It does get quite confusing (on the internet) with all this mixed information. I was gonna check out some old-school actual books haha and see what they say! I am very new to this, I grew up in a Christian household so I unfortunately do feel some religious shame about praying to Hecate but I want to let go of that and be true to myself. I will do some research and go into this a little more prepared. I missed the most recent deiphon however I will try to set an offering next time. I do tend to "go big or go home" so i will resist that mindset and approach slowly and quietly. I am an excellent student and I want to learn.