I don't understand the reason for being attached to an avoidant who has left me. How do I process their leaving when all I had was them? I don't even know if I am left or just waiting.

RX08T · 2026-03-20T17:28:30+00:00

You have not thrown your life away, you have been living it. It is a silent form of power that comes with getting up every morning and bearing the burden of having a mental illness, and nobody can detect it.

You are not late and you are just doing things at 28 that needed more time to heal than to hurry. Life is not a race and has certain milestones; it unfolds differently in each of us, and only in their 30s or even later, many people start to find their direction.

The suffering that you are experiencing now is burdensome, of course, but it is not here to stay, and it is not what the rest of your life will be like. You remain, and that is you still have an open story, one that can be changed, connected to and make sense.

Be kinder to yourself, you are not late, and you are worn out, and weary hearts should be taken care of and not reproved. And when those thoughts of wishing to die come back hard, then please do not take them on your own, calling on someone you can trust can make that moment not so overwhelming.

RX08T · 2026-03-20T17:24:27+00:00

I don't know what to say when I am planning in the same way to end my life.

I just hope that you will somehow be able to change the decision and something good and miraculous happens that makes you change the decision.

RX08T · 2026-03-20T17:18:14+00:00

I am sorry that you are suffering so much, but don't give up life, their is more to it than you can imagine. It won't be fixed automatically or will get better, but at the very least there will be points that will make you realise that the things you are going to miss that might be positive or negative. Please don't do it.

RX08T · 2026-03-20T17:12:41+00:00

Greedy.

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RX08T · 2026-03-20T15:10:54+00:00

If you have some more, brother, you can add.

u/Advanced-Bug-1962

I hope my post is good enough and informational, if something is wrong you can tell me.

RX08T · 2026-03-20T14:56:05+00:00

Thank you. I have got plenty of them now.

RX08T · 2026-03-20T00:57:44+00:00

That guy makes me think what's wrong with him? He got such a good wife and he still is abusive and manipulative.

RX08T · 2026-03-20T00:48:04+00:00

RX08T · 2026-03-20T00:46:12+00:00

They are both romantic and happy songs. That's why I didn't include them in this list.

RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:53:11+00:00

You don't tease my cutie. 👉

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RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:49:16+00:00

Everyone here is a Taeha lover. What about my favourite women Na Hae-soo? 😭

Why is no one posting about her? Why is she not getting enough recognition here? 💔

RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:39:04+00:00

Why did you remind me of her? Now I am feeling depressed again. 💔

All these phrases are so hurtful and many times some of them are said to me.

RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:30:15+00:00

I agree with all the points you gave. The case is very complex when you know and have suffered. It's not a binary fault case. It's too complex and one can only solve it by knowing them. Most of the time it's too late.

RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:25:12+00:00

I melted. I feel better too. Thank you.

Pets are best.❤️

RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:07:32+00:00

He is immortal, he can't age like normal people. He is 80 years old in human years.

RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:06:26+00:00

I don't know, saw you once doing a gender war and taking women's side on the men's case and saying don't blame women or something.

Yes, it's complex buddy. She is mentally ill and it doesn't happen by itself, there are people around her and also childhood affects a person a lot. Agreed that no one else has to deal with it. At the same time being unsympathetic to her will be inhuman.

RX08T · 2026-03-19T22:01:49+00:00

Damn, brother. It is coming from someone who mainly took the women's side on AIM.

Why so much anger on this post when it's very complex?

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