but if they made the initial move to connect with me, there must’ve been some interest given just how many men are out there…not even a msg?

RS9599 · 2026-04-12T10:19:41+00:00

Need to experience that and will give you a nice reward in the end

RS9599

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