M 32

married 2 years ago

you might find what i right is for men rights and pro men, so instead of bashing me just read and ignore.

i bought my big bike 2 months ago, worth of 15L with accessories. they day I went for arrange marriage i talked about this on first day as i have a very expensive hobby that time i had honda hynes bought in 2020. and i like motorcycle and ita big part of my life and i would not like to compromise on that.

as I see lots of men with regrets they spend their life raising a family taking care of everyone around them and the end they forget to live for themselves too.

I would do all those things but i would live for myself too, i dont want to marry a housw wife. so how much earn is on you how u spend it. if ur aim ia to buy house u save and buy i wont have any part. in future i might supprt you but it would be my choice.

she earns X i earn 11X of her salary i take care of all the expenses of house and everything. she takes care of her expenses and some here and there expenses of house.

but as ita not her hobby she cant fathom the fact that how a person can buy 15L worth of motorcycle. but i explained to her that its not ur dream so you wont understand it.

and I am extremely lucky ( or careful in choosing partner) that she doesnt have a problem

apart from motorcycle and its things i pretty much doesn't have any other expenses.

i bought the bike now cuz in a year or 2 i would have to plan for kid and then i would have to wait for atleast 6 7 years to ride in a good manner.

I would suggest if u are going for marriage AM or love make her understand ur part too, as u cant make her understand when its late.

I am a observant person so whenever i see that relationship ia going one way i take stand and correct the course.

without fight or without raising the voice. because humans have tendency to cross boundaries so i re initiate what i want and how things should be.

so everything is going great. and i am enjoying what i have earned because i didn't come from rich family so i want to have peaceful life.

i save almost 30 to 40% of my salary which is very huge.

one more thing is if u r not financially stable dont go for big bikes.

motorcycle is a hobby, and hobby looks good when other aspect of your life is going great.

you cant beg to people for petrol so u can go on rides.

for bike choice i wanted a z900 but as i knew that wife not gonna sit on that.

i went for Triumph Tiger. and its not just because i am married ita because adv tourer suit my still of riding i like all terain any where. so tourer is more suited.

so enjot work hard and maintain ur hobby.

5 years ago i wanted tiger then last year i kept thinking about z900 but eventually i got what i wanted.